I didn't address the issue of women and monogamy in my post this morning about gay men and monogamy. For the record I think monogamy is difficult for women too. When I say that being in love and making a monogamous commitment means you refrain from fucking other people, not that you don't want to fuck other people, that applies equally to men and women. But it's clear that women are either better at being monogamous or better at not getting caught when they're being non-monogamous.