Jun 15 gromm commented on Savage Love.
@30: I have to wonder if his superiors and peers ever caught on to *why* he was so enthusiastic about staking out the gay parks. ;)
Jun 15 gromm commented on Savage Love.
PARK needs better advice:

Find a couple of gay or bi guys to get it on with who are enthusiastically consenting to being watched by you.

That's what my wife did. ;)
May 13 gromm commented on Savage Love.
Oh god, HUH could have been writing about my sex life right now. My wife's going through some issues on top of being exhausted from work and the kids and such.

But you know what HUH? A couple of months ago, we got away on a vacation in Mexico without the kids. And holy fuck. She started her period about two days in, and we've barely ever had sex when that was going on (she's normally either squicked out about it, or the side effects turn her right off), but she was all "Fuck that noise, we're *FUCKING*! Damn the torpedoes, let's ruin some towels!" It's been a while since I saw her so enthusiastic for getting laid. A week with a complete lack of any responsibility whatsoever (and like Dan says, a significant amount of alcohol) was all she needed.

So yeah, that's proof plenty that the passion is still there, it's just been crushed by her overall exhaustion lately.

But I'd also have to admit that every once in a while, we still get away for some group sex action too. I highly recommend letting the kids "go camping" on grandpa's living room floor for a night or two every once in a while.
Apr 29 gromm commented on Donald Trump Sweeps Five NE Primaries, Hillary Takes Three, Possibly Four.
You know what's funny?

I wasn't sure what "demagogue" meant, so I went to merriam-webster.com to look it up. AND THERE IS LITERALLY A PICTURE OF DONALD TRUMP IN IT!
Apr 29 gromm commented on The Return of Youth Pastor Watch.
Don't forget! These are the guys that were actually *convicted*. Considering what rape statistics are like (about what, 20% of rape trials result in convictions? And the number of rapes grossly exceeds the number of charges), it's likely a vanishingly small fraction of the number of actual rapes by youth pastors.

If that thought doesn't make you throw up in your mouth, you have no soul.
Apr 19 gromm commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Girthless And Mirthless.
Thanks Dan, this advice was spot on. Yes, size does matter, and it matters for different reasons to different people.

Personally, I like big dicks. There's a limit of course, but still, there it is I personally think that 8 or 9 inches is just perfect.. And I've been with people (women mostly) who think that my 7" is way too big for them. And I'm all like "Whaaa?" I've also been with women who think I'm exactly perfect for them (my wife included). Any longer or thicker, and she's just "no way, uh uh". She physically can't take my biggest sex toys, even vaginally.

So there you go people. More fuel for the debate.
Apr 16 gromm commented on Savage Love.
"Forgive me for being harsh, PART, but I think standing up to your wife, not dropping your friend, is the best approach to this situation."

Haven't been married to someone who's the slightest bit jealous, eh Dan?

While it may be true that he might be well rid of someone so insecure and jealous, he also has to weigh the distinct possibility that this will first, make matters worse, and second, soon be without a wife. The guy didn't say anything about any other details about his marriage. It's quite possibly the least bad option to *not* fuck it up.
Apr 8 gromm commented on Bigots Blow Up KOMO News Facebook Page.
Also, never read the comments section in any mainstream media outlet. American local news (not national, I mean) is about 20x worse in this regard too, because their local news is basically just troll bait.
Apr 8 gromm commented on Bigots Blow Up KOMO News Facebook Page.
Quick reminder: the haters and bigots live largely outside of the city. *Any* city. Why? Because in a town of 5,000, there's too few people who are different from them. Everyone tries to fit into that tiny culture. There are no sub-cultures. So the ones who totally belong there, feel confident in their belief that everyone is like them.

And then they start to get loud. Especially online.
Mar 17 gromm commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Open Couple May Lose Close-Minded Friend.
@6 "Casual is better, fucking friends is bad news for the marriage."

Don't tell my wife that then, because we've been fucking our friends for about, oh, 15 years now. But maybe being married for 15 years is bad news for the marriage too?