Jan 13 beccoid commented on Savage Love.
Eddie, there will always be people who are more attractive than you are, and people who aren't attracted to you. Get over it.
Jan 8 beccoid commented on The Polyamorous Tipping Point.
Ok. Great. Monogamy is hard, it's all a bit of a white lie, sexual fulfillment is important to emotional health, dating apps are great blah blah blah.

But who has the freaking time to date all these people?
Jan 4 beccoid commented on Idiot Supporter of Idiot Trump Heckles Bernie Sanders at the University of Massachusetts.
If a time machine were available, Jesus would probably recognize Caitlyn Jenner as a woman far before recognizing either Obama or the poster-artist as one of his followers.
Nov 6, 2015 beccoid commented on SL Letter of the Day: Lotion Up.
Oh baby, the smell of a freshly-showered and lubridermed young man.
Nov 6, 2015 beccoid commented on Mormon Church to Kids With Gay Parents: No Magic Underpants For You!.
It's odd, but every single Mormon or ex-mormon I've met has been a ridiculously nice person. Then the church comes out with stuff like this?!
Nov 3, 2015 beccoid commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Invisible Man.
I know it's crazy, but why not try a good haircut and some new clothes, combined with going to a lot of parties/happy hours/conferences for nerds in your field and being flirty with everybody?
Oct 30, 2015 beccoid commented on SL Letter of the Day: Mismatched.
I'm with @1. A lot changes for people at that age and with trying out sex a few times. It may be too early to declare sexual incompatibility.
Oct 22, 2015 beccoid commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Same Time Next Queer.
You're lesbians. Even if you break up you'll still be besties. Just do it.
Oct 15, 2015 beccoid commented on Savage Love.
I can't believe "cis" has actually become a term for self-identification. A) what % of people are teams, 0.1? is it really necessary to proclaim yourself as being in the overwhelming majority, unless the topic is specific to a given difference? B) being a gender (trans or not) is different than being gay, because in saying you're gay you're telling people that their assumptions of your life choices are probably not true, as opposed to saying "hey I am what I present myself as and these are my anatomical specifics" C) cis just sounds lame, non-sexy, too-many-gender-studies discussions, did you learn that prefix in a chemistry class kind of way. "Trans" sounds cool, on the other hand. Transfix, transsubstantiate, transatlantic, transcend, etc etc
Oct 13, 2015 beccoid commented on Giant GOP Asshole Assigns Blame to One of the Parents of the Oregon Shooter. Can You Guess Which?.
They make gay Doritos!!!?! WHERE CAN I GET SOME?