Blogs Jul 30, 2009 at 2:17 pm

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The Queer Ally Coalition is planning a kiss-in for the Seattle area, albeit, not as a part of the Nationwide Kiss-In.
Apparently they don't like the idea of using the kiss-in to advance a radical agenda like confronting the people who would deny you their rights. We want it to happen in front of Mars Hill in Beltown.
Also, because of the political climate in Washington (with Ref. 71 being an issue), any kiss-in could seem confrontational and therefore may be counter-productive to getting pro-LGBT legislation.
The Nationwide Kiss-In has formally asked we not do ours are the same time so as not to confuse people that we have their consent.
This is the gist of an email sent to the QAC yesterday. Might be stepping over the bounds talking about it, but I think it should be known who is leading the movement and what efforts they see as "legitimate".
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A kiss-in in San Francisco you say? I can only imagine the outrage that will ensue. Iowa City and Little Rock folks on the other hand, Godspeed.
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I imagine that the prosecutor got a call from the LDS elders asking for this to be swept under the rug. I'm sure they'd like for this to go away...
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Uh-oh. It's the mayonnaise version of the Rodney King video for the mormons.
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not to get too technical but just to reiterate the point that this part of downtown slc was public.... it was never a "public plaza" it was simply a downtown street like you'd find running along any downtown mall.

there were 2 malls right next to each other, zions and crossroads. zions was always owned by the church but about 6-7 years ago they bought crossroads, the street next to it, and tore everything down to rebuild some sort of super mormon mall right across the street from the temple (with condos on top, of course). part of that involved turning what was once a totally average, public street into a privately owned plaza. they did this after tearing up several streets to build a ton of underground parking. instead of rebuilding parts of it as streets like they used to be, some areas became private plazas.

just want to clarify incase anyone cares about the details.
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Puhleeze, the security thugs didn't roust those guys because of a gay kiss; they were reacting to the can of Coca Cola their two victims were sharing. YOU DON'T DRINK COCA COLA IN FRONT OF THE TEMPLE!!!!
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oh ps while all of this was happening about 3 blocks away a giant shopping area called gateway took form and actually turned into a pretty cool, huge outdoor mall.

so rest comfortably knowing they are losing tons of money on their revamp of a significant part of the shopping core of downtown slc since gateway owned all their business. but, knowing utah, chances are the gateway cash is going right into the pockets of some elder lds dipshit.
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Forget nationwide kiss-ins; Magic Underpants, Inc. doesn't care what happens in Sodom or Gomorrah, everyone needs to get their asses to the hart of the problem (Downtown SLC and maybe Provo, too) and kiss on their turf. Surely an issue like this is worth a $250 round trip per person? While you're at it, stay a few days and enjoy yourselves now that bars don't require memberships any more. A few thousand people arrested in Utah over the weekend would make a difference.
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and by hart, I mean heart, of course. Please excuse any other errors.
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Creepy video. If some guys in suits hassled/handcuffed me on what I thought was a public street, I probably would have used some profanity too.
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I'm far from a lawyer, but isn't it imprisonment to handcuff people even on your own property?

Wouldn't Boy George have something to say about this?
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I'm a straight guy, and as such, don't feel like I'm the best person to begin organizing events. But, I've been fighting the good fight for about 30 years now on behalf of my gay brothers (I've got 2) and gay sister (I've got 1) and gay ex-wife (I've got 1) and many, many friends...and I keep hoping, waiting, wanting to march and take this fight to the streets. I'm so ready to go all-in for this fight...so much so that if I drink another scotch on the rox at an HRC event in my tux, I think I'll go crazy. The Westin Ballroom is not where this fight belongs anymore. Gay bingo is great. But, I think it's time to get all Selma on this issue, and stop treating it like another excuse to have a great party and find your next boyfriend (or girlfriend, or "it's complicated" or what have you).

Fight. The. Power.
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Join the Impact, the conservative online lgbt website, has decided for everyone in Washington that we should not participate in the Nationwide Kiss-In because it's apparently inflammatory to stand up to bigotry and homophobia, but gay bashers can do whatever they want. BUT the Queer Ally Coalition is organizing a local kiss-in (apparently, the National Coordinators - get this - copyrighted the Great Nationwide Kiss-In crap and are threatening to sue anyone who steps beyond their little scripted activism). I'll be sure to send Dan and Dom the info.
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Does this mean we get to rough up, manhandle, and restrain any mormons who step onto our own private property, should we disagree with their activities?
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Meanwhile, in Paris, France, the security police did absolutely nothing to hundreds of thousands of straight and gay couples who participated at a kiss-in.

Including one of my high school friends and her partner.

Proving once again that Salt Lake City will never rival Paris as a major city.

Ever.
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When a security guard places someone under arrest, he or she is doing so under the pretense of citizen's arrest. A security guard has no police powers, even on private property.

Nationally, one can only place another under citizen's arrest when he or she has witnessed the commission of a felony. Arrests based on hearsay, or concerning misdemeanors or disturbance of the peace are specific to individual states. All are subject to strict liability, so if we wanted to be harsh about it, we could run the individual guards through the lawsuit ringer.

I am clueless about the laws concerning false charges, i.e. when a citizen or a peace officer harasses or effects an arrest based on an ambiguously criminal or non-criminal offense, which might or might not be related to false arrest. I get the feeling, however, that's what was going on here, and what goes on all the time; living while gay seems to be falling into the same category as driving while black.

PS: Having an HTML savvy text editor is cool!
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At 5 & 7 - Why do you follow "downtown" with "sic"?
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@ 14 ABSOLUTELY! but its more effective, and probably safer just in case the law doesnt back you up to just answer your door naked and inform them that they're interrupting your ritual sacrifice. mormons are relatively easy to scare off. but don't do this to southern baptists-they wont run. with baptists its best to answer the door clothed, with a sawed off shot gun and not say a word...
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I could not watch this all the way through, it was just too upsetting. I hope that whatever legal options are available to the gay couple abused here will be pursued. Fuck those Mormon assholes.
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@18 thanks for the creative advice. :-)
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@17: That's "slc" not "sic." Salt Lake City.
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Just sayin', looking at the video makes me want to punch the flab-necked security fucks right in their fucking blubbery doughfaces.

I don't often have that reaction, but honestly, they need to be moistened with their own noseblood.
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Mormons must be the new Scientologists.
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But if it were a 60 year old man making out with his 15 year old niece-- THAT would be fine. Ain't religion grand?
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You notice how the guys in suits seem to realllly get into grabbing young, hot guys, and putting them into bonda.....handcuffs? Maybe it wasnt harassment, maybe it was a real awkward come on. You probably dont learn th niceties in the LDS braintrust.

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Meanwhile, the latest in hate crimes: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090801/ap_o…

Get'em while there young.
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8 you girls keep forgetting that Dan has forbidden homos from going to Utah.
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To Lonnie and Enigma: from the beginning, we intended to lead a positive, PEACEFUL, national demonstration. It is not our intention to antagonize anybody with these Kiss-In events. Maybe you folks want to piss people off via your Mormon-stormin' socialist fundraisers, but we don't.

Incidentally, Lonnie, nice way to twist things around - we're not going to do things your way just because you stomp your feet and pout. Just because we're choosing to handle the issue of homophobia and hate crimes differently from you doesn't mean we care less. It also doesn't mean ours will be somehow ineffective.

NOTE: we're not threatening to sue anybody. On the other hand, we ARE NOT going to have people wrecking the hard work we've put out for the last several weeks, trying to coordinate a peaceful movement. You can do whatever you want with your names and your reputations, but you will NEVER do it with ours. If you thought for half a minute that you would suddenly take over this movement - and you did, via that press release you were going to send out - and turn everyone else's Kiss-In events into Mormon-stormin' socialist fundraisers, you seriously thought wrong.
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Let's road-trip to SLC for a Mormon-stormin' socialist fundraiser! Do a kiss-in on their home turf! Group kisses! Won't that get the magic underpants in a bunch!
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Join the Impact Washington has chosen not to organize a kiss in here in Seattle because all of our resources, time, energy, and volunteer efforts are focused on the referendum 71 campaign. Anything else is a distraction and not prudent at this time.

Join the Impact Washington stands in solidarity with the Great Nationwide Kiss-in. We strongly support their positive message and their position to not endorse Kiss-ins that our direct assaults on religious organizations. Join the Impact is committed to open communication and a positive dialogue with people of all religious affiliations, even those that traditionally oppose equal rights. We strongly believe positive interactions and a continued effort to communicate our stories, hopes, and dreams will win more support than aggressive tactics proposed by others.

I certainly understand the desire for people to express themselves in public. As the Washington State Community Organizer for Join the Impact I have been proud to organize several Join the Impact events in solidarity with our organizers throughout the country and state. I urge those of you who interested in helping the community to volunteer with the Approve Ref. 71 campaign, also known as Washington Families Standing Together. Together we will protect domestic partnerships from those who do not yet understand us. E-mail volunteer@wafst.org and show your support on facebook http://www.facebook.com/pages/manage/#/p…

Thank you,

Joe Mirabella
Washington State Community Organizer Join the Impact
http://www.jointheimpact.org

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LOL has anyone seen this? http://www.queerallycoalition.com/
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As I read through the comments on this issue, I am greatly sadden by what I view as a greater issue in the Gay Community. If we look at why we have been set back in recent years, the root cause of all our defeats can be traced back to the in-fighting and back-bitting that has been growing like a cancer in our community. The Right-Wing is a master of putting aside the petty differences and focusing on the task at hand. They can see the bigger picture and push forward towards the final goal.

We are angry! We are frustrated! And we are letting that get in the way of us moving forward! We have slowly allowed the militant factions within our community to highjack our struggle, thus becoming the very thing that we hate. We are losing this battle and the blame lies squarely on our shoulders. It is time to set aside our difference and begin the process of healing our community, so that we may move forward with a united voice!

Yet, it is sad to think that we have allowed our selfish interest get in the way of protecting our families, friends, and individual rights. There is a time and a place to stand up and fight with blind emotion... However, the game has changed. We are no longer fighting a battle that can be won with blunt-force trauma! The only way that we can ever change hearts and minds, is my stand up and living our lives in an open and honest manner. We must push for constructive and positive dialogue, and to make love and forgiveness our driving principle!! To think that by attack a religious organization (who - point in fact - has done nothing to harm our goal of passing Ref 71) then we already lost! Rather then creating an unnecessary controversy (on which the right will pounce upon) we should consider opening a dialogue with that group and their members. I am all for the Kiss-In movement in principle! I think that, when executed correctly, it is a non-threatening and thought provoking statement!

However, if we has a community put half as much effort into coming together and focusing on the ultimate goal of equal protection under the law for all in our community, as we do in fighting with each other, we would be light-years ahead of where we stand now! Instead, curtain groups and individuals become unwilling to compromise, jockey for position, or work to undermine the value of others within the LGBT Community. It is sad, childish, and ultimately self-destructive! I am heartbroken to think that we may lose this fight because we tore each other down, instead of building one another up!

We in the community, both locally and nationally are faced with the a very daunting question: Are we going to forgive and come together under the banner of love and family? Or - Are we going to allow this childish pickering to tare us apart? This is not the Right-Wing's battle to win... Rather is it is ours to lose!

I would ask that anyone who has taken time to read this, sit back and reflect on whether or not your actions have harmed, or helped our causes! Have you torn down, or built up? Are you willing to take responsibility for your own actions and forgive those who have hurt you? Or, will you continue to cut off the nose to spite the face?

And I must warn, that if we do not begin to recognize these problems, it will be our undoing.

-Zachary
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@2, you've never been to Iowa City, have you?

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