mydriasis
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Aug 19, 2014 mydriasis commented on Savage Love.
@Alison

I can't tell if you're obtuse-trolling or if you really don't understand what I'm trying to say here.
Aug 19, 2014 mydriasis commented on Savage Love.
"I don't agree with either her or Alison on the way the clitoral ones either make me feel or the after-effects. I feel them as more "exciting," more intense in a sharp way, but very different from the G-spot ones. "

From my description: "I'm on the opposite end from you. To me clitoral orgasms are too sharp and superficial. They're intense, they're unmistakably an orgasm, they're certainly "real" but for me they're nothing compared to what the G-spot orgasm is."

It seems like we DID describe them in similar ways.
Aug 19, 2014 mydriasis commented on Savage Love.
@Alison

It's not up to me, but I'll say I'm not a fan of that wording.

If I had a dollar every time I saw someone either imply outright claim that the G-spot doesn't exist, well...

I'm on the opposite end from you. To me clitoral orgasms are too sharp and superficial. They're intense, they're unmistakably an orgasm, they're certainly "real" but for me they're nothing compared to what the G-spot orgasm is. The refractory period after one is basically nothing.

Oscar Wilde once said: " A cigarette is the perfect type of a perfect pleasure. It is exquisite, and it leaves one unsatisfied." He could have just as easily been talking about the clit orgasm - the way I experience it anyway.

The g-spot orgasm though... that feeling seeps into your bones, dissolves into every cell in your body, creates that magical warm-all-over-sedated feeling that makes opiates so addictive. And it's a nice nightcap to boot.

However, I'm a supremely hyperactive person so I'll be up for round two either way. I'm a glutton like that.

Point is I can't tell you to do otherwise but I felt like expressing my distaste with the implication that clit orgasms are the 'real' ones, especially since lots of people try to claim the same thing in a not so 'this is my subjective personal experience' way.
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Aug 19, 2014 mydriasis commented on Savage Love.
@Alison

clitoral (“real”) orgasm

Um... the fuck?
Aug 17, 2014 mydriasis commented on Savage Love.
@Erica

I don't personally know any female sex workers who'd be down for that kind of set-up unless maybe the payoff was astronomical. But you know what you've seen better than me.
Aug 17, 2014 mydriasis commented on Savage Love.
@seandr

She meant foosball, you really gonna play like you didn't understand her?
Aug 17, 2014 mydriasis commented on Savage Love.
@sissoucat

Exactly why single motherhood scares the absolute shit out of me.
Aug 16, 2014 mydriasis commented on Savage Love.
I don't have any experience with male sex workers but if they charge flat rates where women can "go in on it" together rather than the price going up per person well... man that's rough.
Aug 16, 2014 mydriasis commented on Savage Love.
@Erica

In your dream you invented paperclips or something? Because that is one expensive sounding fantasy. :p
Aug 16, 2014 mydriasis commented on Savage Love.
@sb53

"Maybe for women "the world is their bordello?""

No, see, when guys pay for sex they usually have their needs met in exchange for money.

A woman picking up a non-pro man is not so lucky a lot of the time, which is one of the reasons women tend to be unimpressed with casual sex.