Savage Love Letter of the Day: Butt Play With Strings Attached

Comments

1
I’m curious how many women let their boyfriends “help” insert their tampons once, let alone a few times. Over time do they do this with multiple partners? Is there a thrill for these women in eroticizing this aspect of their periods? Perhaps sharing something intimate that is generally done alone with someone else?
2
You might consider cardboard applicators. Those plastic ones are known as "beach whistles" at the Jersey shore.
3
@2: This letter is 7 years old. He may have switched to cardboard applications by now . . . or not. Plastic are easier, and he's reaching back and inserting it where's there's no natural lubricant (i.e. blood), so let the guy off the hook.
4
Dan, you OWN the butt plug topic! Congrats. Your son must be proud.
6
A new tampon doesn't have built in blood, what's with hiding their names. Writing a letter, classic. Hope you burnt it after you read it Dan.
Ah, the lost and forgotten tampon stories, always use the cotton ones.
7
Really Dan, I'm surprised you didn't suggest he also try anal beads, as I think they're used in a similar way.
8
I'll just put in a plug (haha) for OBs here (and a touch of lube, if needed). Why have the waste of an applicator at all?
9
This letter will never live forever on a server somewhere.
10
#5 is either projecting (I wonder what it's like for anti-gay bigots to know that we all know they're gay), or he's a very sad lame gay man.
11
@9 It will, but it won't be connected to an email account.
12
Proud but Pathetic Alt-Right White Guy @ 5 - Luckily for us all, most people don't live according to biblical literature. (Especially not christians - although they sometimes should, like the part about loving thy neighbor.)
13
@7: Yeah, as Dan mentions it’s then transgressive nature of the fetish. I did think the same though...
14
This is one time I'm not going to proselytize for the Diva Cup.
15
hopefully the string never breaks....
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@14: lolllllll
17
I don't want to send an e-mail because I'd rather not have a record of this living forever on some server somewhere.

Originally published September 16, 2010.

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