Lucky for me I'm not very shy and will tell people to move their shit when I encounter this brand of stupidity (basically every day).
I can't help but laugh at the people who will stand all the way from CC to Westlake so someone's knapsack can ride comfortably on a seat (and they are too timid to say anything).
Good Morning Charles,
Indeed, I agree with you. However, I would qualify that any single passenger that takes up 2 or more seats on a train or bus hasn't "evolved" socially. Public transit necessarily shares space. One human per seat. I don't like it when people place their legs/feet on a seat as well. It's extraordinary how some passengers take up so much space.
I've seen people with multiple bags/boxes easily take up two or more(!) seats. And, not yield to another passenger. It's most uncivilized. Lack of social intelligence afflicts ALL types of humans. It isn't just people going to and fro the airport with luggage.
Most people are completely oblivious to the world around them. All they perceive is their own self and have an attention and memory of about 15 seconds.
yeah i lived in NYC and people do this there, too, but yes they will be called out for it. i once had to ride the subway right after having surgery on my broken wrist. i needed to sit so i chose to ask the guy sitting across the THREE seats labeled for disabled/elderly if he would move so i could sit down. know what he said? your can stand, it's your arm that's in a cast! i gave him a ration of shit and he moved and let me sit down but still. there are assholes everywhere. the only way people will stop being assholes is if they are called out on their behavior every time. good luck with that in seattle where passive aggression is the rule, not the exception. i expect a lot of sighing and eye rolling and silent staring, but no actual WORDS SPOKEN.
@2 - what if those people are fine with standing? What if they're thankful for the time they get to stand for a bit because they have a shitty desk job that requires sitting for 8 hours?
I rarely post comments complaining about a Slog entry, but this one is ridiculous.
one of my favorite things is asking people to move their shit. or actually, just sitting down anyway. oh i did that the other day on a packed rush hour bus, it was glorious. dumb dumb moved his stuff right quick when he saw my ass coming for it.
So it is socially underdeveloped to take people's picture secretly in order to publicly and passive aggressively whine about their behavior later, or is that a mark of high social development?
Seems to me a higher socially developed mind would think it better to simply speak to other people.
Hey Charles - last time I was on the bus some shithead lady was sitting on the inside seat and had her bag on the outside seat. Eventually someone asked her to move her shit so he could sit down and she did. Same thing with another fuck who was also napping.
You need a seat, ask for it. People only do this because they're oblivious or because they know everyone's too pussy to ask anyways.
So ask the people who spread out their stuff to please move so that you can sit down. They'll put their stuff right back as soon as you get off, but at least you'll (finally) have said something to them rather than make it all the way to work stewing on it until you could reach your personal slog to whine at people who don't give a fuck about it.
As someone who is perhaps overly sensitive to being team player in situations like this, I'd sure like to think I'm more evolved.
Over the years, however, it's become clear to me that some people are by their nature completely comfortable imposing on others. I suspect that for some, the area of their brain responsible for modeling the perspectives of other people is underdeveloped. For others, they know very well what they are doing but can choose not to give a fuck. That tends to be a winning strategy in many areas of life, so by a strict Darwinian definition, you could argue that they are the ones who are more "evolved".
The airport is at the end of the line. When people board there, the train is always completely empty. But it's not going to stay that way (it did in bygone times, but not anymore).
One very simple way to mitigate the airport baggage problem would be to install overhead luggage racks, so the air travelers have an immediate visual cue to get all their crap out of other people's way.
I'm guessing Link doesn't want the liability.
As it is, people are supposed to put those big wheelie bags under the seats. But nobody knows that, and I've never seen a single passenger actually stow their bag there.
21) your criticism of this post is empty. of course, i can tell the guy to move his bags. but that's only one person. he is one among many. am i supposed to work through all of them one at a time? think about it.
I can sound like an asshole and be okay with it. The part that bothers me about riding public transportation in Seattle is when people don't move their shit or their asses for my kids. Well, at least the youngest. He's 5. I am NOT saying my kids are more important than everyone else, but here are the facts: If the train got in an accident while my 5 year old is standing because of selfish people, his chance of survival is WAY LOWER than yours. You got to graduate high school, go to college and start your career. My kid has not, and he deserves that chance as much as you do. I move for kids. They are our future.
(The ridership actually flattened and then dropped last year after July.)
Jesus Christ, Mudede, learn the most basic things about what you write about. It does that EVERY YEAR because demand has a strong seasonal component. The most relevant comparison point is always the previous year's same month. Using that metric, Link ridership has been increasing 10-15% a year for a few years now. There has only been flattening or dropping if you don't know how to measure transit ridership.
Sadly this won't change until people say: "Can you please move your suitcase so I can sit down?" And then you stand there and wait until they do it.
People in SF do this all the time."I'm going to leave my huge backpack on my back on the crowded Muni Metro train at rush hour instead of putting it on the floor where it belongs. Because I'm more important than you" is an all too common thing.
I was never shy about saying to those people "Please put that on the floor, you've hit me in the face with it four times since Civic Center. Thanks." Then give them your best Disappointed Dad face.
seattlites take the bus like they drive, which is like they walk and like they vote: totally interested in their own belly button and completely unaware that there are even other people out there trying to us the same services.
it's why their bags take up three seats. it's why they look like you punched their dead grandmother when you question why they brought their dog into a supermarket and why when driving they sometimes just stop in the middle of the street for no reason at all.
this is not the problem. this is a metaphor for the problem.
On the one hand, people who don't move their stuff when seats are scarce are jerks. But on the other, if there are a reasonable number of open seats (for me, the threshold is after all seats are singly occupied), it's perfectly reasonable to maintain a larger amount of "personal" space.
I have no problem sitting next to someone out of necessity, but I don't want a bus buddy. Keeping a bag next to you when there are plenty of available options is a good defense mechanism against creepers or the socially oblivious.
@24 Charles - your response to all of the criticism is empty. The comments @6, 9, 11, 12, 14, 16, 18, 19, 20 and 21 seem to disagree with your post, or at least feel you should have followed through with dialogue with the less-evolved subjects. Tell us what the guy said when you confronted him?
@24: The terminus of your logic is that no one person should attempt to make anything better if that one person can not fix every problem.
Do you also feel that no one should attempt to curb their carbon emissions because the actions of one person does not solve the problem completely? Or perhaps you feel that no one should give to charity since no problem can be solved with just that one person's donation.
@24 Completely ignoring the point made by several people? Check. Putting words in the mouths of others in a written medium? Check.
The root of your complaint is that there are many people sharing a public space that need to work together for mutual benefit. So first by doing nothing, you become the problem by letting it fester. Think about it.
Secondly, don't you think that by setting the example of speaking up, you would encourage others who are too shy to do the same? Or to simply call attention to the others on the bus who are acting inappropriately? Think about it.
Finally, if your complaint is that an expectation that you "work through all of them one at a time" - a complaint that you disingenuously made up out of whole cloth - why bother making this post? You don't seriously believe that everyone reads what you write, do you?
Think about it. And next time quit being such a fucking creeper and talk to people rather than take pictures of them and posting them to this site without permission.
Not to mention all the space UNDER that seat. Also looping the backpack over the handle of the suitcase. If you worry about leaving a backpack under the seat of the transit, loop a strap around your foot. Which you should do if you ever put a backpack on the ground while traveling, because safety.
I know that Light Rail is limited but, there's nothing wrong with complaining to a driver and if there's a transit person doing a ride along they can always enforce the policy (of being a decent human being). I've seen transit workers do it on Sound Transit buses.
@ 24, I second all the responses you got. If you believe that, you would have advised Rosa Parks that she would not change anything by sitting at the front of the bus. Technically you would have been correct, but the change you desire only begins when one person takes action.
That said, there really is no good way to confront someone using a seat this way when it's not SRO. The only person with the cache is the one who needs the seat. Frankly, complaing about this when seats are available is petty. (Unless there are luggage racks - I've had no opportunity to ride the Link myself, so I don't know if one is provided or not, but the comments make it sound like they don't.)
@1 - please don't confuse "introversion" with "passive aggressive."
while seattle does have its share of introverts, this move - both using the extra seats like they are yours AND the creepy posting of a picture designed to shame folks instead of trying to solve the problem - is ALL passive aggressivity and not introversion in the least...
I will await the reports of some masked avenger borrowing Phoenix Jones' outfit and incessantly asking public transit users to keep the seats available for other humans.
Agree with everyone above who has commented on the empty seat in the photo. As long as there are other empty seats available, I see no problem with placing a bag on a seat. Once there are no more seats, move your crap to make room for fellow passengers.
First of all, Parks didn't sit at the fucking front of the bus. She was ordered to move, even though she was sitting in the "colored" section, to make way for white passengers.
Second, the response to her civil disobedience was massive political protest, boycotts, and direct action. By using this analogy, are you suggesting transit riders organize a mass protest to drive away entitled assholes who take up multiple seats? Does that sound like a rational response to you?
I'm with Matt from Denver @39 (the complaining is petty when the bus/train isn't full thing, not the Rosa parks thing).
If the bus/train is full and there are seats being taken up by luggage, I don't hesitate to ask people to move their stuff. I do it nicely, and no one has ever refused.
Also, many seats have space UNDER the seats, as @23 noted. That's where the highly evolved people stash their crap.
Also, it's worth noting that every light rail car has a luggage storage area. I'm not sure if people are unaware of this, or if they are paranoid about being too far away from their bags.
Wow, what a nag article. I see this happen on the bus all the time. People returning from shopping, of all ages, young and old. I use a walker to get around and use the bus and some of these people who look at me like I take up too much space. And I am not even carrying a huge number of bags from shopping or whatever the majority of time. The transit system is for public use, not some private white glove transport. There are going to be annoyances regardless. Someone talking on the phone. A family riding the bus or train heading to the airport with their luggage because parking is stupidly expensive or a taxi cab. I haven't taken the train yet, no need to, but who knows someday I will, but this idea that everyone has to conform to some thin skinned social norm seems a bit ridiculous to me especially since the Northwest used to be a place where individuality has been celebrated as a core value of people who call this home.
@13, as a former NYC straphanger myself, I would be loath to ask an individual in NYC who is taking up 3 seats to move: My concern, and this may sound like retro 70's, 80's NYC paranoia, is that this guy engaging in douche behavior is a psycho who will punch me or slash me with a knife, or a smelly ass bum who will leave a stinky seat.
In Seattle, if a person is taking up a seat in a crowded bus, just ease yourself in and say "pardon me". People here will wake up from their self involved stupor and cooperate.
If you need/want to sit and someone's bag/suitcase is occupying the seat just *ask* them to move it. They should know better, but if they don't just ask them. Only if they are truly assholes will they refuse to accommodate you. Just don't let people who should know better intimidate you.
"The only reason New Yorkers don't do this shit is because they know other New Yorkers will call them out on it.
Not in Seattle. Here we're a city of introverts."
That, is what those of us who live in NYC call BULLSHIT.
I see this crap on busses and trains every time I ride. Yes, you should say something. But there's nothing wrong with passively-aggressively reminding folks to be considerate. I'm no Pollyanna, but I refuse to believe that every single person doing it is an asshole.
And by the same token--they MIGHT be an asshole. And I think some folks just do the math--do I stand for five minutes or possibly listen to someone bitch and moan for five minutes that you asked them to move their bag.
In related news--this is what gets a dozen people's knickers in a snitch? A guy complaining about people being rude.
You're not as polite and introverted as you'd like to think. But you've really got the sweeping generalizations thing down pat.
Has anyone thought that the reason Charles makes these irritating posts (and the reason the Stranger employs him to do so) is that he gets 56 comments?
People, people: You don't really know what crazy is until you've taken public transportation on a regular basis. Now I say this as a strong believer in public transportation, democracy, and apple pie. But the simple fact is that you're gonna encounter people who are just weird in ways that seem incomprehensible, and you really have no choice in the moment but to just roll with it--or make yourself into a weird, babbling lunatic. The shit's contagious.
SO--backpack on the open seat? Let it slide. I mean, who cares? If you really need to to sit, say to the offender, "Hey, I need to sit. Could you move that?" They're most likely just clueless about the situation, and nine times out of ten they'll just meekly apologize and move their hunk of shit so you can sit down. If they snarl and get angry, just move the fuck on. It's really not worth picking a fight with someone that crazy--did I mention that some people on public transportation are legitimately crazy?--so just count your blessings until you get home to a nice beer and can of Spaghetti-O's and live to fight another day.
Charles, have you been to NYC lately? Even it's August Internationale Citizens are cluesless about such things as where to stand on an escalator, and are also under the impression that bags are people too. Some people even try to bring their bicycles on crowded rush-hour trains!
part of social intelligence is don't fucking intellectualize everything into rules of politeness like saying citizens must develop their social intelligence blah blah blah. you see a seat you want just speak up BECAUSE you want it. NOT because some rule tells you it's okay, or more intelligent etc. it's okay to have your feelings and wants. it's okay to want, see, speak. now. you take the risk that the person spoken to will pull out a gun and wasteyou or yell at you. this risk is low in seattle, it's much higher in nyc. or chicago. but it's soooooo seattle to intellectualize it, make up a politeness rule, and do the passive aggravating post it somewhere later thing. fuck it charles don't be such a pussy you need a say speak up or sort of plop down right into the seat that the luggage is on and kind of shove it over uncomfortably for the jerk who dind't remove it just seeing you eyeing the seat. this town is sooooooo socially regressive, so silent, so faux nice really judgmental. speak up. I moved here in 1992 first night out at 74th ale house some guy stood on a chair rather deftly and recited some poetry he made up on the spot they kicked him out for being a distrubance. this is not sane bar behaviour, what the ale house did! he wasn't even yelling! or emoting! so fucking puritanically repressive. nothing is spontaneous communication of feelings, who you are your ego. it's all superego all the way like life is a context to be the Most Good Person In The Universe this is why we endlessly debate all the moral rules here of tiny social interactions to a degree like we are inventing a new mormon church or something. lighten up. live. speak. feel. take the fucking seat or tell the dude what you think. unless you think he will harm you. mazel tov.
I think maybe said individual jumped on at the first stop: Sea-Tac. Which is a MOTHERF**KING AIRPORT.
Link doesn't have a bag check much less a real human to help luggage-laden patrons temporarily (and confidently) stow their possessions. And... Link cars are surprisingly ill-equipped for customers to do so on their own.
So while we may indeed need to, "stop thinking that our pieces of luggage (property) are people," it might be worthwhile to recognize that people with luggage are still people, no?
My favorite is when people get on at rush hour with a large piece of luggage that takes up the space of two additional riders and upon further inspection you notice they could actually ride it to their destination as it has two wheels and a seat. Maybe these two-wheeled pieces of luggage should be charged an additional fee for the shortcut provided by the train.
I totally disagree with you. You are a selfish and 'modern' person taking public transportation because it is the easiest way for you to travel. Just because you choose to ride public transportation despite your three cars at home, doesn't give you the right to make the rules.
Some people have a difficult time walking six miles with fifty pounds of groceries to their destination. You obviously drive your car for this. Have you ever thought about where the person carrying extra things is coming from?? Have YOU ever thought about THEM?
Well for your information it sucks to carry things on a bus or train. It sucks when YOU won't 'get up' when you see I have a badly hurt ankle and am bringing home food from the food bank. I have to eat too. I paid the fair. Where is your sense of ethics of sharing of mere KINDNESS?? I merely see you as being rude for keeping your window closed when its averaging over 100 degrees on the stuffy Seattle bus. I'm hot, tired, in pain from all the walking that public transportation has me do to catch another bus AND i am holding fifty plus pounds with a sprained ankle. You obviously think you deserve a seat more then me in these situations. You aren't carrying anything except your own passive aggressive anger issues and inability to walk in someone else'es shoes. Why can't you share? Stand so i can take a break from all this. Someday you may need an extra seat and you know what? I will gladly get up for you. Karma comes around.
If you dislike this sense of morality, don't take public transportation. Nobody's aim is to make you suffer, if you even know what that feels like.
Here's an idea: design seats so as to allow some space underneath them. I have no means of transportation to my local grocery stores (or co-op, when I have the cash) except by bus and I'm not going to buy a car because I'm in no financial position to be paying for much more than the basics right now, and certainly not a car. So sorry if me bringing bags of food that I need to live on the bus is a minor inconvenience for you if I have no other place to put them except down in front of me. Yeah, people who actually put their shit down on seats when space is tight are pricks, but don't call people pricks if there's simply not space for those items otherwise. If there is, like in the picture above, yeah, that's a dick move, but it's not always possible, so maybe people could stop staring when I have food on the bus; it turns out that my grocery shopping is not designed to inconvenience the poor people on the bus who aren't even inconvenienced by the fact that *my* space is cramped, not theirs. Yeah, I have food. Tough tits, dipshit.
If seats are empty, then there is no reason not to put your bags on the seat next to you. I do this EVERY TIME I ride with a bag/luggage. You are keeping the aisles clear. IF SEATS BECOME FULL, you should move your bags before someone needs the seat. I also do this EVERY TIME. These photos tell us NOTHING about what the person with the bag next to him would do if seats started to fill up. And the language under the photos about who's socially evolved and who's not, that's just designed to piss the readers off and get comments/views, right? GOOD JOB, CHUCK!
Jesus Christ, get off Charles's back. He posted this to make a point in hopes that some people would read it and stop this behavior if they're guilty of it OR speak up when they see this behavior.
Oh, c'mon. He characterized people with bags on seats as "socially underdeveloped" and people with bags in front of them as superior. He's just trying to stir people up. Yeah, don't be a dick, but also don't assume so much about people with a backpack on an empty seat with another empty seat right next to it!
Not in Seattle. Here we're a city of introverts.
I can't help but laugh at the people who will stand all the way from CC to Westlake so someone's knapsack can ride comfortably on a seat (and they are too timid to say anything).
Indeed, I agree with you. However, I would qualify that any single passenger that takes up 2 or more seats on a train or bus hasn't "evolved" socially. Public transit necessarily shares space. One human per seat. I don't like it when people place their legs/feet on a seat as well. It's extraordinary how some passengers take up so much space.
I've seen people with multiple bags/boxes easily take up two or more(!) seats. And, not yield to another passenger. It's most uncivilized. Lack of social intelligence afflicts ALL types of humans. It isn't just people going to and fro the airport with luggage.
Just tell people to please move their stuff.
Perhaps a similar policy is in order for large bags? Dogs aren't allowed to even sit on the seat.
when there's no other seats I bet the dude moves his shit unprompted.
don't get hysterical.
I rarely post comments complaining about a Slog entry, but this one is ridiculous.
Seems to me a higher socially developed mind would think it better to simply speak to other people.
You need a seat, ask for it. People only do this because they're oblivious or because they know everyone's too pussy to ask anyways.
Lets say nothing, creepily take pictures of complete strangers, and complain when it's too late to change anything!!
Over the years, however, it's become clear to me that some people are by their nature completely comfortable imposing on others. I suspect that for some, the area of their brain responsible for modeling the perspectives of other people is underdeveloped. For others, they know very well what they are doing but can choose not to give a fuck. That tends to be a winning strategy in many areas of life, so by a strict Darwinian definition, you could argue that they are the ones who are more "evolved".
The airport is at the end of the line. When people board there, the train is always completely empty. But it's not going to stay that way (it did in bygone times, but not anymore).
One very simple way to mitigate the airport baggage problem would be to install overhead luggage racks, so the air travelers have an immediate visual cue to get all their crap out of other people's way.
I'm guessing Link doesn't want the liability.
As it is, people are supposed to put those big wheelie bags under the seats. But nobody knows that, and I've never seen a single passenger actually stow their bag there.
Jesus Christ, Mudede, learn the most basic things about what you write about. It does that EVERY YEAR because demand has a strong seasonal component. The most relevant comparison point is always the previous year's same month. Using that metric, Link ridership has been increasing 10-15% a year for a few years now. There has only been flattening or dropping if you don't know how to measure transit ridership.
People in SF do this all the time."I'm going to leave my huge backpack on my back on the crowded Muni Metro train at rush hour instead of putting it on the floor where it belongs. Because I'm more important than you" is an all too common thing.
I was never shy about saying to those people "Please put that on the floor, you've hit me in the face with it four times since Civic Center. Thanks." Then give them your best Disappointed Dad face.
it's why their bags take up three seats. it's why they look like you punched their dead grandmother when you question why they brought their dog into a supermarket and why when driving they sometimes just stop in the middle of the street for no reason at all.
this is not the problem. this is a metaphor for the problem.
I have no problem sitting next to someone out of necessity, but I don't want a bus buddy. Keeping a bag next to you when there are plenty of available options is a good defense mechanism against creepers or the socially oblivious.
Do you also feel that no one should attempt to curb their carbon emissions because the actions of one person does not solve the problem completely? Or perhaps you feel that no one should give to charity since no problem can be solved with just that one person's donation.
But you shouldn't make people ask you to move your bag. Once things start to get more crowded it's time to restrict yourself to one seat.
The root of your complaint is that there are many people sharing a public space that need to work together for mutual benefit. So first by doing nothing, you become the problem by letting it fester. Think about it.
Secondly, don't you think that by setting the example of speaking up, you would encourage others who are too shy to do the same? Or to simply call attention to the others on the bus who are acting inappropriately? Think about it.
Finally, if your complaint is that an expectation that you "work through all of them one at a time" - a complaint that you disingenuously made up out of whole cloth - why bother making this post? You don't seriously believe that everyone reads what you write, do you?
Think about it. And next time quit being such a fucking creeper and talk to people rather than take pictures of them and posting them to this site without permission.
I know that Light Rail is limited but, there's nothing wrong with complaining to a driver and if there's a transit person doing a ride along they can always enforce the policy (of being a decent human being). I've seen transit workers do it on Sound Transit buses.
That said, there really is no good way to confront someone using a seat this way when it's not SRO. The only person with the cache is the one who needs the seat. Frankly, complaing about this when seats are available is petty. (Unless there are luggage racks - I've had no opportunity to ride the Link myself, so I don't know if one is provided or not, but the comments make it sound like they don't.)
while seattle does have its share of introverts, this move - both using the extra seats like they are yours AND the creepy posting of a picture designed to shame folks instead of trying to solve the problem - is ALL passive aggressivity and not introversion in the least...
Women tend not to have as much free space.
Originally this is why men were supposed to give up their seats ...
http://peopleonthetube.tumblr.com/ has some examples.
But frankly the silliness that is https://www.facebook.com/stickersonthece… more than makes up for it.
First of all, Parks didn't sit at the fucking front of the bus. She was ordered to move, even though she was sitting in the "colored" section, to make way for white passengers.
Second, the response to her civil disobedience was massive political protest, boycotts, and direct action. By using this analogy, are you suggesting transit riders organize a mass protest to drive away entitled assholes who take up multiple seats? Does that sound like a rational response to you?
If the bus/train is full and there are seats being taken up by luggage, I don't hesitate to ask people to move their stuff. I do it nicely, and no one has ever refused.
Also, many seats have space UNDER the seats, as @23 noted. That's where the highly evolved people stash their crap.
In Seattle, if a person is taking up a seat in a crowded bus, just ease yourself in and say "pardon me". People here will wake up from their self involved stupor and cooperate.
Not in Seattle. Here we're a city of introverts."
That, is what those of us who live in NYC call BULLSHIT.
I see this crap on busses and trains every time I ride. Yes, you should say something. But there's nothing wrong with passively-aggressively reminding folks to be considerate. I'm no Pollyanna, but I refuse to believe that every single person doing it is an asshole.
And by the same token--they MIGHT be an asshole. And I think some folks just do the math--do I stand for five minutes or possibly listen to someone bitch and moan for five minutes that you asked them to move their bag.
In related news--this is what gets a dozen people's knickers in a snitch? A guy complaining about people being rude.
You're not as polite and introverted as you'd like to think. But you've really got the sweeping generalizations thing down pat.
SO--backpack on the open seat? Let it slide. I mean, who cares? If you really need to to sit, say to the offender, "Hey, I need to sit. Could you move that?" They're most likely just clueless about the situation, and nine times out of ten they'll just meekly apologize and move their hunk of shit so you can sit down. If they snarl and get angry, just move the fuck on. It's really not worth picking a fight with someone that crazy--did I mention that some people on public transportation are legitimately crazy?--so just count your blessings until you get home to a nice beer and can of Spaghetti-O's and live to fight another day.
Link doesn't have a bag check much less a real human to help luggage-laden patrons temporarily (and confidently) stow their possessions. And... Link cars are surprisingly ill-equipped for customers to do so on their own.
So while we may indeed need to, "stop thinking that our pieces of luggage (property) are people," it might be worthwhile to recognize that people with luggage are still people, no?
I totally disagree with you. You are a selfish and 'modern' person taking public transportation because it is the easiest way for you to travel. Just because you choose to ride public transportation despite your three cars at home, doesn't give you the right to make the rules.
Some people have a difficult time walking six miles with fifty pounds of groceries to their destination. You obviously drive your car for this. Have you ever thought about where the person carrying extra things is coming from?? Have YOU ever thought about THEM?
Well for your information it sucks to carry things on a bus or train. It sucks when YOU won't 'get up' when you see I have a badly hurt ankle and am bringing home food from the food bank. I have to eat too. I paid the fair. Where is your sense of ethics of sharing of mere KINDNESS?? I merely see you as being rude for keeping your window closed when its averaging over 100 degrees on the stuffy Seattle bus. I'm hot, tired, in pain from all the walking that public transportation has me do to catch another bus AND i am holding fifty plus pounds with a sprained ankle. You obviously think you deserve a seat more then me in these situations. You aren't carrying anything except your own passive aggressive anger issues and inability to walk in someone else'es shoes. Why can't you share? Stand so i can take a break from all this. Someday you may need an extra seat and you know what? I will gladly get up for you. Karma comes around.
If you dislike this sense of morality, don't take public transportation. Nobody's aim is to make you suffer, if you even know what that feels like.