I've had a number of boys shit the bed while I was fucking them. No warning. It happens when they get totally blissed out and want a hard pounding. When the let everything go and give into the moment, everything can really let go in the moment.

Personally, I'm very matter-of-fact about it. Shit happens. Don't play in an asshole unless you can face the possible downsides. I always put down a towel when I fuck at my place. And I always reassure my boy that he's still hot, though we need to stop and shower.

But it's amazing the emotional hole it puts some guys in. No amount of emotional support can bury the feeling of inadequacy it brings out. As if they're a bad person because shit comes out of their ass.

I suspect porn plays a role. The internet is full of bionic assholes that can take prison-style gangfucks without so much as farting. Guys just expect that they should be able to do the same. Never stopping to think about things like edits, cuts, and the reality behind the camera.

I found her response. @1, is this recycled as well?

http://seattle.craigslist.org/see/rnr/36…

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