Oct 26, 2012
commented on A Crossdresser's Lament
Did someone declare it bitter week? Seems like commenters are a little less sensitive than usual.
Oct 16, 2012
commented on SL Letter of the Day: Nonmonogamous Blues
Great discussion. I can't decide where I fall on this.
I think the factor of the existence of kids complicates it. As a non-custodial father, (shared legal custody), my decision wouldn't be separable from that relationship with the kids. I do see my kids on one of those schedules, but it isn't enough. More often now, physical custody is being shared, but I couldn't afford a lawyer. She could through her parents. I lost a lot in the arrangement.
I wasn't in the situation of cheating vs. honesty, but if that were the only factor, with the knowledge I have now, I'd rather be in a cheating relationship and see my kids and still have influence on their lives. That isn't way is portrayed above, but perhaps I have shared a scenario that adds to the complexity.