Dan:
How did you miss Conversio VIrium, by way of Ivy League kink?
SUB:
If you happen to be at Columbia, check out
http://conversiovirium.org/, the Columbia student BDSM organization.
Even if you're not, I'm here to testify that I'm an Ivy alumna (not Columbia) and was kinky when I was at my Ivy, so don't despair of finding someone compatible while at school.
And definitely join Fetlife.
I am blessed with a deep voice that gets me called "sir" on the phone regularly, greater than average height for a woman, and somewhat broad shoulders. And I have the perfect beard: a really swishy gay guy to be my "date".
I want to pass as a man dressed as a woman, and be fabulous, and lip sync.