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      <![CDATA[How can you just dismiss anti-racial-preference like that? When I see compelling data showing that, apart from socioeconomic status, race in and of itself has a significant effect on who succeeds in education and there is nothing besides racism to blame, I'll support racial preferences. I'll want them to be standardized, of course, but I'll support them. So far, socioeconomic preferences look fine to me, and because of minorities (except Asian and Jewish people) having lower incomes than non-Jewish whites, such measures would disproportionately help them out anyway.<br>
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Foisting a bullshit concept of "white-male-ness" onto every indicator of success in life, however, doesn't do it for me.<br>
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Racism is terrible. I've seen it, I've broken up fights based on it, and I've even experienced it, and yes, I'm white (no, it wasn't just a fancified "check your privilege"; it was actually racism). It's dehumanizing to everyone involved. But you can't blame everything on it.
        
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      <![CDATA[Stumbled upon this and posted on my Facebook page for my site - http://www.transracialparenting.com. I lived in San Francisco for 16 years (I'm from New Orleans and am back home now) and I was having a FB conversation on race with a former colleague there who said, "Thankfully I live in San Francisco where racism isn't an issue." I almost fell off my desk chair - are there any blacks living in San Francisco, um, no, most people of color live on the other side of the Bay. The Hispanics are ghettoized in the Mission and has anyone heard of Asian Privilege? It really floors me that the U.S. thinks that New Orleans is the ONLY place with a race problem after seeing images from the 2005 Federal Flood. I'm happy to see there are like minded white people in the PNW who are actually taking the charge on this very serious issues in our country. Bravo.
        
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      <![CDATA[Seattle has statues of communist leaders in the middle of town. Go read the communist manifesto then you`ll know what all this BS is about.
        
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      <![CDATA[To me the racists are the ones who bring it up. MLK taught me to judge a person on the content of his/her character. This is natural for me. People who look at groups who don't perform well as a group need to realize that everyone paves their own road in their lives.  <br />
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Dr. Benjamin Carson, a leading world renown brain surgeon is black and grew up in a poor uneducated neighborhood. He rose up, got a good education, was a moral man, and suceeded. Why is it that the people who focus on this "white priveledge" discount personal responsibility these days? Regardless of color,  Dr. Benjamin Carson made it big time, Condoleeza Rice, Eric Holder, and countless others showed us all that racism is thing of the past. Things are as they are. Whites have a higher IQ than blacks on average, Africa is pathetic..can anyone acknowledge these facts? Rome 2000 years ago was beautiful with great architecture, art etc, while in many parts of Africa, people live in giant birds nests. With the lower IQ, on average, this means that blacks will need to study and perservere. My father wasn't too bright. He told me that he had to study much harder to get through veterinary school, but he had a strong will to succeed.<br />
If some refuse to even learn to speak English properly, drop out of high school, fail to control themselves morally, and end up losers, whose fault is that? Whitey's? Please...this article is pathetic. There isn't one decent African nation to live in. Do you think we would be better off in Sudan? Ethiopia? Somalia?<br />
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Stop all of this nonsense. If someone drops out of school, they should pick fruit, live in a shack with an outhouse, and get a chance to go to nightschool to learn a skill to better themselves. Then they can move out of the shack and earn..(is "earn" racist?) their lifestyles. I think welfare and all of this nonsensical coddling of the losers just perpetuates the problem. We need tough love. We need to return to virtue, high moral standards, and dump this insane liberal progressive, Marxist poison mentality. Others have "made it" by their own efforts. If someone happens to have a 70 IQ, then they will have limitations because they just weren't born with high intelligence, so they can take jobs working on oil rigs, crab boats, welding etc..All very high paying jobs.<br />
So there you have it. Smart people of any color have nothing to feel guilty about. If we create a neighborhood of thugs, drug dealers, morally deficient, lazy people..a slum, then we can get out of it by our own efforts, or live with our bad decisions.<br />
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      <![CDATA[I stopped reading reading at "tea partyer". You write this tome about your struggle to feel better about your whiteness and then make absurd, racist assumptions about whites. <br>
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Two wongs don't make a white.<br>
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You won't find Asians wasting their time writing self-loathing garbage like this.
        
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      <![CDATA[Reading the comments and amazed that in all the ones saying, "It's not racism you should be talking about, but class," there's only 1 comment so far (#240) that mentions intersectionality. It sure is possible to have problems along multiples axes.<br>
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This is a great 101 piece not on racism, but on how to just start talking about it among other white people and examining our own micro-aggressions. <br>
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But I'm also fascinated by the repeated negative example of Philadelphia in the comments. In the part where I live, at least, there's a lot of work on talking about privilege and addressing our issues. Check out the Theater of the Oppressed for just one example.
        
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      <![CDATA[Re: Post #373:<br />
"Yesterday, I spent the afternoon typing quotes from Harvard University's Professor Western's "Punishment and Inequality in America" into Google Docs. If anyone doubts that irrefutable racism exists they should pause to read the following facts:"<br />
...followed by a bunch of redundant facts about the incarceration of black men.<br />
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When you put forth incarceration as evidence of racism, one can't help but wonder if you're disingenuous or just myopic. Yes, it could be racism that causes this, but that is not the only possible explanation that would cross most people's minds.
        
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      <![CDATA[This article is a lot of "no, you don't get it" without ever explaining what it is that we don't get. In particular, no one explains why a white city is automatically a racist city. Are we just to accept this logical fallacy without question?
        
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Please feel free to work to inform Americans that ....<br>
the ETHNIC term of "African-American" (AA) is NOT <br>
a 'Synonym' for the RACIAL term of 'Black American' <br>
(BA) -- the two (2) terms are actually referring to two <br>
(2) entirely DIFFERENT GROUPS of people -- AND that <br>
many of the true AAs find it to be very offensive that <br>
our society works to force them to "carry the statistics" <br>
(particularly the 'negative' ones -- ex. AIDS / HIV Rates, <br>
STD Rates; Crime Rates; Out-Of-Wedlock Birthrates; <br>
Higher-Education Drop-Out Rates, STD Rate; etc.) --<br>
for all of the many, many, many diverse BA groups <br>
and communities that are currently living in the U.S. <br>
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https://www.facebook.com/allpeople.gifts&hellip;<br>
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      <![CDATA[People like Jen are a bunch of sado-masochistic intellectual-masturbation artists...
        
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      <![CDATA["Racist is the new nigger."  <br />
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Haha, that's a great line.  Not true though. <br />
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I sometimes point out racism when I see it, because that's something I do, and while it might bug the racists I do it to (OK, it does tend to), it doesn't bug them nearly so much as it would if I called them 'nigger' or some equivolent (depending on ... whatever, any bigoted slur). <br />
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Also, the sentiment associated with saying to someone, "that's racist" is a lot different from the sentiment associated with saying "You're a nigger (or whatever.)" The former is to offer insight or to attempt to educate (and the fact that it rarely works doesn't seem to stop me, I still do it, will always do it, for reasons which are at the heart of this article), the latter is just generic, pointless hate speech, serves no purpose, fills no need; I dont get it, never did. <br />
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I just stopped over here, this is my first comment here ever, this seems to be a seattle place, I don't live in Seattle but Cali.  I like your article but a lot of the comments are very similar to those I'm trying to get away from...elsewhere...as in, places I'm trying to get away from, haha, is this going to be possible? Time will tell. <br />
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I get accused of "white guilt," which is a kind of bizarre concept I saw mentioned in comments here, too, but that's not what it is that drives my behavior.  I do not feel guilty, I simply grew up witnessing RIDICULOUS, rage driven, disgusting and mind boggling anti-black racism, and I see that it continues in America still (even though I live in Cali now and not in the heart of back SEastern America), I see it in this written trend of 'reverse-racism' silly talk and FOX whining; I see it for what it is and call it out from time to time. <br />
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I do not believe there is any such thing as anti-white racism but there is anti-white bigotry, of course, because there is anti-everything bigotry, depending on who is angry and who is talking and who likes to generalize as an excuse for being pissed off and feeling superior, assuming someone does, and someone often does.  <br />
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However there is a big difference between the terms bigotry and racism, but the difference isn't really all that complicated.  <br />
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The writer you quote sums it up nicely right here:<br />
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"Americans love to reduce racial politics to feelings and etiquette. It's the personal and dramatic aspects of race that obsess us, not the deeply rooted and currently active political inequalities."<br />
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While it might not feel that way at the time, the latter problem is the real problem, it's pervasive in America and pernicious and, feels like to me, quite conspicuously is just that and it's willful ignorance, seems like to me, when people decide there is some epidemic of reverse racism they want to get on a rant about (Hannity, O'Reilly or whoever). That latter matter is a lot more important than the former transient matter of feeling offended because somebody calls you something you don't like being called that day, and that's for sure.
        
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      <![CDATA["Whites" grow sick of "blacks like you" shamelessly guilt-tripping them, blaming them for your group's pathetically self-created problems. We encounter to many "yous" in life... to many hostile, hateful little shits who do nothing but create tension and chaos and blame us that less than 1% of our ancestors had any involvement in 150 years ago. Oh, and your other "non-white" friends (not, they all hate your group and you all hate their group more than you all pretend to hate us, the ritual punching bag,  also sometimes engage in this vile behavior. <br />
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The (reluctant) Enemy Tribe. <br />
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PS... did you white mama do all the work in raising you, like most ingrateful Mulattos? Ah, hem, Barack Hussein Obama comes to mind.
        
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      <![CDATA["Whites" grow sick of "blacks like you" shamelessly guilt-tripping them, blaming them for your group's pathetically self-created problems. We encounter to many "yous" in life... to many hostile, hateful little shits who do nothing but create tension and chaos and blame us that less than 1% of our ancestors had any involvement in 150 years ago. Oh, and your other "non-white" friends (not, they all hate your group and you all hate their group more than you all pretend to hate us, the ritual punching bag,  also sometimes engage in this vile behavior. <br>
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The (reluctant) Enemy Tribe.
        
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      <![CDATA[If unable to see through the misinformation from the liberal atheist liars at ABC, NBC, NPR and CBS (Comedy Central, NYT and more), then you are wayyyyyy too naive for teaching people anything beyond mechanical stuff like auto repair. <br />
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I am putting in a link to my 3-minute video about the lies revolving around the Trayvon Martin reporting. Please take a look. Then peek at my other video about NBC News trying to get white people killed in their doctoring of the 911 call so that dumb liberals will reinforce their false belief in whitey being more racist than or even as racist as many many in the black population today. <br />
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Racist black violence and a media coverup vs the Trayvon Martin propaganda frenzy <br />
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<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7vNsTi6SoA" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7vNsTi6S&hellip;</a><br />
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I am not embarrassed to be white at all, even when in consideration of having gotten the shit kicked out of me by racist blacks and threatened on other occasion.<br />
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I am embarrased, however, about my years being ignorant enough for the liars in the elite media to convince me that their fake world is real. My hope is to some day read a column about your own embarrassment over the same issue.
        
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      <![CDATA[If unable to see through the misinformation from the liberal atheist liars at ABC, NBC, NPR and CBS (Comedy Central, NYT and more), then you are wayyyyyy too naive for teaching people anything beyond mechanical stuff like auto repair. <br>
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I am putting in a link to my 3-minute video about the lies revolving around the Trayvon Martin reporting. Please take a look. Then peek at my other video about NBC News trying to get white people killed in their doctoring of the 911 call so that dumb liberals will reinforce their false belief in whitey being more racist than or even as racist as many many in the black population today. <br>
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Racist black violence and a media coverup vs the Trayvon Martin propaganda frenzy <br>
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V7vNsTi6S&hellip;<br>
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I am not embarrassed to be white at all, even when in consideration of having gotten the shit kicked out of me by racist blacks and threatened on other occasions.<br>
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I am embarrased, however, about my years being ignorant enough for the liars in the elite media to convince me that their fake world is real. My hope is to some day read a column about your own embarrassment over the same issue.
        
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      <![CDATA[Great article! I hope that the most riled up detractors to this article walk away from this with the seed of an idea that their world is one made up of utter unchecked privileged.
        
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      <![CDATA[You know it's a good article when it's still getting comments this many months later. I read this when I first came out and was impressed by it. Race is a conversation more of us need to be having.<br />
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I strongly agree with @382. I do feel that perhaps Ms. Graves was going a bit far in requesting her students accept the label of racist. It's true that most people have had racist/homophobic/sexist thoughts, but racism is a conscious doctrine. Most people not only don't want to be perceived as racist, they want to be less like racists -- to have fewer racist tendencies or thoughts.
        
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      <![CDATA[This comment was made by Orv: "I actually tend to avoid interacting with people who are minorities because I know that they'll perceive me as racist, as privileged, as someone who doesn't understand their world."<br />
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So you avoid us?? That is more disturbing than overt racism.
        
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So you avoid us?? That is more disturbing than overt racism.
        
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      <![CDATA[I look forward to all you hand-wringing pussies being beaten half to death by a black flash mob that couldn't give two shits about your good intentions.If one were to do a demographic breakdown of which part of the taxpayer base spends the most on charities and "community enrichment"programs,then juxtapose that with the percentages of white-on-black crime as opposed to black-on-black crime,one might reasonably conclude that NO ONE,not even other black people,are nicer to black people than white people.
        
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      <![CDATA[I am a big proponent of separating racism from the label "racist" -- part of what blinds people to their own racist assumptions and biases is the idea that they couldn't possibly entertain any racism, because they are not a racist.  It's an artifact of the history of the civil rights movement: The earlier battles were against easily identifiable bad guys like lynch mobs and klansmen and segregationists, and as such we are too easily convinced that racism takes only that form.  People clench up and resist when they feel like they're being called racists, because that's a term they identify with this sort of overt antisocial behavior, and justifiably so.  I find it much more helpful to understand that one can make a racist assumption even if one is not a "racist" under such broad definitions, and that such an approach is much more conducive to active examination of one's own thoughts and actions.
        
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      <![CDATA[This article reminds me of the time a too-cool-for-you co-workers had a discussion about how equal we all were.  One of the people there was a gay, black man who was raised in inner city Detroit.  When a hip white woman, well meaning, I am sure...said that we Are All Alike, or some other PC silly statement, I laughed and and said of course we weren't....I was a white woman raised in rural Norwegian South Dakota where there is nary a black person.  How could we be the same?  You'd think I had just announced that I had become a member of the KKK.  Mouths dropped open. Of course we are different.  People mistake that for being not good enough, not equal or whatever other label you want to use.  How could a white straight woman raised in a rural midwestern town have the same set of experiences as a black gay urban raised guy? We do need to have these awkward conversations. Keep' em coming.
        
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      <![CDATA[I loved this article... however, your blatant prejudice of any so called "right winger" hurts your credibility and my respect for you as a progressive and anti-racist because you yourself, a pioneer of racial equality are judging people based on their political affiliations? Not cool.
        
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      <![CDATA[I thought back to this essay after reading the NYT today<br />
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