May 7, 2014
commented on SL Letter of the Day: New To Topping
BOY: I've been fucking people for years, and even after all this time, it's still been my experience that nothing kills a boner quite as effectively as "I must maintain this boner at all costs!"
Establish some kind of contingency plan with your partner that takes that pressure off, whether it be toys, fingers, trading places for a bit (maybe something like a playful "You call that fucking? I'll show you how it's done!" if that makes sense within the dynamic of your relationship), whatever. Acknowledge that it might not happen (and that it's okay if it doesn't) and it will be much more likely to happen.
Also, maybe cockrings.
May 2, 2014
commented on The Game of Life
@6: Do you actually need to feel accepted? Do you actually need to move on? Is advancing in the game more important than friends or lovers?
Is the game actually advocating any particular course of action, or are the preconceptions you've brought with you about life, games, and how a game about life would work filling in the blanks?
Jan 21, 2014
commented on "I Need Some Pretty Things"
Coming up I-5 at night, from the airport, there's one bend in the road where suddenly TA-DAAAA! SEATTLE! Always feels like being welcomed home. Or southbound, coming over the bridge from North Seattle at night, that's pretty sparkly, too.
Sunrise and sunset, just about anywhere around here. I'm still regularly blown away by what spectacular sunsets we get.
And the Port always fascinates me. All those thousands and thousands of shipping containers, stacked up in precise rows, each one the size of a bus.