Dec 6, 2012
commented on Can Straight Guys Do Drag?
Woman here, who aspires to drag.
I am blessed with a deep voice that gets me called "sir" on the phone regularly, greater than average height for a woman, and somewhat broad shoulders. And I have the perfect beard: a really swishy gay guy to be my "date".
I want to pass as a man dressed as a woman, and be fabulous, and lip sync.
May 18, 2012
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Show This Woman Some Love
You can't choose your orientation. You can't choose your blood relatives. But you can, oh you most certainly can, choose your true family and true friends and to be true to yourself in so choosing, as you have been since the day you walked away from that poisonous, emotionally crippled gang that calls itself a family. Thank you for bringing your nephew that same choice. He's lucky to have you.
Apr 18, 2012
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Coming To Blows
After learning the hard way, I don't go back to guys' apartments/hotel rooms/etc. on a first date unless I'm okay with having sex with them.
Mar 22, 2012
commented on Savage Love
How did you miss Conversio VIrium, by way of Ivy League kink?
If you happen to be at Columbia, check out http://conversiovirium.org/
, the Columbia student BDSM organization.
Even if you're not, I'm here to testify that I'm an Ivy alumna (not Columbia) and was kinky when I was at my Ivy, so don't despair of finding someone compatible while at school.
And definitely join Fetlife.
Mar 12, 2012
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Permission Slippage
@48: being female, over 40, and not interested in casual hookups with strangers on Craigslist pretty much puts you at the short end of the dating stick.
I'm a classic unicorn (bi/poly/kinky, and would be happy to be a secondary relationship to a stable married couple), but I'd like something ongoing rather than one-night-stands with strangers. That combined with age seems to pretty much rule me out as an object of interest.