âDonât make out with another dudeâ is really easy for most dudes. Itâs very hard for some, of course, but most people arenât gay and thus have absolutely no difficulty adhering to moral injunctions against gayness. A political movement that ran around talking about the sanctity of marriage and how divorce should be illegal and divorced people should be disgraced and run out of public life would have trouble catching fire. But almost everyone can stand up for âtraditional moralityâ on the cheap by heaping scorn on a relatively small minority.