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It's always nice to see people actually helping each other fulfil their fantasies. Here's SLOG for you: people helping people be(come) better people. :-)
I see a business opportunity here for HFOT. How great would it be to have someone do all the tedious screening/matchmaking for NSA encounters? They could set up a desk in a hotel lobby with a light with a green lamp shade and all the works-- help more people get what they want more safely. It seems people would pay for that. If you are just providing the screening that wouldn't be solicitation would it?
However there are just as many disappointed wannabes who are not only older, they are also out of shape as well, and often seem to seek out the lifestyle due to their lack of social abilites combined with lack of personal fitness, not to mention their unrealistic understanding of the "rules". Every guys thinks they can handle the emotions that go with trying to participate, and all they need is to have a swinging dick, and they are "in". It is so much more than that.
It's like the "first job" catch-22: You can't get a job without experience, but you can't get experience without a job.
Long-term relationships help too. Spend a few of years having regular sex with the same person and you start to learn a whole lot about what to do and how to do it. Having a regular partner also helps to build confidence to try - and learn - new things.
Am I the only one sensing a disconnect there?