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    <author><![CDATA[auntie grizelda]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[@64: Hell, it's just basically target practice with guys, anyway, isn't it?
        
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      <![CDATA[The Smitten Kitten is one of the many reasons that Minneapolis is the best.
        
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      <![CDATA[Red, red wiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiine........stay close to meeeeeeeee......
        
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      <![CDATA[I may not ever quite go for a fucksaw in my lifetime, and I'll gladly take a nice, juicy steak over the glowing red penis in the Smitten Kitten ad any day, but good golly, Miss Molly----nothing like a recent red meat diet change for the better! GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!<br />
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      <![CDATA[Crin,<br />
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I kind of agree with you. But I thought she deserved a straight answer.<br />
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She's concerned the sex will become monotonous. And <b>she</b> has plans for <b>their</b> future.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[dootsie]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[For a couple's sex toy, how about some bondage tape, a blindfold or some rope.  A vibrator is fun to play with, but I feel like the question was asking for more of a couple's experience purchase.
        
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      <![CDATA[NANCY!<br />
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How about a Hot Carl!
        
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      <![CDATA[@7 (again), but since you asked (in an implied way anyway). You know what a "sawsall"™ is (<a href="http://www.google.com/search?q=sawsall&hl=en&client=safari&tbo=u&rls=en&tbm=isch&source=univ&sa=X&ei=NGT8UN2fG6PM2AX9vIGQBA&ved=0CFUQsAQ&biw=1874&bih=948" rel="nofollow">http://www.google.com/search?q=sawsall&h&hellip;</a>)<br />
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Well, it's that with a dildo on the end.
        
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      <![CDATA[@7 No.
        
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      <![CDATA[Nancy, I'd save the toy-buying for another occasion, and do it with Carl, so you can have the fun of shopping together and pick out something you both are interested in using.  For an anniversary/Valentine's Day gift that I'm assuming you want to be a surprise, I'd suggest something more in line with giving yourself as a present.  <br />
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This could take the form of a (homemade) coupon/voucher book, with things you already know he thinks are sexy or that you know he likes. It could also be some new lingerie if he likes lingerie.    If you don't already know any of his fantasies, ask him and see if you can find a creative, playful way of making one come true as an anniversary present. If you really want to buy a toy, and you two have never used any before, I'd suggest starting low-key, and non vibrating, because you can always raise the bar and that way you've got something to add to escalate things later.  Maybe something more couple-y, this time, considering the occasion.<br />
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Then, since you and Carl plan on being together for a long time, you two can browse some sites together or go to a shop together and buy some toys.  Everyone should probably have at least one kind of vibrator and one good cock ring in his/her bag o'fun.<br />
        
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      <![CDATA[For Nancy: How about a Hitachi Magic Wand? (Google Betty Dodson) This is a cool, industrial strength vibrator that you can use to give massages, and that also works super great for getting females off. I own one and I love, for instance, having sex rear entry while my partner holds the wand against herself and comes. Another activity I enjoy a lot is when my lover gives me a blow job as she uses the wand to stimulate herself so she cums while sucking my cock.That usually puts me over the edge. I think most guys love seeing their woman have an orgasm and this device makes for more of them and can add them to a variety of situations. Costs about $45 on ebay. Could get some bondage stuff as well if she's determined to spend the whole $100.
        
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      <![CDATA[The vulva looks like a Martian-designed landing place for a bag of balls.<br />
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      <![CDATA[I like the dorsal and ventral language. It likens an erect cock to a snake or a fish.<br />
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      <![CDATA[When the cock is in the cunt, it's not contacting the clit at all.  Sensations the clit is perceiving are transmitted movement, not direct.  The man's lower abdomen ("pubic bone") can directly contact the clit at full penetration.<br />
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In front-to-front non-penetrating positions it is the "ventral" side of the cock that is likely to make contact with the hood of the clit.<br />
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In back-to-front positions the dick's dorsal side can make non-penetrative clitoral contact. In the (evolutionarily) classic back-to-front doggie style, the balls can make actual direct slapping contact with the clit while fucking.<br />
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When I say "clit", I mean the exposed hood and its perceptible shaft.  I appreciate the modern understanding that the roots of the clit wrap around the vagina, but, geez, we had to wait until the 21st c to find this out?<br />
        
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      <![CDATA[@63 When inserted in a vagina, the dorsal side that was against his belly, is now against her clit:)<br />
@65 I also think superior and proximal are more appropriate terms, see my previous comment re. animal toys, lol, probably because I learned dorsal and ventral with rostral and caudal, and in physiology we more commonly use superior, inferior, proximal, distal.
        
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      <![CDATA[@63<br />
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I think the joke was that he was imagining the penis as it's own entity, with it's own anatomical axis. I mean, we don't use dorsal/ventral as much as anterior/posterior outside neuroanatomy in my own somewhat limited experience.<br />
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I'm kind of rusty, but I think "superior" is more appropriate in this context. The superior, most proximal aspect of the penis is most in contact with the clit.<br />
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/nerdalert.
        
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      <![CDATA[@61<br />
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Haha, I appreciate the shoutout.<br />
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I will never forget the anatomical mneumonic for remembering the autonomic control of male sexual functioning.<br />
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"<b>P</b>oint" and "<b>S</b>hoot". :)
        
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      <![CDATA[@52  Not to get waaay too technical, but the anatomical position presumes an erection, so the dorsal side is touching his belly and it's the ventral side where a clitoral vibrator would help.  Just saying.
        
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      <![CDATA[Ltr 1: Not hard to answer. Dan turned it into a chance to thank his sponsors, which is commendable enough.<br />
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Ltr 2: Does Dan really want to introduce vampire talk here? Do we need that? Want it?<br />
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<i>Savage Lovecast</i> Ad? Misplaced.<br />
        
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      <![CDATA[@52 seandr, I love your spot on comments, and literally laughed out loud at the phrase "dorsal side of his dick". I know what that means, I'm sure Mydriasis knows what it means, but most 19 yr olds probably have no idea what dorsal is. Also, I now need brain bleach to get rid of the parade of toys shaped like dolphins and other animals  marching through my mind!
        
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      <![CDATA[@56, not the only one. I have a countdown widget on my phone set for when it comes back on...23 days 11 hrs, 32 minutes and 50 seconds.
        
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      <![CDATA[I know it's bad form to read too much into what's not said in a letter, but I can't help wondering what's making NANCY think her boyfriend is bored.  The backstory I'm inventing is either that she's the one who's bored or otherwise dissatisfied and can't quite admit that to herself or that she's insecure in some other part of their relationship and thinking she can cure everything with better sex for him, make him stay with her forever because she's offering better sex than anyone else.  Most relationships that we have when we're 19 don't last to the happily-ever-after stage anyway, so I'm pretty secure in saying this no matter what, but I think this relationship in on shaky grounds from the start.  It's not just the exclamation points.
        
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    <author><![CDATA[Tessiee]]></author>
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      <![CDATA[Nancy is on the right track.  There's no point in sinking a lot of money into toys and props if you're not sure they'll work for both of you.  She and Carl (has anybody else noticed that the names are the same as the couple in "Eating Raoul"?) could spice things up without spending too much by, perhaps, choosing a different position and/or location, role-playing, sexy talk, etc.  There are probably things that she and Carl already own that could be repurposed -- for example, a scarf/bandanna could be used as a tie-up or blindfold.  Coconut oil makes a nice-smelling, good-tasting lube, and can be found at reasonable prices at most food stores (a little dab of it also works fine as a leave-in conditioner).  Good luck and have fun!<br />
        
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      <![CDATA[@56 Lol, I know! I laughed so hard, and I was really surprised to get this far down into the comments without anyone mentioning the Walking Dead at all!
        
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      <![CDATA[I must be the only Walking Dead fan on here. Letter 2 is fake, but I laughed so hard. That was fantastic.
        
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