Knock It Off, Pregnant Pothead
I like you; I like your husband. That being said, I can't believe he's standing by and letting you continue to smoke as much pot as you do even while you're pregnant.
You have a "green card," but you don't need weed for anything. I also know that you're eating veggie and vegan as much as possible because you feel it's healthier for you and the child. And yet smoking pot is okay? I don't care if there are no "conclusive" studies that smoking weed is bad for a baby while the mom is pregnant. HOW does that make ANY sense at all?
I know your husband is a smoker, too, but man I wish he had the balls to tell you to stop or, better yet, stop as well so as not to look like a hypocrite.
It's nine months out of your life—is getting stoned so important that you'll take even the slightest chance with your child's health and well-being?
I sure hope I'm wrong. I hope your child is born healthy, with no complications, because I want that child to have the best life possible. But then I fear that, should you ever have another one, you'll do the same thing again, because "nothing negative happened in my first pregnancy and I smoked weed all I wanted!"