Nov 3, 2016 Zbot commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Husband-To-Be's Porn Use Causes Ex-Christian Bride To Despair.
Can't find ethical porn? Bull shit. Google Violet Blue for a start. Stay off of Redtube and the like. I'ts gaining traction and it's changing porn. Going on 10 years with my husband, kid, and a healthy sex life and we both watch porn. I feel plenty "special" because he treats me that way. I just don't understand the whole "liberal sexual ideals killing relationships" mindset. Back in the good old days when men were men and women knew their place, there was still plenty of sexual frustration to go around. Do you think husbands were getting it more than once a week pre-birth control (from their wives anyway)? How is that playing out in countries where your the only sexual outlet is get married or see a prostitute? And you can't do either unless you have money which means you come from a family with money?
This is better. People are having better and more sex than ever overall, and that's a good thing. Discussing the issues that raises around health, safety. ethics, consent, compatibility and expectations are a good thing. Thank you Dan, you are making a difference.
Sep 29, 2016 Zbot commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Tweet Storm of Excellent Advice.
Hot people - in the conventional "got it going on" kind of way - can get away with being shitty, and they often do. I've never understood why the "why do women date jerks" confusion, when often those same dudes are themselves hung up on people who treat them badly. Dude, ask yourself why you want the people you want, and you have your answer. Thankfully, many of us outgrow this phase. As a young women, I was convinced my pussy was trying to get me killed
Mar 10, 2016 Zbot commented on White Trump Supporter Punches Black Trump Protester In the Face.
I've seen mashups of Pink Floyds "In the Flesh" clips from The Wall and Trump rallys, it's pretty much right on.
Mar 10, 2016 Zbot commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Open Couple May Lose Close-Minded Friend.
@ 79, except it was the fuck-buddies who were the odd ones out at this party. Everyone else was just their regular monthly party crew. Maybe they started making out because they had nothing in common with other guests and didn't get their in-jokes? I agree with with keeping certain groups of friends separate, at least for small get togethers, where people will be forced to interact with strangers they have little in common with. If anything, she owes an apology to her fuck-buddies for inviting them to a party where she could of anticipated the other guests would be freaked out. I think it was a pre-mediated attempt to get her square friends to be more accepting of her arrangement, and it just ended up making everyone uncomfortable
Oct 20, 2015 Zbot commented on Walking Dead Recap: "Who's Honkin' That Horn?!?".
@10, she did have him at a disadvantage. He could not have raised a hand to her and also be allowed to stay at Alexandria. Beating his wife was overlooked for awhile, but after Rick did his thing, dude was on thin ice. Now he beats up sweet old ladies? No, she had him by the short hairs.
May 1, 2015 Zbot commented on Savage Love.
Whether she initiated it or not, the onus is on the older, presumably wiser partner. And it seems I can't stop

"I suppose I could collect my books and get on back to school
Or steal my daddy's cue and make a living out of playing pool
Or find myself a rock and roll band that needs a helpin' hand
Oh Maggie I wish I'd never seen your face
You made a first-class fool out of me
But I'm as blind as a fool can be
You stole my heart but I love you anyway"
May 1, 2015 Zbot commented on Savage Love.
"He tells me this relationship is different and he loves me in a way he hasn't loved anyone before"

This could be true, but he should still know better that to sell himself as long term exclusive potential. And cue -
"You lured me away from home, just to save you from being alone
You stole my heart and that's what really hurt"
May 1, 2015 Zbot commented on Savage Love.
Not passing up experiences he would regret, but he would regret passing up the experiences
May 1, 2015 Zbot commented on Savage Love.
As lovers, NBD. But if a 50+ woman was telling a 20 something man that she was in love, serious about a long term relationship, it would be pretty shitty of her, knowing (as she should) that he could be passing up experiences he could be having in his youth that he may regret and resent her for it later. "Wake up Maggie" comes to mind and I hate that song and Rod Stewarts voice and now they are both stuck in my head
Mar 16, 2015 Zbot commented on March Madness Begins After Sounders Lose In Maddening Fashion.
Vile? What about this KY team is vile? I know everybody loves to hate us but this is a great team. They play as a team, and they've worked their asses off all season. Ok, KY fans are ridiculous, so what?