Aug 11, 2011
csmcgn commented on Savage Love.
Hunter78, it isn't about that for me. When I think about my significant other/boyfriend with another guy, it turns me off faster than you can say "23 skidoo".
Aug 11, 2011
csmcgn joined My Stranger Face
Aug 11, 2011
csmcgn commented on Savage Love.
HNH, I am dating someone whom is bi. My current boyfriend of almost 4 years even thought he may just very well be gay at one point too. (He even came out to his parents) When being young and confused he a few relationships with girls and sometimes boys. Then along came me.
I had not a clue about the fact that he was "bi" till after we first had sex. When he told me, I have to admit that I was scared, because I at first thought that maybe he would turn out to really be "gay" or something like that. But I realized that was stupid and that would make me a bit of a bigot in a way. We talked about it and it helped to put my fears at rest. After we had talked about it I realized that I wasn't really afraid of the fact that he is bi. It was more about him leaving me.
Anyways, to make a long story short. It isn't about the fact that someone is gay/bi. It is about love. I hope that we as society will move past these titles and just love each other. You will find someone. Just keep looking and see a therapist about any of those lingering fears you have.
I had not a clue about the fact that he was "bi" till after we first had sex. When he told me, I have to admit that I was scared, because I at first thought that maybe he would turn out to really be "gay" or something like that. But I realized that was stupid and that would make me a bit of a bigot in a way. We talked about it and it helped to put my fears at rest. After we had talked about it I realized that I wasn't really afraid of the fact that he is bi. It was more about him leaving me.
Anyways, to make a long story short. It isn't about the fact that someone is gay/bi. It is about love. I hope that we as society will move past these titles and just love each other. You will find someone. Just keep looking and see a therapist about any of those lingering fears you have.
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