"Spotted this guy's personal on DudesNude and it made me think of the guy who wrote you wondering what the hell he is," writes a "Savage Love" reader. "He liked having sex with guys and girls, but only liked kissing girls. You told him he was bi, and that there were other bi guys like him out there. Looks like you were right—and some of those kissphobic bi guys have killers abs and huge dicks and this sort of things!"