Aug 12, 2010
krissf commented on
Savage Love.
SITQUIALS could do with reading Alice in Genderland, an autobiography about a married man who dresses at the weekend and has a male partner when he's dressed. Might give a few pointers.
http://aliceingenderland.com/
Feb 3, 2010
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Feb 3, 2010
krissf commented on
Dan Savage.
I also think KIW should find a trustworthy therapist. Let's remember that you can't be arrested for something you have thought, only something you have done. It is not illegal to be a pedophile, but it is illegal to act on it.
KIW might also try contacting his local Circles of Support and Accountability. This is a network of people who help sex offenders to live offence-free lives and move away from abuse. Also spot early warning signs and inform the authorities.
In the UK, a child protection charity called the Lucy Faithfull Foundation works with perpetrators. They run a helpline for people troubled by thoughts and impulses to abuse children. They can recommend a therapist with experience in helping abusers cope with their impulses.
There are people who can listen, who won't panic if you describe feelings like this. That's not the same as tolerating child abuse.
http://aliceingenderland.com/