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Nov 20, 2012 Steeeeverino commented on Savage Love.
PP - Please shake hands and part ways with your girlfriend so you can both find sexual satisfaction on the terms you each need. You can't compromise this. If you try, you will bitch about this sullenly for years until you get busted seeking what you know right now you need. Maybe one of you will change, but it's not going to be worth the five or ten years you'll need to find out.

Come on everyone, this is kind of obvious. Why encourage him?
Nov 16, 2012 Steeeeverino commented on Savage Love.
If you don't like cunnilingus I get it. We'll find something else that works, or go our separate ways.

But if you do like it and don't tell me how you like it, that's on you. Clits are like snowflakes.

Oct 8, 2012 Steeeeverino commented on Savage Love Episode 310.
There are no absolutes. Some guys need to be in the waiting room with Ricky Ricardo and his cigars. I was down in the catcher's position, calling for some inside heat, and that was fine for me. And my libido hasn't called in sick once.

But here's the thing: I enjoyed my wife while she was pregnant. I marveled at how the changes in her body gave me a new version of woman to fuck every few weeks. I'm not a breast man, but vive le change! I loved cradling her belly while we did it doggie style. I went down on her the night before the first one came, and when she was tired of being pregnant the second time she called for another tongue lashing.

I've digressed. I had a great time with pregnancies, and I wasn't freaked out by being there at birth. Draw your conclusions. I was going to continue about the wife's micromanagement, but I distracted myself and am going to play Eight and a Half Months with my wife.

Mar 19, 2012 Steeeeverino commented on An Incentive to Join a Gym, Ladies.
"It took only five weeks to recruit the 370 women who experienced the phenomenon."

Must have been some weird-ass locker room talk.
Feb 22, 2012 Steeeeverino commented on Savage Love Episode 279.
Nice tribute at the end.

Good to hand-hold madonna/whore dude, but I've never understood that dichotomy.
Nov 28, 2011 Steeeeverino commented on Savage Love.
My life is the mismatched libido game. I've spent a lonely, misunderstood evening collecting the all-too-frequent questions to Dan on the topic. Besides the empathy, I'm going to ask my wife if she wants to talk about these columns. We have the argument 3X a week, anyway, and this might focus it.

@19 - I found next week's column first ... this makes a lot more sense now.
Sep 2, 2011 Steeeeverino answered a bunch of weird questions about himself or herself.
Aug 31, 2011 Steeeeverino commented on Savage Love.
@@ 71&81 - if condoms aren't 100% preventative, using then more often will still increase the protection, even if it's not 100%. Statistics and shit.

If I tell her, she walks. What I want, in the best possible world, is for her to enjoy fucking me. (yes, talked about it, yes, counseling, yes, listened). If I stop now, I can learn from this, though trust in the marriage is compromised. But I'm not sure I can.
Aug 31, 2011 Steeeeverino commented on Savage Love.
LAH's letter makes me realize that I've been a CPOS since I started fucking another woman a couple of months ago. My wife just has never been interested in sex (especially with me, I fear) and even when she remembers to try it's never momentous. Still, seeing LAH lay this out, I realize I'm wrong, even if she doesn't suspect a thIng. And she doesn't, because she doesn't notice that I think about sex until I tell her.

But goddamn I'm happier than I've been in years. People notice--even she noticed that I was happy when she took a business trip a few weeks ago. And it's translated well into my so-called sex life with her, too. Using protection with the other woman. I love being sexually desirable and powerful again. It's been so very long.

I have some thinking to do; a small child is involved. But I love feeling this druglike euphoria, and I. don't know if I can stop, even though it's wrong.
Aug 13, 2011 Steeeeverino updated his or her bio.