I'm surprised there has been no drug developed as a preemptive prolactin-blocker, something to work alongside Viagra or the like. There's certainly a market for it, and not just for these scenarios.

Appreciate your reply in so many ways. Ho ho ho, Dan ~ thanks for another year of educative and entertaining inquiry.

You're getting a lot of heat out of the fantasy. Keep talking about how hot it will be to lick your cum out of her, while you fuck her and take breaks from fucking to lick her to orgasm. A fantasy can stay hot just by not paying attention to the fact that it's not actually happening.

And then, after you come, go down on her as soon as you start to feel horny again, and tell yourself that you're getting your own sloppy seconds. As long as you can get past obsessing over the literal reality, you can continue to have fun with this.

I love you, Dan. The way ypu casually answer the guy's question after addressing the glaring racism in it.

Dan, I feel like you may have taken his term of "BBC" a little too much at face value - I kinda got the idea that he was referring to him as the "BBC" for nothing more than brevity's sake, I don't think any disrespect is going on here.

Anyway, this is actually a really common problem that affects most men, either when finding themselves not wanting to continue after sex, or even when masturbating to porn - what was one a hot fucking scene with sexy participants is suddenly a horrible disgusting shameful act that you just witnessed.

I would suggest going down on your wife before you cum. You don't have to tell her you've cum, but maybe just as you're about to get to "the point of no return" quickly stop, let out some pleasurable noises, then quickly jump down, eat that pussy til she cums, then jump back up and keep going - hell, if you time it right, you both may be able to cum at the same time!

It's nice that sometimes there are still letters about kinky sex questions.

So my wife and I don't particularly want kids and are well protected on that front, but it turns out we both get off super hard if we mix into our usual sub/dom stuff that I am knocking her up, breeding her against her will etc. I mention this because we both know I'm not actually going to get her pregnant but we use our imagination a little, which is much easier when we are both horny and does a good job of fooling our junk. Seems like the LW needs to get himself and his wife off on the theoretical load in her pussy that he's eating then come after everyone has had their fun. Whenever one has an impossible or inconvenient kink, imagination comes to the rescue.

Bornwithabeard you got a beautiful mind.

I've been there and can recommend a good workaround. Get a small tupperware-style cup and ejaculate into it. Extra points for hotness if she's watching while you do so. Put the cup in the fridge (or freezer for longer periods). At the next occasion for sexy time, fetch the cup and (optionally) warm up its contents. Use the contents as you see fit -- she can put it in her pussy, on her tits, on her strapon, whatever.

For extra fun, you can spend a week or so storing multiple loads in the cup. A couple days of denial after that, and you'll be rarin' to go.

The best storage containers are those little black cups with a clear lid that some takeout restaurants use for giving you extra servings of -- haha -- sauce.