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RTam

Nashville, Tennessee (along with Memphis, the only place Democrats can live in peace in the whole state)

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What is your sweetest taboo?: Josh Lanyon murder mysteries
What keeps you up at night?: Caffeine
Will in Seattle or Fnarf
Bring It On or Stomp the Yard
SF or LA

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Apr 3

RTam commented on The Worst Place On Earth.

There was one incident recently where a trans woman was walking around naked in a women's locker room when children were present and the moms and kids were pretty upset seeing a penis on the premises - and rightfully so. http://jezebel.com/5957108/trans-woman-i…

Frankly, I've been skeeved out by some cis-women walking around naked in locker rooms - seriously, I do NOT want to see your bits on display. Exhibitionism isn't okay without the viewers' consent, no matter who you are.

However, restrooms are either single user or have stall doors. I've never seen a vagina on display in a public bathroom, so I do NOT know what the REAL problem is.

Apr 3

RTam commented on SL Letter of the Day: You're Doing Everything Right.

I agree with Dan and the LW. I've tried online dating and have a tendency to just "nope, nope, nope" through the different profiles. I don't THINK I'd do that just because someone was an amputee, but since I haven't run across it, I don't know. What I would not do is walk out on a guy I found otherwise interesting/attractive because of it.

I think he's doing it right.

Mar 22

RTam commented on SL Letter of the Day: Help Kate Bornstein Beat Cancer.

@6 - because if EVERYONE has access to the same level of health care, the wealthy might have to wait for theirs and that is NOT okay.

/sarcasm

Mar 13

RTam commented on Don't Say You Weren't Warned.

I donate to the ACLU every month, along with AFER, LAMBDA Legal, and the Ali Forney Center. I figure if I'm not willing to get off my butt and do actual work, it's the VERY least I can do.

Mar 4

RTam commented on William Saletan Sends Slate Readers to a Picture of a Cock Stuck Full of Needles.

@4 - I second that!

Feb 27

RTam commented on Savage Love.

I have a Mirena IUD and yes it hurt getting it inserted (I've never had children), and the first three months were a constant cramp-fest. BUT two years later, I am thrilled with it. Almost no periods, no pregnancy worries and while condoms are a must, there's no additional concern about accidental breakage.

Why anyone would think that inserting one into a virgin is wrong or cruel is beyond me.

As for rough sex being a problem, it's not the sex, it's whether the penis is hitting the cervix that could be an issue. Frankly, that's pretty damn painful with or without an IUD and I can see it being more of an issue with one, but thankfully most men are not that big. Though if you find yourself enjoying cervix hitting sex, it is something to consider.

Feb 26

RTam commented on "We Saw Your Junk".

@9 Thanks! But it would be better with the "I Saw Your Junk" song :)

Feb 26

RTam commented on "We Saw Your Junk".

DO IT GUS!!! You'll be an internet sensation. For a minute or two at LEAST!

Seriously. Do it.

Feb 18

RTam commented on The Tranny Awards Were Last Night.

@6 Why not? Those Tumblr social justice bloggers hate on Dan all the time. They will not stop with the "Dan hates bi people" and "Dan hates trans* people" crap.

Very annoying.