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8:15 AM yesterday Registered European commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: This Boy Or That Boy And Other False Choices.
I find the "I can't do any better" mindset strange. Maybe you can indeed "not do any better", but if "it" makes you unhappy, why do it al all?
3:25 AM yesterday Registered European commented on Savage Love.
ag @157: What I understand of it is this. "LMB" means "Let Me Barf"/"Laissez-Moi Barf" and is an expression vennominon uses to express "disgust". Now that vennominon is planning to leave Savage Love (aside: I hope he won't) he is nominating you as the person who is from now on allowed to use this expression. He bequeathes the expression to you, as it were.
Nov 22 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
BDF - VNV Nation was excellent! Great show and atmosphere, wonderful audience, everyone dancing and having a great time.
Nov 6 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
Cool. Until recently I had never even heard of them, but I'm going to see them live later this month. Looking forward to it!
Nov 6 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
BDF @95 Speaking of taste in music, what do you think of VNV Nation?
Nov 4 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
slinky @75 Good points.
Nov 4 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
BDF @66
Men are less expected to be sole breadwinners, so women are freer to date the men they're attracted to rather than just the men who are good financial investments?

One would hope so, but my impression is that there is still a stigma attached to "dating down" for women.
Oct 31 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
BDF @98
And shouldn't men be peeing after sex to avoid UTIs as well?

Not only to avoid UTIs. Peeing after orgasming is a good way to flush remaining sperm away which would otherwise leak out.
Oct 26 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
BDF @6 No argument there.
Oct 26 Registered European commented on Savage Love.
Well, he did talk to her:

And yes, I have talked and fought with her countless times.
So I can't blame him for writing to Dan. Dan's answer was pretty good, too. If you don't want to masturbate while looking at porn, learn to use just your fantasy. Your fantasy can be much better than porn anyway because it's all under your control. The women don't have to have fake plastic nails!

(I don't think that this LW is looking for a "get-out-of-monogamy-free" card, BTW.)