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Go, find a boy your own age , who, might just wanna be loving often.
Old dudes have old dude problems, like having a diminished sex drive. Not old middle aged men, of course, but it's common. Give him a break, try to understand why he's not the horndog you are and talk to him - honestly, openly. Good luck.
( and not dead).
31 yr old with a 45 yr old? Age difference in relationships do matter- especially that big a gap.
At 31, ones need/ want for sex is high( so the babies come! Nature in charge here).
The advice is perfect though...practice catch and release.
From what I've observed, gay people tend to date a larger age range than straight people, mostly because thier dating pool is smaller. I don't think 45 is impossibly or inappropriately old when you're 31 anyway. It's partly a matter of personal taste and how you relate to each other.
I have dated plenty of guys in their 50s who were up for sex 5-7 days a week (and more than once per day) for the first 3-4 months, and then 2-4 times per week thereafter. And there are men who at 30 wouldn't want sex more than once per week.
This is a libido differential much more than an age one.
I was talking Male sex drive, ( they programmed for baby making too)...this is a Male LW.
And not just talking about sex in relation to age difference anyway
( sorry touched your sore point, 11 yrs- not too bad).. But energy levels also. I sure wouldn't have bothered with a 45 yr old when I was 31.. Personal preference, only. Not stating universals.
( 52/3yrs old) ,
His wife 36. So, you're in good company..
But at 31, different perspective.
You're probably right. I'm a bit touchy about ageism since I just turned 60 Hell, I was touchy after I turned 50!) Thanks for putting me back in perspective.
And apologies to #7 for missing the sarcasm.
@37: You don't need a high priest spell-caster for that. Just play any Country-western record backwards.
There, fixed it. And @39 and others - there's no 'ageism' in pointing out a general tendency. Everyone knows there are exceptions. Geez.
Sure pushed a few panic buttons pointing out age difference in LWs relationship. That his bf isn't up for any sex may or may not be a function of his age , he just sounds like a Man who isn't bothering to look after his companions needs.
31-44 gets a pass according to the Standard Creepiness Rule (minimum age of younger person = age of older person divided by 2, plus 7). That's the definitive test according to the larger internet, so consider the Slog verdict overruled.