She may be ready and she's been waiting for you to make the first move—the move being an ask, WAIT, not a lunge
It seems that Dan is now a proponent of the "ask for verbal consent before doing anything physical or it's sexual assault"-school of thought? If that is indeed the new normal then I'm glad to be "retired from romance", to steal a phrase from mr. Venn.
The various "start making a move" scenarios described by various commenters above (@11, @13) sound much more natural to me. (Start
making a move, not lunge
; non-verbally asking for consent, so to speak.)