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Dick in mouth for anything longer than a passing slurp equals blowjob. The only thing up for debate is the quality, duration, enthusiasm, use of teeth, ability to stay on key while humming and ability to aim the load properly during ejaculation. Swallowing may or may not be deemed a bonus points category.
Talk amongst yourselves.
Some men orgasm in less than a minute from mediocre blowjobs, some men don't orgasm at all after extended and excellent blowjobs. The orgasm does not define the blowjob.
So yeah, these women's discussion of what does or doesn't count as a blow job? Not the weirdest "does it count as sex" thing I've heard.
The term "hooking up" is a prime example. You can tell someone you "hooked up" with another and the person is left wondering, did they fuck? mutually masturbate? kiss a lot? talked a long time? "Hooking up" is literally the most meaningless term for sex/not sex one can use.
Dan is trolling. Or has lost his sense of time.
If the dick-sucking is a prelude to other acts, I would call it something else. Sucking dick/cock. Oral. Going down.
As the wise LavaGirl once said: "Time for a new name. Sucking cock should never be a job and being blown may or may not happen."
If one of them has a partner who demands a certain amount of blowjobs but won't count towards this figure episodes in which she sucked him for ten minutes but he didn't ejaculate ... well, I'll say the guy is being unreasonable. In fact this would be my first remark on the topic. That should count. With the right pressure it's easier to come from that than from PIV ... though of course _everyone_ is different, personally and psychologically.
As a man (well, I'd mostly say I was genderqueer but with the anatomy) I'd say the job is not done until orgasm.
http://www.cbsnews.com/news/orgasm-gap-s…
NOUN
vulgar slang
An act of oral sex performed on a man.
https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/defini…
oral sex
NOUN
Sexual activity in which the genitals of one partner are stimulated by the mouth of the other; fellatio or cunnilingus.
https://en.oxforddictionaries.com/defini…
I don't mind what people want to call whatever, but I recall a conversation here a few months ago in which we discovered that most of us have the experience of orgasm from blow jobs (or blowing) being pretty rare if not accompanied also by jacking off. So if we are going to label all act as precisely as possible, then I think our taxonomy should distinguish between blow jobs to orgasm with or without the assistance of the man's hands.
I mean unless there's a particular etymological source that someone can cite you might as well be arguing dick on UrbanDic...
I can understand wanting to downplay the "job" though I feel that it fits this definition, not the more task/obligation/responsibility and paid meanings-
"informal
a thing of a specified nature.
"the car was a blue malevolent-looking job"
Further to @16, my definition states "with the intention that the receiver comes." Actual coming is not necessary, just the attempt. Because as Emma notes, many men do not come from oral sex. If you're down there wishing he would, you can call it a blow job.
These splitting hairs always seemed to be about either a false sense of "purity" or a demand to go farther than one wanted to in the moment. Blargh. If you're naked and having fun, it's sexual. If it's sexual, it's sex.
A chokejob?
Blowdomination?
Don't Try This At Home?
Depends on the woman. I've dated a few who required a 40 minutes + of lickin' to keep on tickin' and that can be a strain on the old tongue and neck muscles! I had to do oral calesthenics and tongue-twisters every day just to stay in shape!
And that doesn't even begin to cover this kind of risk... https://theurbandaily.com/2057262/wtf-ma…
In my own case, I think I'd say I gave a blowjob if the recipient comes because of the action of my mouth (with or without my hands as the supporting cast members) on his penis, regardless of the length of time spent. I think this is because I always assumed "blow" meant come, and however enjoyable I find giving oral to be, it still requires a level of focus, sensitivity, and energy consistent with the word "job."
If I do my best, but the recipient doesn't come, then I'd probably say I went down on him, or sucked his dick.
And for the record, although giving a woman oral doesn't carry the same risk of choking or gagging that going down on a man does, I have found it to require a comparable level of focus, sensitivity and energy. If I give a woman oral sex, I would call it going down, whether or not she comes.
The receiver should clarify in advance, or after the referenced 10 minutes, whether he is likely to come.