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1
Oh gods, this again?
2
You guys should have a poll to see which Stranger staffer Dan is going to "offend" next month.

My money's on Bethany.
3
Dan, race is not a glib "gotcha!" type of subject. Live with it.
4
Did you accidentally post a private email you meant to sent to Jen? Or maybe the draft for a discussion you were going have with her privately?
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@1: My thoughts exactly. Maybe the page views are low and they need to break 1,000 comments again.
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Good grief.
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It is so delicious to watch all you politically correct "progressive" naive white libtard kumbaya pollyanna stereotypes eat each other. You spend so much time and energy looking for "racism" and "privilege" and yet you live in the second whitest city in the USA in some kind of amazing coincidence. Keep it up please, this is awesome.
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"these folks"? maybe, just maybe, if a poster is going to cause this much trouble and causes so much of "these people just need to get over themselves" type language, it isn't worth it?

reading through the comments it seems so many people have been waiting for a forum to air how aggrieved they have been by natives for voicing how they feel.

also "part" native? which part of them is native? you can argue this however you want but what i know is that many native people including myself avoid these images and representations and places that have them. we may not always tell you, we just may avoid you.

for you to get so upset over this when you get called out? you came into our yard with this poster and calling people out in your post.
9
Some people live to be offended. Get over it.
10
Well, at least Dan didn't call her "fat."
11
If that poster is any indication of what the party is going to be like, I think I'll pass.
12
Oh, for fuck's sake: "these folks" was not a reference to all Native people, but to these two people whose work we're talking about. I use the word "folks" constantly.

You'll have to work harder than that to stuff me into a white sheet, asshole.
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@12: Dude, two posts, searching for some way to prove folks wrong, desperately trying to counter offense with your own offense, repeated use of the "here are two natives that I haven't gotten agreement from but surely they agree with my clumsy digs" defense and generally flailing around when even a simple 'my bad' would probably suffice says way more about you than you realize.

If you aren't racist, don't act like one. We aren't your convenient excuse or holier than thou "get over yourselves" poster children, we are hundreds of distinct and diverse living cultural groups.

Get the fuck over yourself.
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As I said yesterday:
The "oh come on chill the fuck out everyone gets so offended these days you can't say anything anymore" is a classic defensive posture of entitled white people who can't/won't take the time to listen to why their actions and words are hurtful.
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Next month, Dan gets into a feud with Adrian over a display in a shoe store of a pitbull being fucked by a bonobo. The page hits roll in and the advertising revenue comes along for the ride.
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Dan, I feel bad for you. I'd be paranoid if I had your platform, given the amount of insidious commentary you're getting even from "friendly" sources.
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Inflammatory and near-defamatory? I've read and reread her post, and, Dan, you are over-fucking-reacting.
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It's not a white sheet. It's more like a t shirt that says, "Petulant and Above Reproach" on the front.

Keep missing the point. Thats your right. I don't think most of the people griefing you are offended by the poster so much as they're offended by your absolute lack of contrition or even sense humor on the subject.
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Would anyone like a nice cold glass of lemonade?

:)
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@13 I wish I could give you a million hi-fives for your finely executed comment.

In all honesty, Mr. Savage, this poster image would not have stirred so many issues as of late if you kept your mouth shut on what people should or should not view as racist. Just promote the show next time.
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i wasn't trying to make you into a white sheet but this whole conversation has taken a rather disastrous turn hasn't it. using that phrase creates distance about the group you are talking about making them more alien.

dan, the reason this is so dissapointing is that this poster is for 'it gets better project' correct? our young native people also suffer from high rates of suicide. often with many people having to leave home communities they may be the only native kid around. i know i was. the only representations they may see are the ones done by non natives or catering to non natives. often not very nice.

the hurt lies in how these representations are perceived. and maybe by the comments there are a few people whose perception of these images aren't the same as yours? rather than listening it seems you have lashed out.

often native kids will hear this their whole lives. and believe me i speak from experience. we have heard all the arguements posted today. "i have a native friend/stepdad/lover...", "but the person who created it is part native", "just get over it, its not that bad" what all these statements say is you have no power over how you will be perceived and viewed. you can accept it or get over it. so many native kids internalize these arguments over the years. i wish you would listen.
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Oh everyone calm the fuck down. Everyone knows Dan is opinionated as fuck about everything and you can expect nothing else reading his blog. If you aren't okay with it, don't read the damn blog. I doubt he'd miss you that much.
23
Jesus Christ. Get over yourself.
24
That feel when you're the gay native kid from the res so excited for this event and then you see these posters on the way in.

facepalm.jpg
25
racist is the new nigger
26

Speaking of Native Americans, be sure to watch the bacterial video, "Bike Ride On the Soos Creek Trail" featuring Songs of the Omaha Nation.

http://youtu.be/wmnMc3D2PYE
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@ 21 - Wait, now I'm confused. Are you saying that because Native American/American Indian kids internalize stereotypes and racism, any discussion of whether a particular display is or is not racist is per se illegitimate? Because, if so, that seems a little counterproductive.
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i don't believe in an ism. i believe in myself.
29
wow.

our Danny is one prickly bitch.....
30
i'm talking about the images they are exposed to and the standard canards that pass for discussion. the discussion that really isn't discussion. the phrases that blow them off or ask them not to feel they way they do and move on with their lives.

racism isn't always an academic discussion. if a community perceives black face to be racist then it is considered so. unfortunately for natives we don't have a large community. so when we may ask for people to back off of certain images we usually end up in these long conversations that really amount to... "we will continue, you can either accept or go away".
31
How.
32
Hoo, and I thought you were Grumpy this morning.

Boy was I wrong. Again. But I'm getting used to it.
33
goddamn i can't wait until you either quit the stranger or someone codes a way to filter out all of your shit posts.

how many more fights do you have to pick with the staff before someone finally fucking fires you?
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@19: Why yes Merry, I would like nice cold glass of lemonade. :) @32: despicable me, would you like a nice cold glass of lemonade?
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Merry and Lissa, Thank you, I would LOVE some lemonade. Can I have extra ice please?
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What's the deal with all the kids dressing up in faux-native gear?

Is a hipster in headdress racist? Are the non-hipsters overreacting? Judgement call on both. What is a fact is that cultural symbols, stereotypes, clothing, etc. get appropriated all the time, and we don't notice most of the time because the "Kiss me I'm Irish" carries very little baggage; most folks like to be kissed and at least pretend to have a little Irish in them. As a society we are past the "no dogs, no Irish" era.

Native Americans, in many instances, live lives that would be unrecognizable to your average headdress wearing raver. The headdress & warpaint are images that have been used for ages as ways to simplify what the reality of Native American life is like.

So if you are using imagery like this, full-native, half-native or non-native, why? Can you really say that when stuff like this is viewed by the public no one will see it and see the implication that, tonight only, we are going to let go of our inhibitions and be free of spirit and dance like, as they would say in a more coarse time, Savages?

Art and humor that deal in individual characteristics not your own are the risky precisely because it doesn't matter who created it, it matters who sees it.
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I have an idea - why don't you all stop blogging about each other? Seriously, it helps. You can TALK to each other. You'll feel like real people! And it has the added benefit of not making anyone look like they're making fuss purely to get f*cking comments on their blog.
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I AM CULTURALLY OFFENDED BY LEMONADE.
39
This criticism's lazier than a mexican on disability.
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Just because the poster is self-deprecating, that doesn't mean it isn't racist. It isn't portraying "other" as damaged. It's racist and self-deprecating, and therefore fair game for the most part.

Establishing a taboo is a method to enforce a privilege -- like the bill creating a taboo against teachers against admitting such a thing as homosexuality exists. It ain't a disadvantaged ethnicity trying to deny there's such a thing as distinction in race. The taboo creates a denial in which the unspoken privilege finds shelter.
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@21 What a beautifully helpful comment. I am sorry you needed to spell that out. I don't know if Dan will listen, but your comment helped me better understand. Thanks for taking the time.
42
Forty comments? That's it?

Troll harder.
43
Lissa, Despicable Me, here ya go! (DM, I'll see if there's more ice...)

http://tinyurl.com/3vkq6cc

@ 38 - Oh dear. How about a lemony votive candle instead?

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@43: Thank you merry! That was ever so refreshing! Perhaps Dan and Jen would like some nice cold lemonade as well? Perhaps with a nice big snort of Jack Daniels added? Mmmm that certainly sounds tasty to me.
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I have no dog in this fight. I just like to watch race-drama unfold.
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@43, I hope you forgive my Offended Olympian outburst; the crimes of the Lemon Party against my people is still a raw wound in my heart. I have poured myself a delicious glass of fruit punch Kool-Aid to calm my nerves, and might watch Liz Lemon on an episode of 30 Rock for cultural sensitivity training. I still have a long way to go, however, as I still throw away the lemon Starbursts in every pack of said candy. The road to true equality is not easy, but it is worth the trip.
47
I say Jen and Dan do that fat suit sumo wrestling thing at the next slog happy to decide the issue once and for all.
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@13 and @14 have it in spades (oopsie!)

The issue isn't "OMG you called me racist I would never", it's the casual sloughing off of any responsibility to actually dig into what is involved in the representation. You ARE being casual, Dan.

The discussion about racism today isn't a matter of identifying suspects and shunning them. It's not like modern politics, in other words. It's not a matter of "am I a racist" -- it would be rather superhuman if you were not -- but "where is the racist impulse coming from, what has it done to me in the past, where am I going to go with it in the future?" That's why we, as anti-racists, look at that headdress and see a symbol of something you claim isn't there -- but you haven't even looked. You shrugged it off without a thought.

What people are digging at you about isn't racism, it's a lack of interest in even thinking about racism. Why should you? You're white, you're set. Which just happens to be what racism is all about. Native Americans don't have the option of seeing that symbol the way you do. They HAVE to see the appropriation, because they live in it. Only white people get to say "pah, I don't see anything, it's nothing to do with me, I'm going to the dance party". To quote Madge in the Palmolive commercial, "you're soaking in it". You are soaking in a race-privileged and race-segregated and race-oppressed world. I think people would rather hear you address that than blow it off.
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Thanks Fnarf.
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@48 I really appreciate that and right on. And Baconcat and jiberish's earlier posts as well.

The whole point is the white gaze. It's not how many Indian people find it offensive or the race of the person who made it. The point is what Fnarf said: white people can disregard race if they want to. The most insidious part of white privilege is it's invisibility. I wrote into Dan about the Indian painting he posted awhile ago. I didn't write in because I was horrified by the painting, but more because it saddens me to see how Indian people are put in these neat little categories that non-Indians never have to take the time to examine. I was trying to bring up the problematic issue of how white people view Indians in art/fashion etc. and just how Indians are viewed in general. It was interesting to see this whole thing develop around another Native issue.

I highly recommend I Am Not A Mascot and Newspaper Rock for anyone interested in learning more about Native issues.
51
I find this interesting.
I was recently told by a half-Native friend that it was disrespectful for me (a non-Native but part Asian person) to wear my hair in two braids. She said it was OK for me to wear one braid down the back but not two braids down the sides.
I don't want to be disrespectful, but really? I think Asians have been wearing braids for a long time. Also, if I can't wear two braids, is she allowed to eat sushi?
52
Demographics are bullshit. When the fuck can we start being individuals and stop being soulless extensions of oppressed/oppressive groups? Oh, and can we stop throwing the word privilege around like a bunch of breast-beating guilt carnies, as though accidents of birth have anything to do with that anymore? You know what usually makes a person privileged? Money or lots and lots of weapons.

My ancestry is largely Norwegian, my current status is broke, and I'm likely to live out my life as a dreg of society. Not exactly privileged. Also, do you know what recent act of cultural appropriation I didn't flip out over? The goddamn Thor movie.

Today, the offended divide people just as much as the offensive. We might get to the real roots of bigotry and discrimination quicker if people didn't fly apart at every distasteful speck of dirt. But I suppose that's the point - divide and conquer.
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This dust-up, as well as fatgate is an occupational hazard of being (and hanging with) a bunch of over-intellectual liberals (hey, I'm one too!). Conservatives try to tar us as a lot of things, but their accusations that we are a bunch of hand-wringers with more than our share of PC-police are on target. People need to chill.
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@51, what I would say to you in that case is that what your friend is offering is the beginning of a discussion, not the end of one. I would guess that what your friend finds objectionable is not the hairstyle but the invisibility of the culture that produced the hairstyle, including the invisibility of it in your relationship with her. I think what she maybe wanted was not for you to change your hair but to see the Indian in her better.
What you could have done is talk about being indian for a while. What tribe is she, where are the from, what reservations were they taken to, what cultural traditions are alive in her family today, what kinds of intersections between white and indian culture has she experienced in her life or heard from her parents, grandparents, where's the hairstyle come from, was it part of her tribal style, and so on.

The idea is that you become informed, you deal with the symbols of life around you in a way that incorporates them INSIDE the culture rather than taking them in but leaving the people outside.

And surely you can inform that discussion yourself, with the Asian part of your background. Really, it's OK to talk about race. It exists. Talking about it is cool. It's not wanting to talk about it that smacks of privilege.
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Jesus Fucking Christ, commenting on Slog can be like talking to a wall sometimes. Do some of you even read what others are posting? Try responding rather than reacting.

@52: So you are Norwegian and broke...I'm sorry to hear that you are broke. It fucking sucks, I know. But do you know what sucks more than being white and broke? Being non-white and broke. Again, like the insightful posts you ignored (or failed to comprehend, which would you rather cop to?) explained, your whiteness makes racism invisible to you. Your privilege makes oppression invisible to you. Of course you are not bothered by the Thor movie, you have not experienced oppression from a stereotype.

I agree that money and weapons give you privilege. Um, who has all the money and (most of the) weapons in our society? Oh, that's right! Why do they have that money? Oh, yeah.
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@55, Telling somebody that their race makes them unable to comprehend a concept - much less a concept as universal as oppression - sounds, well, you know, kind of racist.

If it makes you feel any better, rednecks tend to call me a faggot.
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I probably overreacted, but I didn't say you can't comprehend because you are white, I said things are INVISIBLE to you. You have to TRY to see it. I know, I am a white dude too. I had the same defensive posture many years ago. But then I tried interacting with people different than me, and LISTENING. I'm still not perfect. Far from it.

And no, that does not make me feel good at all. I've been called faggot, and though I'm straight (and yeah, being called that is on a WHOLE other level if you are actually queer) it sucks.
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I read Jen's apology as springing from her inability to imagine that the owner was mixed, and that the display was intentional commentary on colonization. Part of that is that Native Americans are often invisible to white people (and other POCs as well in my experience) unless stereotypically marked. Another part of that is the way Native people are frequently talked about as if they are only historical, and no longer a living, changing part of our present. I didn't get from any of her writing the idea that Native imagery is automatically okay if produced by a part-native person, and I think it is pretty weird that you think it is fine, Dan. It's not automatically okay if a person of color uses a contested representation in their work. Some of that is because people of color are not monolithic. It shouldn't even need to be said that a person from one tribe doesn't get to proclaim if it's okay to use the imagery from another tribe, but that within a tribe themselves there will be a variety of different opinions about whether something is okay or not. And within that there is also room to say that artists are often offensive, and their role isn't always to soothe, but sometimes to sting. Yet if the people you are stinging consistently have less power and respect than you, you are more a bully than a Socrates.

I'm not going to claim that cultural appropriation is automatically racist. But it is often problematic, and it requires thought. In the poster for your guy's show, I don't see anything aimed at raising questions about what it means to be native, or how people are represented. I do see Native imagery being employed to signify being uninhibited and wild and cartoonish. That seems like a problem to me. That you refuse to acknowledge that is problematic, that there are valid reasons a person could be offended, is pretty gross. Especially it is for the "It gets better" project, as previous commenters have stated, Native American youth are three times more likely than average to commit suicide. I wish you would have taken a moment to at least consider that you might be hurting those youth, instead of launching into full defensive, shut-up-and-get-over-it mode.
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That was yummy, merry! Buurrrrrrppppp.

Excuse me.
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@52 " When the fuck can we start being individuals and stop being soulless extensions of oppressed/oppressive groups? "

When we stop living in a kyriarchy.

And yes, you are privileged. I suggest you read up on what that means.

http://www.amptoons.com/blog/files/mcint…
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My point is that suffering is individual and subjective. It can't be measured or compared beyond a statistical perspective (and I really hate the idea of people as statistics). Nobody suffers the same way, and on that line no person can truly understand another person's suffering, no matter how similar they are. At some point people just have to get past the differences and just show some empathy. What's counterproductive is when suffering turns into a demographic dick-measuring contest and one person's pain is deemed more important than another person's similar pain, which is a sure way to alienate the contestants from each other instead of teaming up to solve their problems together.

(For example: As a largely straight guy who was a pretty big target for assholes while in public school, I have mixed feelings about focusing on eliminating gay bullying in school as opposed to getting rid of school bullying as a whole. Even though a lot of the crap I went through took the form of homophobia, I felt left out of the conversation even though I had a lot to say.)

I don't like entitlement and aristocracy in any form, no matter who's being spoiled, exploitative, or oblivious. And it might help to remember that a lot of people in the world might view all of us in America as monstrously privileged. A person can always find a fight or a division if one looks for them. Doesn't meant that there aren't real problems, but that our outrage might be better used.

Glad the conversation calmed down a bit. I think I might take that lemonade now, provided I can put some vodka in it.
63
You know whats really offensive, both Dan and Jen's negative use of "white". As a white male I'm horrible offensive and demand an apology. The Stranger needs to stop hating on whitey!!!!!!!!!

:P
64
Y'know, maybe the Indian designer of the poster put in the Indian imagery because white people who want racist imagery in their posters feel better hiring one of the people they're being racist against to validate the whole sordid thing in that way. I can kind of see how it buys-off one Indian to impose on all of them.
65
So the current tally: Dan hates fat pit bull-owning smoking monogomous christian indians. Did I miss anything?
66
Everyone should stop getting their feathers in a ruffle :P
67
UGH you know what? I try really fucking hard to be considerate, and recognize my privilege, and right wrongs and shit like that. So I try and take it in stride when people have the occasional uncalled for explosion at me, because I get that a lot of non white/ non cis-gendered/ queer people get a lot of shit from society, and they're entitled to a couple random blow ups. But I had some girl give me absolute shit and try to guilt me about my 'white privilege' because I was considering dying my hair blonde for some job interviews. I AM ALLOWED TO DYE MY HAIR. Stfu and come back when you have something real to complain about. Sometimes, white people are allowed to get mad when people hurl insults at them like 'racist' when they're not really founded.
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@62 Except that blanket empathy silences those that are marginalized. It's sorta like when we fight for feminism! but really we are fighting for middle class, white, cisgender, hetero feminism. Or we fight for gay rights! But we are really fighting for middle class, white, cisgender, mostly male gay rights.

You are able to "get past the differences" because you are the dominant narrative.
69
Usually when I disagree w/ a coworker, I just walk over to their office. Or call 'em.

I never really thought about publicly airing my grievances via a nationally read blog.
70
Anyone else think cisgender is a stupid word?
71
@70 What do you think of transgender?
72
@ 65- That they're transgender and voted for Nader, and also apparently Fnarfs posts on this thread (which are possibly the most intelligent and thoughtful internet comments ever)
73
@71 transgender sounds fine, but cisgender just sounds sooooooooo pc, pc for the sake of being pc.
74
@73 So what word should we use?
75
@74 do we really need one? I've seen cisgendered used in only two ways.
1) As a put down towards people who aren't transgendered
2) As a way for douchey pc'ers to seem hip (i.e. oh, i under stand the queer plight, even though i'm cisgendered).

Really do we even need transgendered? I understand that people may want a way to describe themselfs and thats fine. But it seems like cisgender is the a reaction to "transgender" being used negatively.
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@74 I have no idea. Well not quite true, I had several but then shot all my own ideas down because they were inaccurate or (quite unintentionally - I am transgendered) potentially offensive. "Gender aligned" meaning birth assigned gender and brain gender match, but then people who have transitioned are then aligned. "Biogendered" but then if it turns out, as I suspect is the case, that transgendered people have brain areas that match the gender dimorphic regions usually found in their target gender, then that doesn't quite work for cisgendered. Got it: BAGMAB - Birth Assigned Gender MAtches Brain. No, that's just bad. See.
77
I realize that I appear right in the shit of this because I commented and incidentally used 'transgender' at the same time as 71 (and before I'd seen 70) but c'mon people, let's not hijack this, right now it's about appropriation and Dan's hurt feelings.
78
As for Dan, he's obviously left the discussion.

Probably because HEADDRESSed the subject already.

*ba-dum tssssss
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@75 Yet I was not using it in either of those ways. I used cisgender to call out people who are NOT trans or genderqueer or bigender or however people define themselves that is outside what is considered "default." Just like I used hetero to call out people who are NOT gay/bi. White who are not POC. Female who are not male.

I think people don't like the word because it calls out what is considered normative socially and personally and that is uncomfortable. There is nothing wrong with using a word to understand who you are to understand who you and other people are not and how that fits in our perceptions of gender identity.

And yes, we do need words to define those who are not trans so we can focus on the excluded voices of those who are.
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@77 You are right. Apologies for veering off topic. So when you are talking to a friend who you know to be a decent, and not a bigotted person, you usually give them the benefit of the doubt if they say something that they did not know to be offensive. Clearly bandying the N word about would not fall into that category, but other things they might not be aware of, particularly if they come from a different culture or country. I do and have occasionally put my foot in it quite unintentionally. If I do, I appreciate someone telling me, in a friendly way, why I shouldn't say X and make a mental note not to do it again.
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So Kersy, are you admitting to being a soulless extension of oppressed/oppressive groups? Cause you sure haven't given much evidence to the contrary.

You know nothing about me yet are confident in lumping me in with the Great Aristocrats. Seems rather prejudiced of you. Have your gold medal in the Oppression Olympics. I'll go be a human being, thank you.
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@69: Stop being cute. STOP IT.

*knocks over a desk*
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@81: lol whut
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"we do need words to define those who are not trans so we can focus on the excluded voices of those who are. "

It's statements like this that make me hate the word cisgender. Because you're implying that if you're not transgender then you must be part of the "haters". How about focusing on the exclude voices instead.

I.E. instead of complaining that your voice isn't heard because those that are fighting for gay rights "are really fighting for middle class, white, cisgender, mostly male gay rights", go out and speak up for your rights. Hating againts one group isn't going stop the hate against another group.
85
It gets better.
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@83, sorry I didn't list the reference. Referring to @61.
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I don't like the use of the headdress in the poster simply because if someone non-Native was going to "dress up like an Indian", the most stereotypical approach would be to don a headdress. That alone should give pause: why has the headdress, worn by certain tribes, become The stereotypical symbol of all things Native? Even if you knew nothing about the significance of the headdress to those tribes, it seems you'd know enough to be cautious about the trivial use of such a symbol.
88
I Have Been Maligned!

WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!
89
I'm going to go put on an Indian head-dress, do a rain dance, and celebrate my "white privilege"!
90

What @20 & @21 said. Absolutely. And Dan, while your at it, try reading "Native Seattle" by Coll Thrush.

@89 VERY intelligent and pertinent comment to add to the discussion. I somehow you doubt you could pull off the "Frat Boy Overbite" on the dance floor, let alone a traditional Native dance. Good luck with that.
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@54
I had a knee-jerk reaction against what you suggested, but thought about it and decided to go ahead and talk to her, and you know what? You were right. She actually DID just want to talk about her heritage, her perception of its invisibility and the how much loose borrowing from her culture bothered her.
92
you should check out the work at the Lawrimore project , By the half natvie artist
93
Dan--Check out your own project, right?

Working against discrimination in all its forms? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HzcAR6yQh…

Does it get better for Native Americans, who have the highest poverty and suicide rates in America? Who still have major sports-league mascots that are horrifically racist and stereotyping plastered all over their television screens? Who have sports utility vehicles using the names of their tribes?

Apparently, as long as its getting better for you and your cause, it doesn't matter if it gets better for anyone else. Pretty pathetic.
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@54, 91: Conversations about race are great. Trying to start a conversation by telling someone how they can or can't wear their hair is idiotic. No group of people has a monopoly on hair braids or pigtails: I'm sure that braids of various numbers and arrangements have been used in cultures throughout the world.

If she wanted to start a conversation about race, rather than being offensive and idiotic, she should have said "Hey, did you know that X hairstyle is sort of similar to what Y tribe used," or "Hey, let's talk about race," or something like that. The only appropriate response to "it's disrespectful to wear your hair like that" is "fuck you."

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