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A Clash of Personalities

Is This the Clearheaded Examination of Sybil We've Been Waiting For?

A Clash of Personalities
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My best friend in high school wasn't allowed to attend sex-education classes. Her fanatically Christian family strictly prohibited it, and she was relegated to the gym while the rest of us gaped at Nova's The Miracle of Life, not in wonderment but in horror at how they fit those little cameras up the pee holes of those poor suckers. When we returned to the gym, my friend would ask what we learned that day, and "We watched a video from the inside of the human body" didn't really sound that cool. The recounted session had to be worth her while, so we embellished: "Yeah, we watched this show where people were totally doing it, and they would, like, show the guy's penis going into her twat and then you could see the stuff come out—it was like Endless Summer II!" I don't remember why we referenced Endless Summer, but we sold the story. Our motives—like Debbie Nathan's in her new-in-paperback book Sybil Exposed—were quite pure, even if our delivery was a bit jazzed up for effect.

A good sell can turn the stinkiest turd of a story into a sparkly moneymaker. Although based on a series of exaggerations about a fairly banal mental-health case study, Flora Schreiber's 1973 book Sybil contained all the grotesque ingredients of the modern blockbuster: violence, sex, victimization, betrayal, and human suffering. People are invariably attracted to misery, and Sybil gave this misery a name: multiple personality disorder. Bringing multiple personality disorder into the public sphere granted an identity to the emotional conflicts of millions of men and women. Real or imagined, the public empathized with Sybil's story.

Sybil Exposed is Nathan's not-awful attempt to discredit the "facts" at the foundation of the Sybil phenomenon. The 1973 book was loosely based on the life of psychiatric patient Shirley Mason. Her accounts of horrendous childhood abuse and the resulting multiple personality disorder diagnosis exploded onto literary and academic circuits, and the silver screen (twice!). And it ushered multiple personality disorder into popular culture. Sybil is a cultural icon ripe for a proper debunking, and Nathan deconstructs it with an equal amount of reliable sources and colorful conjecture.

The primary mission of Sybil Exposed is to discredit its key players: Mason, her psychiatrist Dr. Cornelia Wilbur, and Sybil author Schreiber. And rightly so—it's obvious from Nathan's interpretations of quoted letters and audiotaped psychotherapy sessions that the bulk of Schreiber's text was a loose interpretation of Wilbur's treatment notes, which in turn were based on the very questionable presence of Mason's multiple personalities. Given the lingering effect of Sybil's influence over generations of multiple personality disorder patients, Nathan's exposé is an important one, but her story reads more like a hard-boiled detective narrative than a respectable piece of investigative journalism.

Nathan had access to the necessary ingredients for a solid exposé, including letters from Mason buried for years at the John Jay College of Criminal Justice and interviews with living acquaintances. It seems to me the letters reveal that Wilbur, Mason, and Schreiber consciously manipulated Mason's personal issues to create a supremely successful empire. It cannot be denied that this was a shitty thing to do to an empathetic public. However, Nathan forces the issue into more than 200 pages of text, gluing together her hypotheses with a clever amalgamation of conjecture. Addressing a period in Mason's adult life when she spent a great deal of time playing with baby dolls and writing greeting cards to her psychiatrist, Nathan writes: "[Mason] signed the cards, 'Shirley, Inc.' hoping against hope for their literary and marketing success" (emphasis mine). True, these activities are not those of a typically functioning grown-up, but Nathan reaches beyond the substantive and claims to know the inner thoughts of a long-dead Mason.

It would be smarter to let Mason stay dead and discredit the foundations of Sybil's diagnosis in a tidy little Variety article on the grisly horrors of pop medicine. Instead, Nathan questions the validity of an entire religion in order to demonstrate the negative effects of Mason's Seventh-day Adventist upbringing on her concepts of normality. Yes, this religion is weird. But to introduce the theme by describing the 19th-century founder of the church as a "barely educated farmer named William Miller"? Right. Unlike all those other religions founded by Harvard alumni. Nathan takes these weak shots at a potentially strong thesis—ostensibly to pad her story—and in the effort to create a hardcore exposé, she produces a silly, tabloidish version of the truth.

Just as Sybil was built on the shifting sands of ambition and manipulation, so is Sybil Exposed. Nathan's exposé could have been a valuable investigation into a fad that had lasting impacts on thousands of lives. It could have done its job with class and finesse. Instead—like Sybil—it's a floppy rendition of what might have happened, and when we're talking about a very real player in the field of mental health, that's simply not enough. recommended

 

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Imagine if someone took a few facts about your life and wrapped an entirely false narrative around them, making you out to be something that you never were, and destroying your reputation. This is what Debbie Nathan, in her book "Sybil Exposed", has done to three extraordinary women, Shirley Mason, Dr. Cornelia Wilbur, and Flora Schreiber, all of whom are now dead and cannot defend themselves, and her motives are far from pure.

If I wished to be as unfair and unflattering as she, I could take the facts of Nathan's work and her professional affiliations and weave a far more damning narrative around them, suggesting some rather nefarious connections and motives.

A few facts:
As recently as October, 2011 Nathan was listed as a board member of an organization that gives $100,000 a year to the legal defense funds of convicted pedophiles, including Father Paul Shanley, the most notorious figure in Boston's Catholic Church sexual abuse scandal.
Child pornography and domestic child trafficking are mutli-billion dollar businesses. There are networks of people who have high stakes in keeping survivors silenced and out of treatment. Confusing the public about the natural responses to repeated and ongoing sexual trauma, like multiple personality, and engendering distrust of trauma therapists, are integral to those aims.

Must I even construct the narrative at this point? It doesn't look pretty.

The reviewer freely admits that Nathan is making interpretations and engaging in conjecture, but then she accepts Nathan's central "interpretations" as valid. Let me suggest a different interpretation of the Wilbur's statements. She made them based on her desire that the public rediscover and appreciate multiple personality as a powerful, natural defense against extreme trauma. She wished to bring to light a case of extreme abuse and show it is a reality. She wished to help lessen the stigma leveled at her patient. I can make these inferences because I know people who knew both Mason and Wilbur and these are closer to what fueled their ambition.

What's most stunning about this review, however, is that it promotes Nathan's most damaging thesis: that multiple personality is a fad.

Multiple personality disorder, or Dissociative Identity Disorder, as it is now named (DID for short) is not a modern phenomenon. Cases of DID were first described in Western medicine in the 18th century. It was a major focus of study for the father of modern psychiatry, and various individual cases have come to public prominence over the last two centuries, one of which is the case of Mary Reynolds in the 1860's. References to analogous behavior and symptom clusters, such as demon possession in Christian lore, appear across cultures and eras throughout human history.

As to the science behind it, which any critic must ignore or discount in order to affect an opposition, I like to quote Dr. Richard Loewenstein, "This empirical base includes clinical case studies, series studies with structured interview data; studies of phenomenology, prevalence, memory, hypnotizability, neurobiology, imaging, and psychophysiology; and psychological assessment profiles, among others. These studies include samples of children and adolescents and cross-cultural samples from North America, Europe, Latin America, Turkey, and Asia."

That's right, it's cross-cultural. It's also been verified with neuro-imaging. As Kathy Steel puts it, “I mean, there isn’t [a] way for a fad to show up, I think, on a functional MRI or on a PET scan.”

An estimated 1-3% of the population has DID. As a member of that group, I can attest that we are already marginalized, stigmatized, and often silenced, by a variety of forces and actors, including the sensationalistic media, and former traffickers, perpetrators, and their allies. Attacks on DID are harmful, especially those offered casually, without reasonable argument or reference to opposition, and in informal contexts like a book review. These attacks seek to shift social consensus, in this case, away from the truth. At best they contribute to stigma and denial and keep the focus shifted from stopping perpetrators to questioning survivors by adding another level of discrediting "crazy" to the milieu.

I have to wonder, were Ms. Datz and her editors completely blind to these impacts or was that what motivated them? It wouldn't be fair to conjecture.

Lynn Schirmer
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Posted by Lynn Schirmer http://www.lynnschirmer.com on July 27, 2012 at 2:59 PM · Report
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This article ignores many of the problems with the book "Sybil Exposed."

It appears that "Sybil Exposed" was not fact checked by others. In other words, we have to take Nathan's word for it that she correctly cited and interpreted each source. Many reviews at Amazon (see the one star and two star ones) have stated they found errors in her book's research and statements.

Sybil (Shirley Mason) definitely suffered from MPD. This is proven by accounts from her relatives, other professionals that worked with Sybil and even on p. 60 of Sybil Exposed, where it describes Sybil's roommate in 1942 seeing Sybil exhibiting symptoms of MPD before Sybil entered therapy. The book "Sybil Exposed" describes a dissociative fugue Sybil had in 1944 before entering therapy (p. 61). Yet all of this is apparently ignored by Nathan in her book's conclusions.

Sybil's childhood friends verify the fact that Sybil's mother exhibited odd behaviors, like defecating in neighbor's lawns and peeking in the neighbor's windows. One friend stated she believed that some of what was written in the original book "Sybil" about child abuse did happen. Sybil's father verified that the abuse occurred. Mason and Shreiber both died broke.

It appears that Nathan had an agenda to discredit the Sybil story as well as the MPD - DID diagnosis. Nathan leaves out important facts about the DID diagnosis, which has been proven to be caused by severe, repeated childhood abuse at an early age.

A better book to read about the Sybil story, written by a psychiatrist familiar with mental health issues is "SYBIL in her own words: The Untold Story of Shirley Mason, Her Multiple Personalities and Paintings" by Patrick Suraci Ph.D. This book verifies many of the above facts.
Posted by nwestcoaster2 on July 27, 2012 at 7:20 PM · Report
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@1, 2:

Thanks. Once again I am more informed by commenters deconstructing and debunking an article written by the Stranger's paid staff.
Posted by TheBadSeed131313 on July 28, 2012 at 10:08 AM · Report
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It's astonishing to me that "The Stranger" would seriously address this book, "Sybil Exposed" in a review. One glance around this planet attests readily to the fact that we are living in a Culture of Abuse and an Age of Denial. The statistics are overwhelming; the results manifesting in a growing swell of violence that is permeating the very heart of what it means to be human. The Stranger has long combined irony, satire and insight in effective retaliation to these unfolding times. Choosing to review Nathan's spurious book as a serious read is a startling sidetrack. It's also dangerously callow. There are a whole lot of us struggling with dissociative disorder as a result of our experienced abuse as kids. It is no fun to really be a stranger in this world--no matter how we display otherwise. And we do. There are lots of talented people out there whose inner lives are defined by degradation and defilement through no fault of their own. We fool you all the time. Dissociative disorder is a brilliant coping skill. It explores the mind in ways neither Nathan nor Ms. Datz have a clue about. It gives us clarity, insight, compassion and ways to negotiate complexity that is brilliant in its creativity. It is also lonely, isolating and alienating. We aren't "normal." But neither is the rest of the world. Which means we are at home in this complex world. It might be time for The Stranger to grow up and join us in the complexity of what it means to be human in an often inhuman world. "Sybil Exposed" exposes its own stupidity and manipulation. Your readers deserve better.
- Janet Thomas, Author of The Battle in Seattle--The story Behind and Beyond the WTO Demonstrations" and "Day Breaks Over Dharamsala--A Memoir of Life Lost and Found."
Posted by Janet Thomas on July 28, 2012 at 12:47 PM · Report
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Nathan appears to have created a new genre: the fictionalized expose.
For example, note the report of Roseanne Barr's "twenty alter personalities" on p. 222. Nathan cites "A Star Cries Incest" in "People" magazine, October 7, 1991. There is no mention of 20 personalities. Nathan simmply made that up.
Posted by Lynn Murphy on July 28, 2012 at 2:25 PM · Report
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If an expose is an accurate, fact-checked portrayal of a situation, then this book is in another catetory.
Here's just one example. The author mentions Roseanne Barr's "twenty alter personalities" on p. 222. The author cites "A Star Cries Incest" in "People" magazine on October 7, 1991. But there's no mention of personalities in the 1991 article.
We need a new category for this book. How about "fictionalized expose"?
Posted by Lynn Murphy on July 28, 2012 at 2:41 PM · Report
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Hello there, @2, 3 and 4: Thanks for reading my book review. Please note that nowhere in this book review do I question the existence of MPD/DID. I read this book to learn more about the real "Sybil" and found that Nathan's book contained too much conjecture and too many misrepresented facts for me to find it a meaningful text. If anything, it was my hope that those who read this article would seek more substantive information about MPD/DID and Shirley Mason than was offered in "Sybil Exposed."

Posted by Meldoy on July 30, 2012 at 10:39 AM · Report
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Where are these commentors coming from? They sound like cult members.
Posted by jabuhrer on July 30, 2012 at 1:39 PM · Report
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I read the book a few months ago. Didn't realize it was a new book. Nathan is utterly convincing, and I'm not aware of any source where Nathan's text is disputed other than saying: it's not true. She seems to meticulously cite her sources in the book. MPD crops up in huge numbers only in places with psychiatrists treating MPD. I was shocked what a quack Dr. Wilbur was. She definitely would have her license taken away today. Drugging your patient in the middle of the night and having therapy sessions in their own home. Anyway, I found this book as hard to put down as Sybil.
Posted by impliedobserver on July 31, 2012 at 9:20 PM · Report
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i've stopped worrying about whether MPD/DID is "real," because i know it is- i live with it. in fact, i think it is actually far more common than anybody knows. this dx is mine and it is true- and i won't be bullied out of it into something that's a lie. i work hard every day to get better; really very hard. while i can see the pain that many did patients go thru in being unacknowledged, disrespected, i can also see the point where i just had to say f*ck you and live my own reality, which i knew to be true. i hope all did peeps and other survivors can somehow be less affected by atrocious books and comments like this.
Posted by tesserae on August 11, 2012 at 10:11 PM · Report

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