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May 18 Registered European commented on Elle/Esquire Magazine: Science Says Run From Any Guy Who Is Friends With His Ex!.
Basically what agony @3 and nocutename @5 say. I've been single for a long time, will likely stay that way, so I need my friendships and I do my best to keep them.
May 18 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
BDF @16 I think it's exactly the "safeness" of the extra-relationship sex with poly people that is a turnoff. People want the danger and excitement that comes with "forbidden" extra-relationship sex.
May 18 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
BDF @12 The way I understand it: if the man is cheating on his wife, the "other woman" figures she might have a chance to "steal" him from his wife. While if the man is officialy poly, the "other woman" will probably always be secondary to his wife.

Also, the "forbidden" aspect of cheating may be romantic/exciting to some.

Something like that.
May 8 Registered European commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Bonus Advice for WWWM & VIRGN.
For the sake of argument, if we go along with the notion that virginity in the PIV-sense is a thing, when does a man lose his virginity, exactly? The moment his penis enters a vagina? Or is his virginity only lost when he comes inside a vagina?

May 5 Registered European commented on SL Letter of the Day: In The Neighborhood.
PL @16 This is not that story. In this story the woman wanted the open relationship. She said she was willing to try an open relationship. I offered other solutions [...]
May 4 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
My impression is that Fichu's "bases" idea does not mean "persistently not wanting to have sex" but rather "build up to it slowly". Which to me sounds nice.
May 4 Registered European commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Heart Wants Him, My Dick Doesn't.
CB @8 for what it's worth, cialis does nothing for me, but viagra (or its generic form) works fine.
May 4 Registered European commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Soft Serve.
CB @61 The assumption is that the LW is both aroused and nervous, in which case a boner pill will probably help.
May 4 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
F @34 Seems wonderful to me.
May 4 Registered European commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Heart Wants Him, My Dick Doesn't.
HJ @6 That brings back memories. I resorted to something like that (internally objectifying my girlfriend) in my first relationship, when I couldn't "perform". It didn't help in my case, I wasn't able to silence the simultaneous line of thought "nobody is enjoying this awkward nonsense, let's just stop".