Just wanted to respond to TOS' letter in the most recent "Savage Love." I too find that having my nutsack lifted and supported and juggled this way during intercourse/masturbation is, if not the only way, then the best/quickest way for me to get there. In short, what lifts his luggage also lifts mine. This wasn't always the case and only started with a GF of mine who used to reach under and cup my luggage in her hand. I'm 31 and have often worried that it will be the only way I can get there as I get older (the older I get the more necessary it seems to become). I have huge balls (they hang down literally lower than the tip of my also pretty big dick) and suspect that to be the culprit.
Anywho, this is all just my way of saying to TOS that "he's not alone."