Jan 30, 2015
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Betrayal and Ball Ache
On the pain specifically, because I have a lot of experience with neuropathic pain in general and scrotal neuropathic pain in particular: The standard prescription is for Gapapentin, which is an incredibly safe drug to take. It's not an NSAID or an opiate so it doesn't come with the problems associated with those classes of drugs. Gabapentin works wonders for some people with chronic neuropathic pain. The secondary recommendation is generally to take 440 mg of Naproxen Sodium (2 Aleve) twice per day. Honestly, between the 3600 mg of Gabapentin I used to take, and the 880 mg of Aleve, the Aleve worked better, and I eventually ditched the prescription Gabapentin because of the cost. But if you take that much Aleve every day, you need to watch your alcohol consumption, and it would be a good idea to get an annual liver function panel, just to monitor how your little liver buddy is doing.
Apr 3, 2013
commented on SL Letter of the Day: You're Doing Everything Right
So I am not an amputee, but my left arm is paralyzed... pretty sure I've asked Dan my version of this question before. I know I settled on disclosing right on my OKC profile, reason being: I think the population of people who wouldn't bail once they'd met me, but would if they knew about it BEFORE we met, is vanishingly small. So I figure I'm doing myself a favor weeding out the people who aren't interested - who things would never work out with anyway, so why bother - ahead of time.
Two added bonuses: not having to judge when to say something about it (people don't notice right away, believe it or not), and, you get to find out who really read your profile...
It's been almost 3 years since I lost the use of the arm (motorcycle accident) and honestly I have dated more, better looking, more interesting and compatible women in those three years than any other time in my life - although mostly I think that's just being older (I was 28 when I got hurt).
Nov 2, 2011
commented on Every Child Deserves a Mother and a Father
That's... fucking horrifying. Just the emotional part, the swearing at and telling her she doesn't deserve to be in the household, would be horrifying. I agree that this twisted piece of shit doesn't deserve to be called human, and that's coming from someone who was spanked (rarely) and thinks that's just fine. Thanks for putting this out there even though I can't unsee it and it's going to fuck up my whole week.
Jul 8, 2011
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Boner's Little Helper
I had the exact same experience. Cialis most definitely does work for mental problems - It takes that halfie that you have when you're horny but nervous and turns it into something you can put a condom on, have a girl you just met clumsily fiddle with, and still manage to get inside her. And, incidentally, you can last longer, if that's a problem (often was for me in that situation which seems contradictory - and always made me feel even worse. With half a cialis in me, I can keep the stimulation much more gentle (to me that is) and not worry about going soft. Without it, with someone new, I had to keep the stimulation very intense all the time, which leads to some short sessions.