http://www.thestranger.com/seattle/SavageLove?oid=15085111 Comments On: Savage Love by Dan Savage en-us Copyright 2013 The Stranger. All rights reserved. This RSS file is offered to individuals, The Stranger readers, and non-commercial organizations only. Any commercial websites wishing to use this RSS file, please contact The Stranger. webmaster@thestranger.com (The Stranger Webmaster) Tue, 21 May 2013 00:00:01 -0700 Tue, 21 May 2013 19:00:00 -0700 Foundation http://blogs.law.harvard.edu/tech/rss my name is Miss Georgina peckett, I'm from USA.
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Posted by atanasia]]> Sun, 04 Nov 2012 11:21:42 -0800 The Stranger
ADULT NUDITY SHOULD NOT BE A PROBLEM FOR SMALL CHILDREN. FALSE CLAIMS OF "pedophilia" IN THE MEDIA HAS "CLOUDED" THE ABILITY TO REASON IN THE MINDS OF "POLITICALLY-CORRECT" ADULTS.

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Posted by CHRISTOPHER ALLEN HORTON]]> Fri, 02 Nov 2012 22:16:57 -0700 The Stranger No doll, I'm not your wife.

I figured that out when you started talking about golden showers, which aren't my thing. The "come in the eye" story, on the other hand, could easily have been written by her.
Posted by seandr]]> Wed, 31 Oct 2012 22:54:27 -0700 The Stranger Sorry, I didn't want to disillusion you.

I just liked it because it was the least prejudiced (pro or con) view on the making of porn I had ever seen before.
Posted by migrationist]]> Wed, 31 Oct 2012 01:31:11 -0700 The Stranger Posted by Eirene]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 22:44:16 -0700 The Stranger
No doll, I'm not your wife.
Posted by albeit]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 21:41:04 -0700 The Stranger
@migrationist: I watched about 30 minutes of that movie you suggested before I turned it off, curled into fetal position, and wept. Assuming that movie is representative of the San Fernando porn factory in general, I doubt any woman could possibly have an orgasm under any circumstance within a 3 mile radius of that city. Frankly, I'm shocked the men manage to pull it off.

@albeit: Read your story and thought, "Wait a minute, what's my wife doing in the Savage Love comments section?"
Posted by seandr]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 19:52:32 -0700 The Stranger
'when you pee on your lover, yes, that is a degrading act. If you're into that, then fine. As a straight woman, I do not get the kink of humiliation and degradation. I just do not comprehend how that can be sexy in the least.'

It's funny, I didn't feel like I was humiliating him. He asked me to pee on him after he told me how sexy it was. I had never done it before, but I could tell he was really into it. To me it's a harmless kink to explore and indulge.

But I agree with you, I'm into power play, but I am not into humiliation or degradation. That's not sexy. At all.

I would never get naked with a man with that as his modus operandi.
Posted by albeit]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 19:51:43 -0700 The Stranger Posted by sanguisuga]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 19:48:56 -0700 The Stranger As a straight woman, I do not get the kink of humiliation and degradation.

I'm a straight guy and that doesn't appeal to me either. I like dominance and submission, but more like dominance-lite and submission with 50% less humilies.
Posted by Roma]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 18:12:47 -0700 The Stranger I think that it is true that some of the things that are extremely common in mainstream hetero porn are things that the majority of women don't like (the ones that come to mind immediately are the "face-fucking" oral sex tropes, hair-pulling during doggy style, and coming on the face).

161/nocutename: Speaking only for myself, a straight woman, I like all the things that alguna rubia mentions in post #159 as things "the majority of women don't like." I like them a lot.

nocutename, as you went on to note, you weren't presuming to speak for other women. I'd bet that, although you and some other women love those things, alguna is right; the majority of women don't like those things. If you're a guy who's really into, for example, coming on a woman's face and you meet a woman who not only tolerates it but loves it, you probably feel like you won the lottery.
Posted by Roma]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 18:03:43 -0700 The Stranger
It was so great to see normal bodies in the orgy scenes. No ink, pumped up, plastic surgery, just naked natural bodies. With full bush.

I remember thinking 'Wow. The naked body is so beautiful in it's natural state'.
Posted by albeit]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 16:31:32 -0700 The Stranger Posted by sanguisuga]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 15:24:19 -0700 The Stranger
Gay porn is much hotter, for me, but I'm not sure if that's because you lose the (goofy) women or have extra hard cocks. A little of both. And a lot of it is surprisingly friendly, yes, gnot @173, and shows how the het stuff is more about dominance and less friendly.
Posted by EricaP]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 15:16:10 -0700 The Stranger
You get what you seek. Today you have a wide diversity of porn stars. Young, old, big, small, beautiful, plain, ugly, any race you want. You are what you watch.


Posted by Hunter78]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 15:11:51 -0700 The Stranger
Posted by Old Crow]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 12:54:33 -0700 The Stranger
I have found that in commercial porn the men look like Jersey Shore douchebags (GTL) and the women look like pneumatic drag queens. it's like taking a regular woman and giving her the 'monster truck' treatment: the most aggressive extreme of femininity. Maybe men subconsciously are turned on by the drag queen/she-male look? It's crazy cartoon-ish.

Neither of which I find sexy.
Posted by albeit]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 12:20:53 -0700 The Stranger Posted by gnot]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 10:21:32 -0700 The Stranger Posted by gnot]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 10:19:27 -0700 The Stranger Posted by gnot]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 10:15:24 -0700 The Stranger Posted by gnot]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 10:09:48 -0700 The Stranger
I don't know. I've never talked to my friends about facials, so I don't know if they object because they find it degrading or misogynistic.

After my failed facial experiment, my boyfriend showed me some facial porn he thought was hot. First of all, I'm down with porn, but most of what I see is a total turn off. What's the opposite of a hard on? A hard off? So the facials he showed me just looked stupid and fake. And all the girls on their knees yelping and begging like a dog waiting for it's 'treat'. What a gross hard off.

But how are facials any more degrading than when I pee on my lover (in the bathtub of course)? Or when I sit on his face? These are both positions of power and submission.
Posted by albeit]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 09:45:51 -0700 The Stranger
Yikes. That sounds horrible. And uncomfortable.
Posted by albeit]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 09:32:25 -0700 The Stranger
Posted by nocutename]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2012 06:44:44 -0700 The Stranger