Jan 13 Ricardo commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Ex Was Wrong For Me But The Sex Was Perfect.
BDF @ 68 - "strong feelings do not lead to great sex. Great sex leads to strong feelings."

Truer words were never spoken.
Jan 13 Ricardo commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Ex Was Wrong For Me But The Sex Was Perfect.
Harriet @ 65 - You were wiser (or luckier) than me, then. I started a few relationships with bait-and-switchers, i.e. people who were really GGG in all aspects of the relationship until we started living together or until they felt the relationship was well enough on its way that I would find it hard to back out even if they revealed themselves to be selfish turds. They were wrong, but I still lost a few years of my life (in total) waiting for them to treat me decently.
Jan 12 Ricardo commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Ex Was Wrong For Me But The Sex Was Perfect.
Fichu @ 55 - " They were just dying to get me turned on because it turned them on to see me so turned on"

And that is the secret ingredient that makes for great sex, IMO.
Jan 12 Ricardo commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Ex Was Wrong For Me But The Sex Was Perfect.
Harriet @ 56 - "I think you're saying that some people don't care about how good their sex life is"

A lot of people aren't that into sex. And also, a lot of people really don't care about how satisfied their partners are as long as they themselves are getting what they want. An awful lot, in my experience.
Jan 12 Ricardo commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: My Ex Was Wrong For Me But The Sex Was Perfect.
@ 53 - What I meant is that for them to get better in bed together, independently of everything else, the quality of the sex has to matter (a lot) to both of them. Having feelings for each other will not be sufficient to make it work, even though, as you're saying, it may be an essential ingredient for her.
Jan 12 Ricardo commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Germaphobe Couldn't Be Into Piss, Right?.
@ 33 - I know, though in truth I'd rather we share some delicious chocolate truffles in Belgium after a generous plate of vlaamse frites with mayonnaise.
Jan 12 Ricardo commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Germaphobe Couldn't Be Into Piss, Right?.
@ 32 - Isn't Belgium famous for its lace?
Jan 12 Ricardo commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Germaphobe Couldn't Be Into Piss, Right?.
CMD @ 26 again - "I suspect the peeing part is only a hint that they also have a recording of the orgy that preceded."

I was thinking along the same lines. And if we happen to see the size of his dick in those videos, he'll do anything, even betray the US, in order for Russia never to release them.
Jan 12 Ricardo commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Germaphobe Couldn't Be Into Piss, Right?.
@ 26 - "There’s some wonderful lingerie coming out of Belgium, not to mention beer and chocolate."

What more could anyone ask for?