Jan 7, 2012
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Monogamish Week, Day 3
I don't know if you're still reading, ABIAT, but I'd also tell you to give yourself a break because you have small children. In my anecdotal experience, most women's libidos go down significantly while their children are small. You're what, 36? Kids are 6 and 3? Yeah, just wait a couple of years; it might get nearly back up to where it was in your 20s. :)
Also, I second the fish oil.
Nov 14, 2011
commented on Beating the Hell Out of Black Children
Yeah... if you don't get the difference between spanking and hitting, then by all means, don't spank. But time-outs do NOT always work. And you certainly can't explain shit to a 3-year-old.
Oct 29, 2011
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Cock the Vote
WHY WHY WHY, indeed, @7. Why on earth did he marry her? WHY do people marry people who fall SO short of any sort of sexual compatibility?
People. Don't marry someone who won't suck your dick, if you like having your dick sucked. The end.
Sep 28, 2011
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Bad Tattitude
I don't think she's crazy, but I think you should get a tattoo if you want to. I will say this, to both of you: if s/he'll cheat WITH you, s/he'll cheat ON you. Watch your backs. This relationship contains entirely too much insecurity all the way around.
Jul 7, 2011
commented on Hey, Monogamists: What Would You Tell This Guy?
"You can't have sex with me, but you can't have sex with anyone else either. If you try to talk to me about it, I will cry until you stop."
That is indeed emotional blackmail. If there are no kids, leave. If there are kids, see sex workers. Your wife is not being fair to you. I'm so sorry.