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Jul 2, 2012 jackdee commented on I Always Knew You Had It In You, Anderson.
I just saw a friend of mine post about this on Fb. Like...seriously? I was almost sure that this had happened many years ago. That this is "news" is the only thing that is confusing to me...
Jun 8, 2012 jackdee commented on SL Letter of the Day: BFFFWB.
My two cents:

I'm not gay either, but if I was this kid (16...not a lot of options. Some of the cuter 16 y/o girls back in my day were a bit frigid. Dating was just about being able to say you had a boyfriend. Don't know if that's changed much. There were the freaks, of course, but they were always on the lower quality side of things....anyways), and my 16 year old girlfriend wasn't giving it up, (he never specifies!) I'd take the blowjobs!...with our without dumping her first! XD

...I'm just sayin'!
Apr 29, 2012 jackdee commented on On "Bullshit" and "Pansy-Assed".
I'm really glad this happened. I'm going to be sharing the video for MONTHS! Thank you, Dan.
Apr 21, 2012 jackdee commented on Got Herpes?.
Waiting until the guy's got sex on their mind and a boner between their legs to disclose? I'm sorry, but I can't quite get over that one. I mean, do I even need to point out how convenient of a time that is to disclose for her? And one [the story goes] of these guys was stoned?

The second time, we — a different he — were stoned.

“Wait, what?” he said. “I don’t know what to say. I’m having a hard time processing this information right now. Let’s just fuck.”

Great. I'm about to add something that some of you may despise, but I'll say it anyways, because it's still true: In hetero relationships, the woman is basically the gate keeper to the sex. Women are also pretty quick to decide whether a dude they just met has it or whether he doesn't have a fucking chance. So, with that, she could spring this critical information a little sooner, don't we think? Like...y'know, before she allows these men to get all cozy...and stoned?

Yeah, it's great and all that she's actually disclosing. I just can't feel right about her convenient timing. It would be like me waiting until a woman I've been dating for several months is starting to imagine what our wedding will look like before telling her, "Oh, yeah. By the way? I'm polyamorous, and I don't do the whole monogamy thing. And marriage? Bah! Hahaha! Never."...
Mar 31, 2012 jackdee commented on What Was That, Rick?.
I really like how his whole sentence becomes completely derailed after he stops himself. Like he was going "Holy FUCK! What did I just almost say?! Quick, say something else!"

Mar 17, 2012 jackdee commented on This Will Please You, Charles.
I feel like such a terrible human being everytime one of these total, public meltdowns happen. I enjoy it SO much!
Mar 6, 2012 jackdee commented on SL Letter of the Day: I Never Believed Those Letters I Read In "Savage Love" Until....
I read the whole thing. I guess at least it was sort of entertaining.
Feb 29, 2012 jackdee commented on SL Letter of the Day: Breaking Bad.
Just use a condom!

Condoms never killed anyone....unless they choked on one from sucking a little too hard on a condomed cock, or unless they were fataly allergic to latex...

Feb 25, 2012 jackdee commented on SL Letter of the Day: Who Said Life Was Fair?.
HOTWIFE is the acronym she's taken, huh? And the idea of the husband having equal permission to sleep with other women spooks her? Am I a douchebag for asserting that she's got some insecurity to deal with?
Feb 24, 2012 jackdee commented on SL Letter of the Day: How Many Is Too Many?.
@80: Same here. It's just unneeded trouble. Especially if they're really interested in knowing. Wanna spill your guts to me? Fine. I don't care. I've got nothing to say on the subject though.

And about the LW, this just seems like another case of internalized sex-negativity: This idea that sex is this "dirty thing". I am sometimes ambivalent about ridding myself and others of this belief though, because it is precisely the belief that sex can be a "dirty" thing that makes it so much more exciting at times... Can y'all tell I'm a conflicted fuck?