Dec 14, 2015
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: What Speech Was That?
@4,6,10, adding to the consensus. I am also bi and monogamous. Pretty much posting to say exactly what 10 said. Sure I'm attracted to both, but that doesn't mean I need to have sex with both. It's like saying that because a monosexual is attracted to more than one person of the sex they're attracted to, that they need to have sex with them. It just doesn't follow. Sure you may want to, but as Dan has said, monogamy isn't easy for anyone. That's why it's a valuable commitment (if it's something you value)