commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: A Ring On It
Ok guys, I have a PA and have for about 15 years. It was asked for by my husband who thinks they are sexy. Turns out having a weight attached to the head of your cock is very, very pleasurable. It makes for very intense sex and orgasms. There are downsides like the sitting-to-pee mentioned earlier and some very painful morning wood pajama entanglement situations.
Once I lost the ring when it fell out unexpectedly and found that I really missed it. I am not suggesting that everyone should go out and do it but there are real sexual reasons why someone might get this piercing and really enjoy it.
Dec 23, 2015
commented on Savage Love
Orgasm denial is a great form of control. I don't really get the cages though. In addition to not working or fitting very well (and in the case of a PA you need a special model or you will get some noticeable clanking sounds) Any self-respecting sub should be able to follow the rule of "no jerking off allowed" without the need for special equipment.
Dec 10, 2015
commented on A Look at the Fame of Tyler Oakley in Snervous
Pubescent girls will always find cute boys to obsess about. Nothing new here. As it happens, Tyler is a good person, and a good role model for how to treat others. Sure Justin beiber has talent but that doesn't make him a good person or a good role model.
Nov 25, 2015
commented on Savage Love Letter of the Day: The Thanksgiving Turkey
This is the 30th year that we will not be going to thanksgiving or Xmas with the families. It has been so long that I can not remember why it is such a big fucking deal to spend the day as a forced group. Why do we put so much importance on these kind of traditions? You would think that "everyone together" had some real value but it is just one more example of worshiping symbolism.