I would much rather live up here and have a few honest friends than live in the South and have everyone acting like my best friend to my face. We don't feel the need for all that kissy-kiss, back-slapping, up in your face & your business, gossipy style. Granted, I miss the food, but Catfish Corner helps.
Relax, have some coffee, and quit trying to force the issue.
If they're dating the pregnancy the usual medical way, by last menstrual period, a woman will have 2 weeks from her missed period (if she's absolutely regular) to get an abortion.
Boy, am I glad my branch of the family left North Dakota!