Gou Tongzhi
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Mar 17 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love.
I can believe, but am dismayed by, the number of men who are so selfish and misogynistic and generally crude and nasty that they would take the gift of a willing submissive woman and use it as an excuse to treat a human being like crap. Speaking as a guy who prefers dominance between the sheets, my fellow men sometimes disgust me.
Feb 9 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: He Doesn't Wanna Be Her Next Cuckold.
Cuckolding is such a twisted kink. Men who are into that are nuts.
Feb 8 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: She Knows She's Bi Now—But Does Anyone Else Need To Know?.
Man, I wish my GF would have a FWB relationship with a hot lady.
Feb 4 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love.
@55 Huh?? How did he get oral pleasure from a newspaper??
Feb 4 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Object Lessons, Cont..
Columns like this need a trigger warning.
Jan 27 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Another Sexless Marriage Question.
Sorry, W. You did the right thing. I'm glad you still have happy options ahead of you.
Jan 20 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love.
I am exactly of the same mind as O4O. I am fine with all the fantasizing and whatnot but have zero desire to touch or be touched by anyone but my partner. I really don't understand where O4O is getting the idea that no one else is monogamous by nature. Isn't that the broad majority? Thus Dan's parallel universe comment.
Jan 14 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love.
The height thing is a casual and very deep prejudice in the hetero dating scene. Check out WSM profiles: "Must be taller than me," "Six feet or more," etc.

Luckily, as with any prejudice, you will find those outliers who don't give a shit about those socially constructed "ideals," and there you will likely find smart, un-shallow, self-respecting people as well.