Gou Tongzhi
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Jun 5, 2016 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Little Big Man.
I realize that opinions may differ, but going by what I read, I'm standing by the asshole characterization. He sounds a lot more entitled than insecure to me.

@19 nailed it about the sad duties of women to protect the big strong man's fragile little masculinity.
Jun 4, 2016 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Little Big Man.
Your penis is slightly above average and your sex life is far above average. You have no complaints. If this letter is real and not a weird anonymous boast, you, letter writer, are an asshole.
May 23, 2016 Gou Tongzhi commented on SL Letter of the Day: Psychopathic Tendencies.
Dan is right. He has seen and published many, many letters that could be yours, minus the psychopathic part. Forget about casting your mind being your enemy as your main problem. Get help for that. And then just get out there.
May 11, 2016 Gou Tongzhi commented on Two Teenagers Arrested in Shooting Death of Kent Man.
Shoot him in the head. No, I am not kidding. To hell with him. There are too many at-risk youth who deserve our attention and care. This one lost his rights. End him.
May 3, 2016 Gou Tongzhi commented on Ted Cruz Had a Terrible Monday And He's About to Have a Worse Tuesday.
Cruz did a pretty great job sticking to facts and attempting actual dialogue with the Trump supporters, but the latter have all the baptized, brainwashed and beatified in the GOP Church of Not Giving a Shit About Facts, so it was a lost cause. And in a sense he was hoist by his own party's petard.
May 2, 2016 Gou Tongzhi commented on It's May!.
Jonathan Coulton's version is better.
Apr 24, 2016 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: London Calling.
Oh, the red flags! Oh, the taboos! Can the weak stomachs of the staunchly vanilla, conservative legion of Dan Savage fans take it??!
Apr 20, 2016 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: Girthless And Mirthless.
It's decent advice, but some women just want a real, live, warm, human dick, and toys don't do it for them.
Mar 19, 2016 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Longest Read.
Thank you, Fichu. That is wisdom and kindness that the professional snarkers would do well to think on for a bit.
Mar 17, 2016 Gou Tongzhi commented on Savage Love.
I can believe, but am dismayed by, the number of men who are so selfish and misogynistic and generally crude and nasty that they would take the gift of a willing submissive woman and use it as an excuse to treat a human being like crap. Speaking as a guy who prefers dominance between the sheets, my fellow men sometimes disgust me.