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Apr 3, 2013 Juliet Audobon commented on SL Letter of the Day: How Do I Know?.
ditto to #8 and 11. That would be really bad advice for any partner of mine!
Mar 26, 2013 Juliet Audobon commented on SL Letter of the Day: Help Kate Bornstein Beat Cancer.
If she lives in NY, why is she going to Chicago for treatment? The statement about supplements would make me think she is using the Block institute..... Thus the high cost etc.
Jun 10, 2012 Juliet Audobon commented on SL Letter of the Day: Pout It Out.
I'm sorry, Aqua69, but something about this really doesn't make sense....

You clearly orgasm, because the fiancé helps get you off by licking your nipples while you use a vibrator (and why you aren't having him use it escapes me....)

But you start out with "He doesn't get me to have an orgasm." So either nothing else works now for you but vibrator/nipples OR he doesn't do anything but hop on top OR you only mean orgasm from PiV. There's a big difference in how you would handle those scenarios.
Mar 12, 2012 Juliet Audobon commented on SL Letter of the Day: Permission Slippage.
So why does the LW care so desperately if he hooks up with other women? According to him, opening up their marriage was good for her --and them. And he doesn't say that she isn't meeting his needs sexually, so presumably he's still getting what he wants/needs from his wife.

If he's feeling worthless because he can't get hookups like his wife, maybe they should reconsider the open marriage.... Doesn't sound like it's doing him a lot of good emotionally. Seems like a better option than lying to a new sex partner, with all the potential hassle that entails. Not sure why that would actually make him feel better emotionally anyway, given what he wrote about himself.....
Dec 21, 2011 Juliet Audobon commented on I, Anonymous.
@29, but if you were with a female friend that you trusted, might you not drink more than you otherwise would? More than might otherwise be safe?
Dec 20, 2011 Juliet Audobon commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Gay Panic Offense.
hmmm, if as 24 states "another dude's shlong would poison the mood for me," how does one explain the porn industry for straight men.....
Nov 17, 2011 Juliet Audobon commented on Savage Love.
I'd be interested to hear anyone else's thoughts on this, but as far as I'm concerned it's not just PIV vs oral sex, it's PIV vs oral sex vs manual clitoral stimulation. I'd rank the intensity and desirability of the orgasms produced as manual clitoral stimulation >> oral > PIV (unless I've had several orgasms already, in which case it moves to nearly the top). It seems like oral sex is so often the focus when people discuss clitoral stimulation....

The spread of what women prefer and what actually causes them to orgasm is incredibly wide and changing. I have my favorites, but even having had sex for many years and with multiple partners, there is still sometimes something new that makes me come!
Nov 17, 2011 Juliet Audobon commented on Savage Love.
I'd be interested to hear anyone else's thoughts on this, but as far as I'm concerned it's not just PIV vs oral sex, it's PIV vs oral sex vs manual clitoral stimulation. I'd rank the intensity and desirability of the orgasms produced as manual clitoral stimulation >> oral > PIV (unless I've had several orgasms already, in which case it moves to nearly the top).

It seems like oral sex is so often the focus when people discuss clitoral stimulation.... The spread of what women prefer and what actually causes them to orgasm is incredibly wide and changing. I have my favorites, but even having had sex for many years and with multiple partners, I still sometimes find something new that makes me come!
Oct 16, 2011 Juliet Audobon commented on SL Letter of the Day: The Nearly Sexless But Successful Marriage.
@47 -- the success rate with previously unfertilized frozen "eggs" is still pretty low -- not much of an insurance policy. If she wanted to go that route, it would be best to fertilize. which would mean selecting a donor....
Aug 15, 2011 Juliet Audobon commented on SL Letter of the Day: USE YOUR WORDS! AND FINGERS!.
Ms. 11 -- nope, was writing more for you if you decide to move on to other men. I have nothing against sleeping with someone on the first date, I've done it plenty. But I've had much better sex with anyone I've wanted as a regular partner since I decided not to have straight-up PiV intercourse unless they invest the time and effort in making me come some other way first.
 

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