May 22
sissoucat commented on Rightwing Anti-Gay French Activist Commits Suicide at Notre Dame Cathedral.
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sissoucat commented on Rightwing Anti-Gay French Activist Commits Suicide at Notre Dame Cathedral.
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May 22
sissoucat commented on Savage Love.
sissoucat commented on Savage Love.
"this girl/woman sounds like a perpetual victim to me, a not uncommon type of woman."
And you sound like an entitled woman hater to me. Cut the misogyny out.
And FYI, you happening to be a gay male is quite irrelevant to your hatred of females. Assholery in the santorum of the mind, it spreads everywhere, haven't you been told ? Most probably you're a shallow asshole to males as well.
And you sound like an entitled woman hater to me. Cut the misogyny out.
And FYI, you happening to be a gay male is quite irrelevant to your hatred of females. Assholery in the santorum of the mind, it spreads everywhere, haven't you been told ? Most probably you're a shallow asshole to males as well.
May 19
sissoucat commented on Slog Overnight.
sissoucat commented on Slog Overnight.
This cat was weened of its mother far too young. It's sick in the head.
So yes, dual mental illnesses. Not a nice watching experience.
So yes, dual mental illnesses. Not a nice watching experience.
May 14
sissoucat commented on I'm Fine, You Guys, I'm Fine.
sissoucat commented on I'm Fine, You Guys, I'm Fine.
@31 I confirm about Paris.
Small parks are mostly children playgrounds and are forbidden to dogs ; there are little doors to prevent vagrant dogs from coming in.
Most lawns are forbidden to people, so obviously they would be forbidden to dogs too.
As far as I've seen, even beggars' dogs are on a leash.
Small parks are mostly children playgrounds and are forbidden to dogs ; there are little doors to prevent vagrant dogs from coming in.
Most lawns are forbidden to people, so obviously they would be forbidden to dogs too.
As far as I've seen, even beggars' dogs are on a leash.
May 12
sissoucat commented on Your Dog Sucks.
sissoucat commented on Your Dog Sucks.
@sadiquechienne : thank you so much for your posts.
As a former dog owner, I completely agree.
We would never have taken our unsocialized and untrained dogs to public places. My dogs were absolutely not dangerous to us, we were family, but leashed or unleashed they could have biten any human that they felt was threatening us, and they would have tried to kill any small dog. They hated small dogs, company dogs. They got along with other guarding dogs.
As a former dog owner, I completely agree.
We would never have taken our unsocialized and untrained dogs to public places. My dogs were absolutely not dangerous to us, we were family, but leashed or unleashed they could have biten any human that they felt was threatening us, and they would have tried to kill any small dog. They hated small dogs, company dogs. They got along with other guarding dogs.
May 12
sissoucat commented on Your Dog Sucks.
sissoucat commented on Your Dog Sucks.
I've never read sillier advice about what to do when being harrassed by an unknown dog !
- REACH FOR THE DOG'S COLLAR
Are you idiotic, or a hand surgeon in dire need for cash ? What dog lets a stranger touch it with its hand where it can't see without trying to bite ? Sure, vets do that, but not everybody is a vet, and even well trained vets get bitten once in a while !
- PUT YOUR HAND ON ITS NOSE, and slightly tap with your other hand on the first hand, it's a sign all dogs understand
Oh my. See above. Humans are so much faster than dogs, dogs so love unexpected attempts at contact from strangers, and all dogs went to the same Dog University !
I'm so sorry the lovely dogs who protected me and my brother in the country when we were kids are long gone. I'd have let you try those tricks on them. No more silly internet posting for you, without fingers !
When my dogs didn't want me to take them by their collar, nor me to put my hand some place on them, they sure knew how to twist my arm or shake my hand away. More than one of our guests has has some arm or leg end up in dog jaws that were not biting, yet, because of too rash a movement towards us, that the dogs had interpreted as : maybe a threat ? The guests never could pet our dogs. As for strangers, well, strangely they did not come inside our courtyard !
Real advice against real dogs : throw water. No water ? Kick its nose, not hard.
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- REACH FOR THE DOG'S COLLAR
Are you idiotic, or a hand surgeon in dire need for cash ? What dog lets a stranger touch it with its hand where it can't see without trying to bite ? Sure, vets do that, but not everybody is a vet, and even well trained vets get bitten once in a while !
- PUT YOUR HAND ON ITS NOSE, and slightly tap with your other hand on the first hand, it's a sign all dogs understand
Oh my. See above. Humans are so much faster than dogs, dogs so love unexpected attempts at contact from strangers, and all dogs went to the same Dog University !
I'm so sorry the lovely dogs who protected me and my brother in the country when we were kids are long gone. I'd have let you try those tricks on them. No more silly internet posting for you, without fingers !
When my dogs didn't want me to take them by their collar, nor me to put my hand some place on them, they sure knew how to twist my arm or shake my hand away. More than one of our guests has has some arm or leg end up in dog jaws that were not biting, yet, because of too rash a movement towards us, that the dogs had interpreted as : maybe a threat ? The guests never could pet our dogs. As for strangers, well, strangely they did not come inside our courtyard !
Real advice against real dogs : throw water. No water ? Kick its nose, not hard.
May 7
sissoucat commented on What Did You Do This Weekend?.
sissoucat commented on What Did You Do This Weekend?.
@46
In all fairness, she's never plastic-surgered her boobs, as of yet. She uses inflatable water bras, on the verge of exploding one day, and quite empty the next.
Nor has she plastic-surgered her galoping alopecia. She's a all-natural proud wig lady. Who takes care not to move her head too boldly, just in case.
'Cause that's what mavericks do, gracefully balance their toupee.
In all fairness, she's never plastic-surgered her boobs, as of yet. She uses inflatable water bras, on the verge of exploding one day, and quite empty the next.
Nor has she plastic-surgered her galoping alopecia. She's a all-natural proud wig lady. Who takes care not to move her head too boldly, just in case.
'Cause that's what mavericks do, gracefully balance their toupee.
May 7
sissoucat commented on SL Letter of the Day: No Magic Beans.
sissoucat commented on SL Letter of the Day: No Magic Beans.
My mistake, in writing #88, I hadn't read yet that you had cut him off sexually two years ago. That was a good move.
And yes, you deserve none of the blame for that. Ending something that doesn't work and can't be changed is the healthiest choice.
And yes, you deserve none of the blame for that. Ending something that doesn't work and can't be changed is the healthiest choice.
May 7
sissoucat commented on SL Letter of the Day: No Magic Beans.
sissoucat commented on SL Letter of the Day: No Magic Beans.
@AJC I'm sorry some of our answers hurt your feelings.
I'm sure none of the commenters had in their mind to blame you, or to berate you for your marital situation, or for not wanting out of it.
Most of us have been in pretty bad situations ourselves, and when we now read people who are describing bad situations, we tend to offer them, even though unasked, the advice we think we should have received at that time. Even though, actually, we probably would have resented any advice given to us, because we were inside the abuse, not looking at it from the outside - and that changes a lot in the way one experiences the same situation.
Our concording opinion is that you're being unfairly treated. We don't know you, we don't know your husband, we're not friends of either. Unlike your friends and family, we're absolutely not emotionally invested in your relationship. All we've had to work with are your anonymous words. And to all of us, they sounded pretty bad. That's something you ought to think about.
That doesn't mean that you should feel pressured by us to change anything. Maybe divorcing will be worse that what you're living with now - but being badly treated has a heavy toll too, as we've experienced ourselves, and we simply don't wish that on you.
I hope you'll find your way to make it better, and I wish you all good.
But let me add that I absolutely despise your husband. There's no achievement, no special quality that can compensate being a jerk to one's spouse, sexually or otherwise.
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I'm sure none of the commenters had in their mind to blame you, or to berate you for your marital situation, or for not wanting out of it.
Most of us have been in pretty bad situations ourselves, and when we now read people who are describing bad situations, we tend to offer them, even though unasked, the advice we think we should have received at that time. Even though, actually, we probably would have resented any advice given to us, because we were inside the abuse, not looking at it from the outside - and that changes a lot in the way one experiences the same situation.
Our concording opinion is that you're being unfairly treated. We don't know you, we don't know your husband, we're not friends of either. Unlike your friends and family, we're absolutely not emotionally invested in your relationship. All we've had to work with are your anonymous words. And to all of us, they sounded pretty bad. That's something you ought to think about.
That doesn't mean that you should feel pressured by us to change anything. Maybe divorcing will be worse that what you're living with now - but being badly treated has a heavy toll too, as we've experienced ourselves, and we simply don't wish that on you.
I hope you'll find your way to make it better, and I wish you all good.
But let me add that I absolutely despise your husband. There's no achievement, no special quality that can compensate being a jerk to one's spouse, sexually or otherwise.
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Obviously not for the bystanders, who had to watch the DRAMA QUEEN off himself. But then, that's a terrorist' dream come true, to psychologically harm others, and to be "not there" to face the consequences of his acts - which would be long emprisonment with a constant suicide watch, not death penalty.
But maybe, that will show normal French christians, who were goaded into protesting same-sex mariage by such fascists, that the very same fascists have NO RESPECT WHATSOEVER for catholicism, the churchs, and all that stuff (I'm thinking of my mom here).
Don't be too sorry for the Venner family. Either they're relieved that the fucking terrorist is finally gone, or they're elevating an altar somewhere to him, and swearing they'll follow in his footsteps.
OAS were real terrorists. They planted bombs that killed French children. They killed French troopers. They also killed Alegrian civilians, but not too many, because they didn't want backlash from FLN, the Algerian terrorists, who were fearsome. Mostly FLN terrorised Algerian people and OAS terrorised French people - it's easier that way, terrorising one's own. Ask Talibans. Ask Bushies.
Hey, maybe Venner's boy toy told him he was off to get married ? Hence the drama : Venner couldn't marry him without loosing all his credibility !