Apr 19
fetish commented on
The Case for Suing That Florist.
I vaguely think the florist should have the right not to sell, but my response is similar to those kids who refused to testify to the grand jury: ITS NOT A BIG DEAL. No one gives a shit if you sell some flowers to the Gayee McGayerson the gay mayor of Gayville. You run a business. Just sell the damn flowers, make an off color joke as soon as they door closes, then move on. There's no value in such stubbornness.
Apr 18
fetish commented on
Savage Love.
to AARP - nothing wrong with asking a bunch of questions. I'm in a lightly dominany/submissive relationship myself, and one thing my girl really likes is my self-assuredness/confidence and general "in control-ness". when it comes to bedroom play. How did I get that way? I asked questions. You know what she doesn't find hot? Me fumbling around trying things that don't work out. Then I look like a doofus who is NOT in control of things. My self-assuredness in telling her to do X or Y provides her (she is naturally shy and timid and doesn't like unknown risk) with the confidence to go ahead and do whatever it is I ask because she knows I've already got it figured out.
So while the Rom's are full of examples of a men preternaturally knowing exactly how to please a woman without any words exchanged, it's really unlikely in real life.
Apr 17
fetish commented on
France Study: Bras Contribute to Pendulousness of Breasts.
I've seen National Geographic dawg. Old Ladies in the USA might got saggy boobs, but it's nothing like the rock-in-a-sock look most "native" women sport when the pass menopause.
IE, basically, if you are worried about your tits sagging as you get old, NOT WEARING A BRA isn't going to help you out - but it will be less comfortable in the meantime.
Apr 17
fetish commented on
SL Letter of the Day: Big Time.
I think Dan has diagnosed the symptoms correctly but misdiagnosed the disease. He doesn't want a big girl, he wants a "real girl". One with only a high school education; who doesn't run in the grad school/academia world; that prefers Miller 64 to a trip to wine country; that dines at Chili's instead of 3 sprigs of parsley for dinner. A trip to middle america (or the suburbs) will reveal that unequivocally, people there are bigger than urbane city folk; but that's just a small portion of his desire. A big girl who was still active and intelligent would not turn his crank. It's the entire package. Dan, listen to your writers!
Apr 16
fetish commented on
Here's How NOT to Cover a Music Festival.
What exactly is lame now? Average people whose names/occupations/lives/opinions no one gave a shit about 2 minutes are now transliterated into a moving GIF. That person has gone from completely non-existant to object. It's a lateral move, at worst.
Apr 10
fetish commented on
Freedom Is Frustrating.
WHY DOES ANYONE GIVE A FUCK ABOUT THESE KIDS? They broke the law and were punished within it. It's not an "opt-in" system, as much as would-be anarchists like to thing of themselves as the Free Folk North of the Wall.
Where is the news here?