East Coast Douglas
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Nov 4, 2013 East Coast Douglas commented on SL Letter of the Day: Not Bad Work For a Transphobic Asshole, Huh?.
Funny, I've always thought "gold star gay" was just a thing among my small group of friends.
Oct 14, 2013 East Coast Douglas commented on SL Letter of the Day: Cum Now, Daniel....
For you seandr.

People who spell cum (in the sexual usage) with an "e" are just like Hitler.
Oct 4, 2013 East Coast Douglas commented on SLLOTD: Maladjusted Shits.

I absolutely would not tell them the details of my sexuality unless I felt comfortable with them

Do you really think that being asexual is a "detail" of one's sexuality? Or being gay or straight for that matter?
Sep 26, 2013 East Coast Douglas commented on SL Letter of the Day: There Are Two Sides to Every Story.
I personally will sent $10.00 to any member of the writing group who will send their perspective on this, as long as they match the word count.
Aug 21, 2013 East Coast Douglas commented on SL Letter of the Day: That Kid Is No Kleptomaniac.
I thought this was the key:

"And while the stealing is definitely worrisome, it does provide a convenient, less awkward way for you to address the fetishism issue. Stealing from the neighbors is the main reason, you can tell your stepson, that you've decided to bring him to see a therapist."

I read that to mean that "kleptomania" could be a pretext to avoid giving the kid the message that the diaper thing is a huge deal that requires mental help. A way to give him the opportunity for therapy without traumatizing him about his "fetish."
Aug 20, 2013 East Coast Douglas commented on Using Photoshop For Evil.
Seriously, how much do you have to dislike real children to think this is cute?
Jul 24, 2013 East Coast Douglas commented on Craigslist Ad of the Day.
I can cook for you, clean for you, blow you, and not be allowed to mouth off about it? 40 years ago that was called being a wife.
Jul 18, 2013 East Coast Douglas commented on SL Letter of the Day: Fun with Frying Pans.
What do you happen to have around the house that could hang from a shoelace without slipping out of the knot, and weighs the most it can w/o breaking the shoelace (or you), and will hang freely in a relatively tight space?

I would imagine it would start with yanking your crank extra hard while wanking, discovering you like it, yanking even harder, and starting to wonder how you could increase and focus the sensation beyond what such a blunt instrument as your hand from the angles available to it.

I didn't read this as the guy having a thing for frying pans. I read it as poorly thought out but nevertheless creative problem solving. And it leaves both hands free.
Jul 17, 2013 East Coast Douglas commented on Our Flying Monkeys Really Soar.

Flying Monkeys is Dan's loving term for us, his blindly-obedient minions. I think it's a comment on what that makes him...
Jul 16, 2013 East Coast Douglas commented on SL Letter of the Day: That Sucking Sound.

I think for straight-chasers the emphasis is on their sexual object choices and not on their sexual objectivity. I agree, straight chasing - finding men attractive specifically because they're straight - stems from internalized homophobia. But the manifestation is purely externalized. it's the idea that a schlep with a beer-gut, a Penthouse in one hand and the back of your head in the other is by definition hotter than an Adonis with the back of your head in both hands.

And there is probably some obsequious "pride" in giving such good head that you can lure straight men down to your level. If you feel being gay already debases yourself, then there must be erotic power in the idea that your filthy gay skills are so powerful they can draw straight men into permitting your disgusting gay acts, but only to the point that their natural heterosexual superiority remains beyond question.

Like all dom/sub games, the psychology is multifaceted and runs very deep.

But I don't doubt for a minute that the guys giving the letter-writer head are getting exactly what they want from him. There are websites out there that cater to this exact fetish. My impression is that they are mostly gay-on-gay roll playing, but the scenario is always a variation on some simpering faggot being bullied by "real men," either being grateful that he's not getting the physical beating he naturally deserves or maybe being slapped around a little before the bully either holds his nose and reluctantly allows himself to be serviced, or expresses his outrage through a fantasy rape.

The situation the letter writer describes is just a variation on that fantasy. The only difference is that it's real, and therefore less in need dramatic embellishments.