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Jan 23 maxiF commented on Savage Love.

Just one comment on destination weddings as a gay couple. Living in the South, my husband and I had no choice but to choose one of the open-minded states that allows us to marry, forcing us into a destination wedding. We chose NY, where we met and lived for many years, but it meant that several important people in our lives had to travel to NYC with us. The airlines and NYC hotels made out, but we and our party paid much more than we would have liked. And of course, our backward state of North Carolina didn't benefit a penny from our wedding. Huh.

Dec 28, 2011 maxiF commented on Savage Love.

Thank you for pointing out that sandals with socks make for an inferior people. I need to get that word out to the guys in the city I live in!

Aug 17, 2011 maxiF commented on Savage Love.

SOLE, your bf sounds like me, a foot fetishist who loves the soles of feet and who used to find it difficult to talk about it with my partner. After many years we've worked through it and his feet are a normal part of our sexual dialog. Most important is his knowing that it's fine with you, that you don't think it's weird or abnormal - that should help him open up and tell you what he really likes. On your giving a foot job, it's possible that, like me, he's not looking for any foot reciprocation, so you might not need to give him one to satisfy him. Dan's foot fucking is a good suggestion, but your bf may also like it if you cover his face with your soles, one or both at once, sliding them over the face so he can lick up to the toes while he strokes. I'd also ask him how forceful he wants you to be, or see if he reacts to your pushing your toes into his mouth, having him lie on the floor below you as you place your feet on his face, etc. Mostly, have fun with it, feet are very sensitive and my bf enjoys having his feet worshiped - I hope you do too!