Lose-Lose
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Mar 28 Lose-Lose commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Terminator.
I dated a sub once. It was really hard to figure out when 'no' meant 'no', and when it meant 'try harder' and THAT WHY WE HAVE SAFE WORDS! Seriously, though, your letter is great and matter some better communication will clarify things and allow you to continue this otherwise wonderful arrangement and you can make a video and post it online?
Mar 1 Lose-Lose commented on I Am Happy It's Going to Be Hillary and Not Bernie Going Against Trump in the General Election.
That's some mighty weak arguments to support Clinton over sanders
Feb 29 Lose-Lose commented on Oh Look, There's an Ad in Today's New York Times About What a Bad, Bad Man Dan Savage Is.
Glad others beat me to it: Remember, Catholic League and Bill Donohue essentially say "all those people who claimed priests raped them can go to hell" Or "they're lying". Or "so what". Something like that.
In other words, why would the opinions of a pedophile defender get printed anywhere?
Feb 29 Lose-Lose commented on The American People Deserve to Know the Truth About Donald Trump's Alleged Micropenis.
Please, be careful what you ask for, because the only thing lower and more surreal than candidates speculating about the size of an opponent's penis, is that opponent showing it to the world.
I do not put Trump beyond stepping out from the podium and waving his flaccid schlong out to the world. It fits his psyche perfectly.
You all have been warned.
Feb 16 Lose-Lose commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Ex Files.
Wait, am I the only one here who not only disagrees with comment #1, but also that Dan gave horrible, heartless advice in the first place? (Dan, you're usually spot on, but I thought this time... Ug. Advise fail. )

Miscarriage is a pretty traumatic experience -even if the woman doesn't know she's pregnant. Rush of hormones? Yep. Life flashing before your eyes as an almost unexpected mother? Damn right. Grief? That too. And everyone grieves differently. Her grief includes talking to you about it. Want to be a nice guy (and you should be lauded for wanting to be the nice guy) then suck it up and be there for her. After all, you almost fathered her child (regardless of whether she would've had an abortion, which is often traumatizing as well). The least you can do is listen and help her grieve.
Feb 12 Lose-Lose commented on SeaTac Mayor Invites Bundy Sympathizer from Spokane Valley to Advocate Against Taking Free Money for a Park.
Please Please Please Tell me Shea accepted an all-expenses paid trip -first class flight from Spokane, a suite in SeaTac's finest hotels, five star meal from SeaTac's finest eating establishment- all paid for by the City of SeaTac, aka The Government. Did he? Did he? Did he? Cause no fool, especially anti-government legislator fools from eastern Washington, pass up a free meal paid for by the government, cause there's nothing worse than the government! And hey, Shea's also white and not poor, so such expenses are justified, right?

Point being: this sort of extremist rhetoric is best seeped in strong hypocrisy.Can't wait to watch him get exposed!
Jan 11 Lose-Lose commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Licensed Massage Practitioner Takes License.
Aren't there other LMP readers here?
Can't a fellow professional chime in with their two cents?
Cause my gut is screaming "EEEWWWW!!!!"
His actions -second visit, alone in the clinic (???) were predatory. I've seen porn videos of nearly the same thing, but that's porn.

Also, just for the record; I like to have sex with women, and I like giving massages. Even when I'm massaging a girl I'm seeing at the time, I'm actually giving a massage. I know where that line is, and I'm so focused on the massage, I forget that this girl actually likes it when I touch her erotically.

He knows where the line is and he crossed it.
Jan 5 Lose-Lose commented on Where's the Radical Lefty Who Wants Jim McDermott's Seat In Congress?.
It's going to be a grassroots candidate vs a Cathy Allen backed corporate pawn. Yikes.
Jan 4 Lose-Lose commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Good Wife (And Her Sister).
Let me just add my voice to the raucous chorus.... AAARRRRGGGHHH NOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jan 1 Lose-Lose commented on Savage Love.
I have an idea to screen the pyschos from the dating pool: an app where you rate dates, like a cross of Tinder and Yelp.
Examples: "Bob is a nice guy and fun in the sack" and "Sally is who she says she is, and lots of fun", and finally: "Brian is a complete douchebag with probable undiagnosed mental illness. I feared for my life"

Seriously, I'm a guy and I too want to know the women I date are not psycho, and I really like women I'm dating know that I'm not psycho.

Someone do this now!