How did you miss Conversio VIrium, by way of Ivy League kink?
If you happen to be at Columbia, check out http://conversiovirium.org/
, the Columbia student BDSM organization.
Even if you're not, I'm here to testify that I'm an Ivy alumna (not Columbia) and was kinky when I was at my Ivy, so don't despair of finding someone compatible while at school.
And definitely join Fetlife.