Hunter78
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Hunter78 is unwinding from work.
Jul 17 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
I dunno. I usually like the Deja Vu ads.
Jul 16 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Of course people aren't hard-wired to be monogamous-- if we define monogamy as a 1-1 exclusive, presumably forever relationship. But people very often adopt this meme when they fall in love. Is adult love hard-wired? That's harder to deny. Love is very powerful-- unsupported by external processes, love dominates popular song, love-- cheating, jealousy or other variations of the 1-1 relationship. I don't hear songs about triads or quads.
Jul 16 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
I think they should all just be taken out and shot.

Very unhealthy. We have enough people-haters in the world.
Jul 15 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Bruise,

Your gf is bored with you. She doesn't care if you leave her. Do you care?
Jul 14 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Jibe,

In those polygamous cultures, the polygamy was for the menz. The women were the monogamous ones.

Abolishing the polygamy (male) privilege and replacing it with monogamy for both genders was a significant step toward more equal treatment.
Jul 14 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Adam,

Monogamy is necessary for patriarchy to work. (Was necessary...

Wait a minute, weren't many older, even more patriarchal cultures strongly polygamous, at least at the top? Wasn't, broadly speaking, the spread of monogamy parallel to democratization?
Jul 12 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Escaped from last week!
Jul 11 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
The Week in Review -- Scenes from a Marriage
2 Letters, very weak response.

Had-- Man married 14y and together 17y with wife, assumed it was a monogamous relationship, but finds out his wife has been cheating the entire time with various men. She, discovered, is now repentant. Can this marriage be saved? Guespert Esther Perel, psychotherapist and couples counselor.

Creep-- Late 20s woman recently had her 1st one-night stand with a man. She came upon his no longer active Tinder profile and swiped right. She wants to see him again. How? Without creeping?

The D-birds had a feast with Had. Some of us tried to save his marriage in his shattered world. Perfect children?

Much less interest in Creep, though I think this neurotic woman might make an interesting portrait. CMD went almost transcendental on soccer.
Jul 9 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Phi,

"Gasper." Brilliant.
Jul 9 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Not exactly a success story.