commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day:
Hire a well reviewed rentboy. They are very careful about exposure and safety. Also they will do the best job of walking you through all the complexities of gay sex in a non-selfish way. It really is worth it, at least for the first few times.
Folks on craigslist are the exact opposite.
commented on Talking Dirty with the Seattle Kinksters Who Are Making Taboo Topics Trendy
@1 I've known Sparky for more than a decade and well before his kinky life. I've dined with his mother. He is as nice and sweet a person as you could ever know. Just like most folks in the kink world he is normal, loving and generous. He maintains lifelong friendships and long term sexual relationships.
This is the opposite of a psychopath.
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Ring On It
Ok guys, I have a PA and have for about 15 years. It was asked for by my husband who thinks they are sexy. Turns out having a weight attached to the head of your cock is very, very pleasurable. It makes for very intense sex and orgasms. There are downsides like the sitting-to-pee mentioned earlier and some very painful morning wood pajama entanglement situations.
Once I lost the ring when it fell out unexpectedly and found that I really missed it. I am not suggesting that everyone should go out and do it but there are real sexual reasons why someone might get this piercing and really enjoy it.