Iâm a hetero male in my late 20's. I have a smaller dick. Itâs not a micro-penis, as itâs around 5", maybe 6". I honestly don't mind that aspect of itâwhatever, itâs âaverage,â right? The issue for me is that I am 6'5" tall, and thickly framed and naturally muscular. I'm apparently "really hot," as Iâve been told since my teen years, and if girls are interested in me, they are quick to incorporate my height into their flirting, and sometimes taking the innuendo further. Basically, women have a preconceived idea of what theyâll be getting when I drop my pants.
Iâm in a long-term relationship of eight years with the girl I love. Iâm going to marry her soon, and weâre going to spend our lives together. She loves my dick, she begs for it at times, and she has never made me feel bad about it. I feel totally comfortable with herâalthough, it took a few years to get to this point.
A year ago she gave me a few âhall passes,â permission to mess around with other women once in a while, yet my insecurity has led to me not using a single one. It sounds amazingâit sounds thrillingâto experience sex with other girls, after going through my 20's being completely monogamous. But I can't get over my fear that when the pants drop, thereâs going to be disappointment, or even worse, mirth, and that it wonât be concealed.
I have the go-ahead to fuck new pussy but my own head is holding me back. This is excruciatingly frustrating. Again, itâs not having an average sized dick that I mind, it's being a giant guy with lots of muscles but an average sized dick thatâs frustrating me.
Please Ease Numbskullâs Intense Sensitivities
Your letter brought back fond memories of one of my first boyfriends.
Jonathan was short and slight, with a gorgeous mop of blond hair, a dazzling smile, big blue eyesâand, boy, was I ever surprised when his pants dropped. That boy was hung like the proverbial horse, if youâll forgive me for mounting a clichĂ© (it's Friday, it's late, I'm zonked). He often joked that the energy and stardust others guys' genes sank into building bones and muscle, his genes sank into building cock.
And you know what he wanted more than anything? To be taller, to be more muscular, to have a bigger frame. Because it was way easier for bigger, taller, more muscly guys to get laid, and to be taken seriously as tops. Guys made assumptions about him based on his short stature and his slight frameâmust be bottom, must not have much downstairsâand it drove him nuts. He wouldâve gladly sacrificed three inches, or a little less 30% of his dick, to be six inches taller and a lot more muscular.
Anyway, PENIS, I'm not what I can do for you besides... maybe... send you some of the hundreds of letters I've received in the last few months from distraught guys with micro-penises maybe? Reading their letters might help put your "problem" into some sort of perspective.
So you're average in the cock department, dudeâat "maybe 6'," you're technically above averageâand, yes, you might have to deal with a moment's awkwardness when you drop your pants and it turns out your dick isn't quite to scale. But there's no sex without a little awkwardness. Power through that moment of awkwardness and show all that new pussy what that dick of yours can do. And if the sight of your dick really does disappoint, the sight of your thick frame and all those natural muscles and your height should more than compensate.