commented on SL Letter of the Day: Sarcasm Uptake Inhibitors
Treating someone like crap, on their birthday, without an explanation/apology ("Sorry, I wish I wanted to, and I tried to want to, but I'm all depressed about my dog dying.") -- that alone is a sign that they want out but are too chicken/stupid/confused to end it.
I think the right response is to break up with them on Facebook, or maybe via a text message.
commented on Raising Awareness of "Lopsided" Bisexuality During Bisexuality Visibility Week
I think the bi but hetero-amorous crowd are probably just damaged by growing up in a society where they are expected to be straight, marry a member of the opposite sex, and have kids. They bought into the vision at an early age, and it affects who they want to date later in life.
But, that's ok. People are damaged by all sorts of stuff by the time they leave adolescence, whether they end up with a fondness for hats, blondes, Santa suits, or members of the opposite sex. You work with your limitations.
I wouldn't be surprised if there were a lot fewer bi-but-hetero-amorous in the next generation, as same sex relationships are less stigmatized. Or perhaps I am full of shit. 25-30 years from now, we will know.
commented on Sunday Comic
Several weeks ago, there was a funny comic. I miss that.
commented on The Morning News: War In Europe, Awards in Los Angeles, Ebola In America?
"Libertarians" are usually just Republicans who either want to smoke pot or want to distinguish themselves from the Christian Conservative wing of the Republican Party.
If they actually smoked pot, or didn't support the same policies as the Conservative Christians, they wouldn't be so terrible.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Dude, Take My Free Advice!
If this is all on the up and up, and if she hasn't been a crazy, controlling freak for years (did SNAP leave that part out?) then the only way her behavior makes any sense to me is if she was victimized in child pornography. The "best friend's cousin" may have been after her.
SNAP should get his crazy-ass wife into therapy. Suggest couple's therapy if she is unwilling to go on her own.
And then maybe get the fuck out of there... Presumably he has stayed with her because he cares for her, and if she has an identifiable problem and is getting help, he might want to stay.
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Potential Murder, She Wrote
She should get out, and this man should never get involved with another woman.
He might be a lovely man, who would never do these things he fantasizes about because he would never, ever want to hurt someone, but I'm pretty sure most pedophiles start out suing the same things, and those who don't stay away from kids are way more likely to lose their gold-star not-actually-a-molester status.