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Sep 13, 2012 krissf commented on Savage Love.
Our bodies, ourselves is a fantastic book suggestion and it's comprehensive enough about women's health to last her a very long time and satisfy her curiosity about lots of things besides sex. Definite yes to that one, and kudos to you for wanting to give your niece proper accurate information.
Mar 21, 2012 krissf commented on Savage Love.
Softcup sounds great (and a diaphragm works well too) but for those of us who bleed heavily or flood there's still a good chance of stained sheets and stained everything else. Best to get over the squeamishness.
Sep 29, 2011 krissf commented on Savage Love.
It took me five years to have an orgasm after I first started to become sexually active. Partly it was getting to know my body and being more relaxed, though that doesn't sound like the OP's issue. Just because it isn't happening now doesn't mean it never will.
Jun 30, 2011 krissf commented on Savage Love.
She might have a retroverted cervix, which is not a problem health-wise, but would make it (much) more painful to have sex in certain positions and more prone to bleeding. A simple vaginal check would be able to show this.
May 1, 2011 krissf commented on Savage Love.
If SFMi is really that worried there are over-the-counter fertility tests for men and women now. They're available in the UK from the chemists, and probably by mail order from the internet too. Cheaper (though a bit less thorough and accurate) than going to a fertility clinic to find out.

It is not impossible that SFMi or his partner has compromised fertility despite all these stats about withdrawal working - the younger you know, the more time you have to decide if and what you might want to do about it. Age is by far from being the only way that people lose their fertility.

Having said that I have friends who couldn't get pregnant together and they discovered after IUI worked first time that the reason was they were never both at home when she was ovulating. So you never know.
Sep 22, 2010 krissf commented on Savage Love.
To everyone who's suggesting Dan do things to include lots of other groups of people - you've had a great idea, so why don't you make it happen yourself? It doesn't all have to be down to one person. Every single one of us can make a difference. So don't wait for someone else to do it!
Aug 12, 2010 krissf commented on Savage Love.
SITQUIALS could do with reading Alice in Genderland, an autobiography about a married man who dresses at the weekend and has a male partner when he's dressed. Might give a few pointers.
http://aliceingenderland.com/
Feb 3, 2010 krissf answered a bunch of weird questions about himself or herself.
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Feb 3, 2010 krissf commented on Dan Savage.
I also think KIW should find a trustworthy therapist. Let's remember that you can't be arrested for something you have thought, only something you have done. It is not illegal to be a pedophile, but it is illegal to act on it.

KIW might also try contacting his local Circles of Support and Accountability. This is a network of people who help sex offenders to live offence-free lives and move away from abuse. Also spot early warning signs and inform the authorities.

In the UK, a child protection charity called the Lucy Faithfull Foundation works with perpetrators. They run a helpline for people troubled by thoughts and impulses to abuse children. They can recommend a therapist with experience in helping abusers cope with their impulses.

There are people who can listen, who won't panic if you describe feelings like this. That's not the same as tolerating child abuse.
 

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