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Nov 30 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Three cheers to all those insisting the trans/cis statuses of CantCome and her gf have no importance whatsoever to their issue. However, the matter is not so clear to me, nor, more importantly, to CantCome herself. Why does she mention their statuses in her 1st sentence, if it's not important? Anorgasmia is not particularly rare among cis women-- does Cant not know that? Then there's gf's recent "sexual awakening", which, however, is coupled with "disphoria". There seems to be more going on here than standard anorgasmia.
Nov 30 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
I'm not sure what Fwtf means with "fiddling". A number of commenters feel it means bf pulls out his dick and publicly plays with the naked object. I'm thinking he's grabbing his cock over his clothes-- behavior I often see with urban youth, and is a de rigeur dance move among male rappers. If the latter, he is merely flouting his anti-mainstreamism. If Fwtf is uncomfortable with that, they need to make clear it's a deal-breaker.

Or maybe he just has crabs.
Nov 30 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.

Your gf likes frottage-- she likes the rubbing, not the penetration. (Isn't Phi a fan of frottage?) Get out of your boxers, and try some skimpy briefs that'll give you a nice tight package. You can get them in sheer fabrics that'll enhance the feeling/appearance of nudity. You'll be able to grind deeper, and she may even grow to like the more penetrative feeling. She might even come to like your dick in her.
Nov 29 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.

No, he didn't. I just seem to recall that the last I read from him, he was po'ed at the flak he received here in response to some of his comments. I could, of course, be wrong. The search function in Savage Love is awful. I do see he's active in other parts of the Stranger, but I'm not pursuing it further.

It seems to me that Dan often recycles letters between SLLOTD and Savage Love (as reported by comments here-- I don't read read SLLOTD), and usually there hadn't been similar dearth of comments. To what do you attribute the fall-off here?
Nov 29 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
The Week in Review -- Eat Me
3 Letters, paltry response

Full-- Sex positive girl has bf into vore. How can she satisfy him?

Vibe-- Person seeks advice for their 1st purchase of a sex toy. They're looking into vibrators, but doesn't want to buy anything that doesn't do it for them. Erica Moen, who does cartoons about sex toys and faucets, is Dan's guespert.

Peaceful Protester-- Person who wants to go to Washington to protest the inauguration by standing with their back to the parade seeks Dan's support. [See my @58.]

Early interest centered on Vibe, particularly Hitachis, but Fleshlights also got noticeable mention. Some practical advice on protesting at the inauguration. Vore generally attracted silence. Readers interested in savage commentary about vore should check out the January, 2015 column The Hunger-- that generated lively discussion! Woof gets a point for telling us the aura of this column has changed. I attribute this to the intolerance of anything like gender-political mainstream, or even off-PC humor. Commenters are more concerned with making this a safe space for gender minorities than a diverse forum on orientation and relationships. I will point to the dogged chasing of Seandr, who tired of the humorless hounding of his het male pov, as an example of this.

Finally we have Venn's bequests. I will note that he bequeathed me the HSE-- probably in full knowledge that HSE was the Vennism I'm most antithetical to, and in denial of HA, which I have most assiduously championed. Nonetheless, I appreciate his recognition, however faintly damning. But the only gift from Venn we truly want is his continued presence.

Nov 29 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Stand with Standing Rock!

This bolsters those who say the left prefers noble defeats to dirty victories.
Nov 26 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
Active vore.
Nov 25 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
A short in your Hitachi? That could add spark to your love life.
Nov 24 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
This is getting ridiculous. Ricardo, I thought your @5 was funny. Strange @6 displayed a militant lack of a sense of humor too often seen around here. Undead @8, misreferenced Strange, not you (I think), by their use of numbers, not handles-- another failing often seen around here. Trump has nothing to do with any of this.

Anyway, I made a roast pork tenderloin and Kath made the rest of the fixings, and we were both thankful we don't have to deal the huge leftovers of a turkey just for the two of us.
Nov 21 Hunter78 commented on Savage Love.
The Week in Review -- Mourning in America
3 Letters, very weak participation

Julie-- Election mourner advocates fucking to get over the depression.

Khh-- Gay has undocumented partner, and is terrified of the aftermath of Trump's election. Should they marry? Legal guespert was Shannon Minter of the National Center for Lesbian Rights.

Give-- Writer donated to Planned Parenthood in acerbic honor of Mike Pence. Dan applauds donating to PP, also recommends ACLU as a worthy post-election recipient.

Of the comments on the letters, Khh drew the most attention-- some pointing out that that marriage is no guarantee of legal residency. Others discussed the problems of emigrating from the US. Otherwise a lot of scattered general whining about the election.

A depressing week to be sure. Maybe we could argue wavy feminism again.