Just did an interview with a reporter from a daily paper in a city where I'll be speaking in a couple of weeks. We talked for an hour, we laughed and laughed, and then he said: "Man, funny stuff—too bad I could never get any of that in the paper." And what couldn't he get into the paper? Two adults talking to each other about sex, using the language adults use when they talk to each other about sex, both making the kinds of jokes and asides that adults typically do when they're talking to other adults about sex.

And none of that can go in the paper.