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Dec 13, 2012 metanymity commented on SL Letter of the Day: Fighting Ugly.
there are legitimate late bloomers in the world whose looks improve after the ripe old age of 22. there is a lot you can do for your looks if you've been neglecting them out of despair. you can buy clothes that fit and do something you like with your hair and it'll make you feel better and look better. if your friends think you're pretty they're probably blinded by your sparkling personality and they see though your ukempt hair and floppy clothes to the cute girl underneath.
Nov 15, 2012 metanymity commented on SL Letter of the Day: Oral Report.
ok so what if he's wearing a condom?
Jul 21, 2012 metanymity commented on SL Letter of the Day: A Pair of DTMFAs.
i realized that a guy who isn't very positive about me, doesn't like my personality, my looks, the way i am in bed, the way i behave around others, my driving etc will only bring out the worst in me. i stopped hanging out with friends, i didn't like to drive, i was unsure of myself in bed, i dressed like a homeless guy, i never brushed my hair, what was the point? i'd tried to better myself but he didn't care.

a guy who loves me, makes me a better person. i dress better, i shower more often, i eat better, i exercise, i'm more upbeat and optimistic, more energetic, and more adventurous in bed. people comment on what a happy person i am, when we're driving back from parties he recounts clever things i said or how other guys were checking me out, basically he lets me know other people like me too. he makes me feel like a worthwhile person because he notices and praises all the little things i do for myself, to make myself happier and healthier. he likes my drawings, he likes it when i sing, he admires my ass in tight pants, he likes my cooking, i just enjoy life more when my happiness makes someone else happy.

not to mention all the things he actually does for me and the important fact that he takes care of himself and doesn't expect me to do all the "chores".
Oct 12, 2011 metanymity commented on Savage Love.
the way you reframed CU's question in terms of closet heterosexuals is always a useful mental exercise. if somebody thinks something is ok for gay people to do then they should play the same scenario out with straight people and see if it still sounds ok. or "sauce for the goose, sauce for the gander" as my grandma would say.
Oct 4, 2011 metanymity commented on Savage Love.
i'm pretty sure RAM's letter is the funniest you've run.
Sep 13, 2011 metanymity commented on Savage Love.
i've been watching a lot of japanese porn recently that's really girl-centric. a full 15 minutes of a 30 minute video is devoted to the guy getting the girl off before the penis is anywhere near the vagina. the girl seems really into it. of course they're not all perfect but a number of them are pretty damn good. i also like the idea that there are guys getting off on the same porn that gets me off. we all like the noises that happy girls make right?
Aug 14, 2011 metanymity joined My Stranger Face
Aug 14, 2011 metanymity joined My Stranger Face