Feb 4
Skye Blu commented on
It Gets Better—Science Says So.
I'd argue that lesbians get worse psychological bullying which is more likely to lead to suicide, gay boys just get beat up, they don't have their peers offering to have their boyfriends rape you.
Jan 12
Skye Blu commented on
Evolution Has Nothing to Do With It.
Being poly is more difficult than being mono, but the rewards are worth the effort I think. And some of the effort is ignoring peoples ignorance about what it is or what it means. We are a family and I think that is all that matters, I don't tell other people that they don't have a real family because they are based off the Neanderthal model- if they say they are happy I believe them. I don't like cilantro, I think it tastes like soap, but I don't tell people who like cilantro that they are wrong, only that I don't care for it.
Jan 12
Skye Blu commented on
This American Death.
Makes sense as Alabama is one of those states where the age of consent is 13 and there are no laws against cousin-marraige. The rest just follows.
Jan 9
Skye Blu commented on
Rape and Survival and Virtue.
I'm more hung up on hating my father than my rapist. The boy who raped me was my age and drunk- I have managed to put away most of the direct anger over it and the fear of other young men who look the same as him. But the utter betrayal of my father who cared more about his religion and social standing than my spiritual wounds. I am still made furious by people who care more for their so-called morals than for actual people's feelings. Hypocrisy and self-centredness, caring more about "what the neighbours will think" than about someone who you said you loved, someone you promised to protect.
Jan 9
Skye Blu commented on
Savage Love.
Since I've been in a triad for ten years I feel qualified to say thruple sucks- it sounds like something you got from unsanitary toilet seats. We have always called ourselves a triple- like a couple only moreso. Being all female helped I think, but it seems sexist to claim men are incapable of intimacy and gay relationships are doomed from the start. What makes any relationship work is people who are invested in their partners and the relationship.
A three-legged stool is more balanced than a ladder. A pyramid can support more weight than a cube.